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I never climax!

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Question - (30 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 April 2009)
A female South Africa age 36-40, *-otic Angel writes:

since i been having sex with my boyfriend and i have never climaxed during or after the intercourse. i only climax or have an orgasm during the foreplay. im a bit worried coz he always reaches his climax and i have to always fake it. is it normal or is he or i doing something wrong.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2009):

Don't fake it otherwise he'll think he's doing a fantastic job of pleasuring you and nothing will improve.

The 'G' spot, located about an inch or so inside your vagina behind your pelvic bone, is the sensitive bit in there, some say it's connected to the clitoris by a few nerves. If you can get him to cause some friction there with his penis there's every chance you'll experience a vaginal orgasm.

If you lie on your back and he kneels down in front of you with his penis inside you, then leans back while you move your hips up and down it will add extra pressure to the area. He won't necessarily have to move at all, and you can control the tempo. If need be, place a folded pillow under your backside to lift your hips a bit higher off the bed to try to get the 'angle of attack' right.

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A female reader, Mikados are lush! United Kingdom +, writes (30 April 2009):

Mikados are lush! agony auntStop faking, and accept that only 30% of women will orgasm during intercourse alone and the other 70% need other stimulation. If you fake it, you're not being true to either of you. Experiment a bit more and you might find you're one of the 30% in the end anyway.

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