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writes:I am a 39 year old female that I have just married my wife Jan. 30th 2009. We got married in Connecticut. (legally) Well my wife has a friend that is her ex that is still in love with my wife. My wife has told her to quit emailing and texting her. I know that for a fact. I know my wife loves me and only me. Well my wife got an email from one of her ex's friends saying that her ex is sayoing how my wife is saying that she wants to be with her and not me. Well my wife showed me the email and I had it sent to see who sent it and from where. It came back that the ex sent it. (go figure) So now she keeps texting my wife saying that she didnt send it and that she is happy for us and that she only wants to be friends. She sends comments on her myspace and to her email saying why my wife dont talk to her anymore and why they cant be friends. (well I wonder...lol) So my question is "would I be wrong to send her an email or call her and tell her what is up and to leave my wife alone. Or should I just let my wife keep handling it. I just want it over. LOL.
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reader, Mikados are lush!  +, writes (29 April 2009):
 Exes can be a right pain can't they! If your wife doesn't think the ex is going to get the message, then maybe she wont mind you contacting her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): OkaY DIDN'T YOU KNOW THAT THERE IS A BLOCK NUMBER SEETTING ON ALL PHONES! Why don't you just add her number to the block list. Delete her as a friend on myspace and make her mail go to junk. You should talk to your wife about this and say thatyou would like to ring her and tell her to go away
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): First, congrats on getting married:) It seems like your wife is keeping you informed of what's going on and has tried to make this stalker stop but needs a tiny bit of help. Maybe, if your wife says it's okay call this other gal and tell her you appreicate her offer of friendship but will have to ask that she never call/text/email again or you'll both get a TRO against her. It may sound a little tough but she's not understanding PLEASE at all. Good luck and don't let her spoil things for you two.
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