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writes:I just recently got dumped and I was really in love with this person and I still am. I do not know how to get over him and I wanted to know wat I can do to get over this? Reply to this Question
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reader, mima  +, writes (25 April 2009):
 hey lolisboring, i dont think she should even think of going back to him. love lasts with respect and i believe whoever breaks up with one, doesnt respect them that much. so i think she should live on without him unless there is more to the breakup. i.e not his fault, he just had to. but there are better guys out there.
they say the best remedy for heartbreak is "get a new lover" try giving someone a chance as soon as possible. u wud realise he is not all u cud have.
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reader, LOLisBORING  +, writes (25 April 2009):
Well, if you still really love him try telling him how you feel. If he's in total jerk mode the best thing to do is just let him cool off for a while. Then sit down and have a chat. If he still is being a complete and utter twat, try not to think about him. You'll soon find someone much better, and you won't even remember what he looks like!
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reader, Mikados are lush! +, writes (25 April 2009):
 Oh hunni its one of the worst feelings ever isn't it. I have felt it twice in my life and really dont want to go through it again! Both times it took me about a year to get back to normal. Not much comfort for you I know, but everyone is different of course. You have youth on your side and I expect getting out and mixing with people will help you sort this a lot quicker than others.
Sounds a horrible way of putting it but I do think to a certain extent putting love and affection to one side, that relationships are a lot percent habit. I dont know how long you were with the guy, but once you have got into another life and lose being used to spending you time with him, you will feel so much better. I do remember what it was like being with those 2 people I split with, but it was another life and I dont miss them anymore as I have a new life now.
Which basically means time is your friend, and getting busy!
Take care of you. Its gut wrenching at the moment, and much like giving up smoking/drinking etc, you really need to do the cold turkey! I dont believe there is any quick fix :o(
Take care
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