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Why don't I get pleasure from didos?
Q. Hi, My question is why don't I get any pleasure from dildos? I'm a virgin, but I'd like to break my hymen beforehand and be more comfortable with penetration on my own before I decide to have sex. The thing is, I think I already have broken my hymen ...
A. 10 May 2009: You might not of broken it yet. But not everyone is into sex toys! They do nothing for me personally.
I wouldn't worry about breaking your hymen, just chill and one day you will naturally get involved with someone and it'll be all good.
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I've been having sore pains in my left breast, what could this be?
Q. ok ive been having sore pains in my breast. but only on my left one. now i just noticed that it is a dark brown color around my nipple and very sore.ppl say that it usually means ur prego but i just had my period and it ended ...
A. 10 May 2009: At your age, usually nothing to worry about. Me and my sister have had similar for years. Always on the same side too. I think there is a name for breast pain, but I dont know what it is. Its more likely something to do with hormones. Why it only ... (read in full...)
Married..travel 900 miles for a hook up with online woman?
Q. Ok I'm a 26 year old man, who has been married 6 years. I have within the last 6 months fallen into a strange situation with a girl I started talking to online. It started off with me just being horny, looking for a girl to talk dirty with, but ...
A. 9 May 2009: I am leaning towards what anon has said! And online 'relationships' are nothing like real life. You haven't had to pay the gas bill with her etc! Of course its exciting. But its fake. Its escapism from the real world for you, because you're ... (read in full...)
I saw her with a guy uglier than me and I don't feel bad
Q. OK I'll make it quick. I dated this girl for about 5 months, very pretty and cute. About three months into our relationship, things went a little sour when she told me she was missing her ex boyfrienda lot so we took a 2 week break from each other. ...
A. 9 May 2009: Oh dear. I think its good and I also think its normal that you have seen the guy and its made you feel a bit smug. Thats a good result! Without wanting to 'put out your bonfire' to put it politely lol beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I have dat... (read in full...)
My future wife to be is still frequenting chat rooms and dating sites!
Q. After 3 years together and making future plans, for the third time i have found my almost wife to be is still frequenting chatrooms,registering on dating sites and texting men from these (usualy younger). From day one she has denied doing anything ...
A. 8 May 2009: This woman doesn't sound ready to be exclusive with you, or anyone for that matter. In her 40's and seeking reassurance from strangers on the internet? I wouldn't take a gamble on her if I were in your shoes. The odds dont look good enough.
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Why doesn't he treat me like her?
Q. i've been talking to this guy for over two months now just msn and phone we are close we know alot about eachother and i do love him tbh he is like a good friend to but he doesn't want a relationship or anything.. hes 28 im 18 hes nearly going ...
A. 8 May 2009: I reakon its too soon to be going out on dates with other guys, if you are that cut up still. Not really fair on the new guy? But obviously its your choice.
Good luck, your ex sounds awful
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I never climax!
Q. since i been having sex with my boyfriend and i have never climaxed during or after the intercourse. i only climax or have an orgasm during the foreplay. im a bit worried coz he always reaches his climax and i have to always fake it. is it normal or ...
A. 30 April 2009: Stop faking, and accept that only 30% of women will orgasm during intercourse alone and the other 70% need other stimulation. If you fake it, you're not being true to either of you. Experiment a bit more and you might find you're one of the 30% in ... (read in full...)
Her ex just WILL NOT stop chasing her. Do I have a word? Or let her handle it?
Q. I am a 39 year old female that I have just married my wife Jan. 30th 2009. We got married in Connecticut. (legally) Well my wife has a friend that is her ex that is still in love with my wife. My wife has told her to quit emailing and texting ...
A. 29 April 2009: Exes can be a right pain can't they! If your wife doesn't think the ex is going to get the message, then maybe she wont mind you contacting her?
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Discharge problems for about 3 years..help!
Q. Sorry this is a health question, I do not know where else to ask. I have a discharge problem. It's been there for about three years now and is becoming very stressful. My discharge is extremely pasty and white. I know it is not normal. It does...
A. 29 April 2009: Unlikely. I had an abnormal result from my first pap test and had to have loop diathermy treatment. If the doc is only going to retest in a few months, it sounds like the changes that can right themselves, which is why they leave them alone and dont ... (read in full...)
Did he do this on the rebound?
Q. Me and my boyfriend just broke up. We had a rocky relationship which involved cheating for the first 8 months or so. After all of this, we sat down and came clean about everything we had done to be unfaithful, and decided to start fresh. Un...
A. 27 April 2009: From what you've written it doesn't sound like you two are compatible. It wasn't healthy and it wasn't working. Sometimes its better to walk away knowing you love someone but also knowing it wont work. Instead of being in a game of ping pong. If you ... (read in full...)
Is he taking it slow, or messing me about?
Q. i've been on a couple of dates with a guy - i really like him. we're both in our 30's. i met him online and after some wonderful correspondence we started going on dates. he's everything i'm looking for and we have a lot in common. when we're ...
