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writes:hi evry body;im 19 and i have never have a relationship with somone , now there is a guy who ask me to have a proper relationship with him and he told me that he loves me . but i dont now if he realy love me or not, and im afraid to accept im confused i want to get an experience and a good one but in the same time im scared because i want a perfect relationship and i think that i will never find it.when somone ask me to be her girl friend i dont now what to do or what to say i become so confused .can you tell me what to do? could i accept or not? Reply to this Question
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reader, moomoomoo  +, writes (26 July 2007):
 how can you get into a relationship without someone asking you........ in some way... implied or not..... it sounds to me you're waiting for one of those fairy tale moments, ones only in fantasy.
it's ultimately up to how you see the guy, if it is only the method that bugs you, then i think you're kinda being unreasonable. if you don't know him enough, why don't you just try dating first instead. and... since you've never had an experience, i think you should try to have one sometime, because experience = learning. you're 19 already, and its better to have some than none
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reader, sexi  +, writes (26 July 2007):
 Hi,Stop waiting for a perfect relationship because before you know it your life would have gone by and you would still be wating for the perfect relationship. You are scared to get into a relationship but how do you plan on knowing if the relationship is perfect if you havent experienced it or aren't willing to take the risk of entering into a relationship. Stop worrying about the perfect relationship just live life and enjoy what come with it. In the "love game", you would get hurt and sometimes do the hurting, that's what life is about.
Good luck, let me know what has happened.
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