A. 27 April 2009: I think he sounds very sensible. If you try rushing him, it could scare him away. Whats the rush, let things go at a slow pace, and you will get to know each other in a better way. You cant count online chatting, you cant get to know the real ... (read in full...)
A YEAR and I'm still not over him. Please help me on new ways to try?
Q. Hi, i need help. I am so love sick. I pine for the man that i love. We were together for 6 years. My heart was his the moment i 1st saw him. For me i could never love another the way that i love him. It consumes me. He does love me but not in the ...
A. 27 April 2009: I think what everyone has said makes a lot of sense, all I will add is its common to remember only the good times, not the bad, which is what has you tricked into thinking this guy is the bees knees. Its a classic and you need to write down the ... (read in full...)
I hate my dad because he cannot offer me the lavish lifestyle that has been my dream!
Q. hello dear cupid, i am 22 and i have a strange problem.... I hate my dad! i know he is my god and my caretaker...but still i hate him because he cannot offer me the lavish lifestyle that has been my dream although he has always provided me with the ...
A. 26 April 2009: Sorry, but I beg to differ, I think you are being childish. If you want cars etc, and feel closed in where you live, then go out and get something else! You're 22 not 12. If your dad is the stay at home type and he's happy, thats his choice. ... (read in full...)
Adult dating site dilemma!
Q. Hello People, Here is the story:- About 3 years ago I joined an adult dating site. Mainly as a way to see if I could have sex, just recreationally with no strings. Like minded people looking for the same thing. Anyway after much searching of...
A. 26 April 2009: This one sounds a bit of a bunny boiler to me? Temper tantrum or what. Could be a bit issued up. Maybe join a dating site specific to your needs? Quite often women on dating sites are looking for Mr right. You only want to be Mr right now. And there ... (read in full...)
Advice on cleaning up the bikini line?
Q. I just wanted some advice on removing hair from the bikini line, cause its really affecting my self confidence at pools and stuff. Ive tried shaving my bikini line but it gets red and bumpy where i have shaved. Going to a professional place isn't re...
A. 26 April 2009: You're probably better off using Nair or something like that if you haven't already tried it, one for sensitive skin, just paste it on, leave 5 minutes and wash it off. Takes the hair from the root. Avoids shaving rash.
Other than that or a trip... (read in full...)
He said he doesn't come to see me often because of the distance... could this be true?
Q. We live more than an hour away. We met online 3 years ago. It took a while for us to meet in person. We hit it off immediately. The first kiss was amazing. We parted our ways and spoke online more always intending to have another date. Six ...
A. 25 April 2009: Hi
The guy sounds a playa in the least and confused at the most! He probably does really like you, but is a bit of a relist and sees the distance as a problem. I dont know your living situation anymore than anyone else, but is it likely you two coul... (read in full...)
Is he serious when he says he fancies me?
Q. how do u no if a boy is joking wen they say they fancy you?...
A. 25 April 2009: lol If I had a dollar for every guy ive heard that said they really fancy someone, when what the really fancied was a roll in the hay, I would be a millionaire! Simple answer is you cant tell if someone is genuine about fancying/liking/wanting to ... (read in full...)
I've found out that my boyfriend of 1 year has been texting and ringing another girl and telling her he's totally single.
Q. ok, I've found out that my boyfriend of 1 year has been texting and ringing another girl and telling her he's totally single. he met her over the internet and its been going on about 2 months. he's planning to go meet her in 2 weeks time. to mak...
A. 25 April 2009: He has got cold feet obviously. Not a nice thought, but blatently obvious if he is arranging to meet someone new. Not sure if emailing the girl is the best move, but then whats to say he wont do the same thing to her? She obviously doesn't know the ... (read in full...)
We have a baby; he keeps doing drugs. Help!
Q. my man keeps doing drugs he says he will stop. Than 3 months later he dose it again we have a baby together i really want to make this work. What can i do to try and help him i love him. And i hate him. He breaks my heart. I dont know. Should ...
A. 25 April 2009: The trouble with people on drugs is they can lie through their back teeth for England! My brother was pretty much hooked on cocaine, and was the one that told me that. If they want you to believe something, they will go out of their way to lie. But ... (read in full...)
Does my teacher have feelings for me?
Q. Hey guys, I know I've asked this question before but now with a few more leads. I think he has caught onto me used to liking him so he has been giving out the same signs aswell lately. I can't bare to look at him during class anymore because ...
A. 25 April 2009: I agree with anon, no one can know but him if he fancies you. And maybe he does, if he is only late 20's its not beyond the realms of possibility. But he's a teacher and would be an utter fool to risk that. There are codes of ethics teachers, ... (read in full...)
Discharge problems for about 3 years..help!
Q. Sorry this is a health question, I do not know where else to ask. I have a discharge problem. It's been there for about three years now and is becoming very stressful. My discharge is extremely pasty and white. I know it is not normal. It does...
A. 25 April 2009: I had this before and like you, went to the docs. Had tests, and was told there is nothing wrong. I was given a cream at one point, I cant remember what it was called, but it had to be inserted in a tube syringle type thing for a week? Supposedly it ... (read in full...)
My daughter drinks too much and is angry with me, what can be done? She dislikes counselling.
Q. My daughter is 31 years-old with three children (all of them have different fathers, not sure if that matters) she is still with the father of the youngest one. The father of the other two were both physically and emotionally abusive. I am really ...
A. 25 April 2009: I was going to mention the jealousy, then noticed you had said it yourself. It probably isn't you putting across that you are better than her, but her probably believing that. Of course you had boyfriends when she was younger, you were young ... (read in full...)
FWB situation I need help with
Q. i decided after four months of being in a friends with benefits relationship to end it because i was getting attached and he wasn't. we had a great time but i couldn't continue on. so i told him over text that i got the feeling he didn't care ...
A. 25 April 2009: Thats possibly to do with what Uncle Phil was saying, fwb is sex. I'm not even sure if most the time friendship comes into it. So if you're stopping the benefits, he's outta here kinda thing. Still agree with you though, its out of order to treat ... (read in full...)
I'm very confused and scared
Q. hi I'm a pakistani and i had an arranged marriage with my cousin. I didn't like him then and i don't like him now. But still i got married to him out of fear of living alone. Now the problem is he doesn't talk to me like a husband should talk to his ...
A. 25 April 2009: This is quite a serious problem you're in. I dont think I could advise you on it, I dont know about anyone else? But I do know there are helplines for situations like yours, so if I was you I would google for them, and contact them. Apparently they ... (read in full...)
Wounded by a heartless man
Q. I am so tired of this selfish, heartless man ive been messing with him for two years and i just lost a baby i feel hes been cheating on me the whole time now he comes in my house at 5am and claim been over nephews im so tired of this man liein, ...
A. 25 April 2009: If your instincts are telling you he is cheating and you're getting these calls, why aren't you running as fast as your feet will carry you?
It smacks of lack of confidence. It must be like being on a rollercoaster all the time, you will end up maki... (read in full...)
It okay to date a different guy every week?
Q. dear cupid, i wrote you before, my boyfriend(ex now) was the one that said he loved me but wasn't in love with me. i ended up breaking up with him. he quit calling as much. basically avoiding me. but still called enough to string me along. he sai...
A. 25 April 2009: Of course it is! You're not exclusive with anyone from the first date!
Go careful if they try anything on obviously, no point in jumping into bed with every Tom, Dick n Harry, but even then, if you really want to do that, just make sure you're hone... (read in full...)
She goes out and leaves me when she hears her ex is around?
Q. Is it right for a man to be quiet when his wife leave him alone in the kitchen to go outside when she heard her ex-boyfriend was around ?and is it right for her to tell the husband that this is her house she can bring in anybody she likes or talk to ...
A. 25 April 2009: It doesn't sound right no, but obviously we only hear one side of the story. In some ways she is right that she should be able to talk to who she wants to. I wouldn't have someone dictating to me who I speak to, and I do get on as mates with a ... (read in full...)
FWB situation I need help with
Q. i decided after four months of being in a friends with benefits relationship to end it because i was getting attached and he wasn't. we had a great time but i couldn't continue on. so i told him over text that i got the feeling he didn't care ...
A. 25 April 2009: Thats tight!
Probably the reason why women cant deal with fwb situations as well as guys is because we always get attached, most of the time men dont! He really didn't want anything serious, and it sounds like he was honest about that. But to cut ... (read in full...)
Just got dumped and want to get over him!
Q. I just recently got dumped and I was really in love with this person and I still am. I do not know how to get over him and I wanted to know wat I can do to get over this?...
A. 25 April 2009: Oh hunni its one of the worst feelings ever isn't it. I have felt it twice in my life and really dont want to go through it again! Both times it took me about a year to get back to normal. Not much comfort for you I know, but everyone is different ... (read in full...)
She borrowed money took forever to pay and now wants help again!
Q. Hi all, The issue is that I have friend. We are just friends. She comes to me to help her in her course work. I give her some help. One day, She then told me that she was ill and asked if I could lend her some money. Naturally, I lent her the...
A. 25 April 2009: I would opt for option 1. But never lend anyone money! I made that mistake before, and it took pretty much a year to get it back and a lot of stress! It wrecks friendships big time. If she continues to be a messer, letting you down, I would then let ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he treat me like her?
Q. i've been talking to this guy for over two months now just msn and phone we are close we know alot about eachother and i do love him tbh he is like a good friend to but he doesn't want a relationship or anything.. hes 28 im 18 hes nearly going ...
A. 25 April 2009: Well first off I will just say, would you really want to go any further with this guy, knowing that he is treating the woman he is supposed to be marrying so badly??? If he can treat her so bad, how is he going to treat you well? I'm not you, and... (read in full...)
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