He left me because he wasn't able to commit just yet, should I stay in touch till he's ready?
Q. hey, I really need some help. I am a 15 year old gay boy and my boyfriend of two years left me a couple of weeks ago. Me and my boyfriend where incredibly close. We liked the same things, we hAd the same sense of humor and we where totaly on love, ...
A. 22 October 2008: My friend, you are only 15 years old and you have plenty of time in front of you dont try to end it now. Some relationships, come and go and those that are lucky just stay. But always remember that everything happen for a reason. Mayve he wasnt ... (read in full...)
I'm meeting this guy for the first time...what do I do?
Q. ok, i have been chatting to this guy online (yes i am gay) and have fallen deeply in love with him. we are meeting soon and i dont know where to start with anything, especially things like do we kiss, hold hands etc. what do i do.. thanks...
A. 22 October 2008: Well you gona meet him for the first but that doesnt mean you have kiss and do everything else on your first date. Sure i know you really like him, but the first time you meet him try to see what he likes to do. It is not all about sex.... (read in full...)
I fell down the stairs at school... AND HE CAUGHT ME!!!
Q. Hey everyone it's me again and my problems are growing rapidly. Today I told one of my best friends that I was gay and she said that's cool. I also told her about the guy I liked and she said he's cute and I should make a move. Should I? Again I'm ...
A. 22 October 2008: Give it more time, dont rush in to it.... (read in full...)
How can I control my panic attacks??
Q. I hope someone can help.Every now and then,i get panic attacks.I think about death,and not being able to see family or friends again,e.t.c,and start shaking,get out of breath,and a couple of times,have even screamed with fright. How can i ...
A. 13 October 2008: my opinion for you is that whenever you feel like that, try to get on your knee and pray God, he has answer for every one. ... (read in full...)
Does a girl have regular periods in pregnancy or not?
Q. Hey Guys, Me and my Girlfriend regularly have sex. Please note that "I DO NOT INSERT THE COMPLETE PENIS INSIDE" YOu can say that only the head of the penis goes inside and i withdraw before exploding. Now, my MAJOR CONCERN is I want to confirm ...
A. 13 October 2008: lol, No if she still having her period, she is not pregnant. But keep on mind a precum can make a woman pregnant so becareful the next time.... (read in full...)
Love triangle gone wrong... Some advice, please?
Q. I was dating a girl who was the seven year girlfriend of the brother of a three year roommate of mine. He is also a co-worker with me. The girl I was seeing was dumped by my friends brother and had been apart for 3 months. We started seeing each...
A. 13 October 2008: all i can say dont worry, give it time. At least you have done your part and say your sorry.... (read in full...)
I want to spare my boyfriend the heartache when I die! Should I let him down gently by now? Or continue being with him?
Q. My boyfriend loves me and i love my boyfriend more than anything else in the world and i want to spend the rest of my life together with him (yes i am gay!) I have an inherited disease called Cystic Fibrosis and i wont live to be beyong my mid 20...
A. 13 October 2008: reading your add has touch so much me a lot, and im so and so sorry to hear that about you but listen dont let your boyfriend go, if he wants to be there with you untill end of time let him be. and he wants to do it because he loves you. If you dont ... (read in full...)
How do I come out to my friends without losing them?
Q. hey, I am 15 year old gay boy, and I really want to come 'out' to y close friends. But I am worried that if I do I might loose them. I just not sure what to do. Can anyone help. Like how should I do it. Please!!!! ...
A. 13 October 2008: well, my question is, why do you wana come out ? and again if you think you have enough closet time i will say go for it. and if your friend dont like you for who you are, well they were not your real friends... (read in full...)
Straight guy turned on by gay porn!!!
Q. i'm a normal, straight, 20 year old guy. I've had a couple of girlfriends before, and have one currently. Recently i've been getting attracted to gay porn. It turns me on much more than the straight stuff, so i'm beginning to wonder if i'm turning ...
A. 30 May 2008: Well I say go for it. It always good to experience a new thing. But it won't turne you gay all the way, otherwise I would of be. But no I still love pussy. ... (read in full...)
He won't seem to make his mind up, please help me!
Q. Ok, here goes..... I was in a relationship with another guy for 2 and a half years, we had a great time together, but it now turns out that over time his feelings have changed towards men and he is straight, so we broke up! I have now found a...
A. 30 May 2008: Nothing to worry maybe he never been in relationship before. As for your ex, he aint str8 he just gave you an escuse that he can get rid of you.... (read in full...)
I'm too scared to admit my sexuality
Q. Hi cupid,i think im gay but im too scared to admit it to anyone. I go on gay chat but i woulnd't ever tell anyone? I'm only 14 and like girls and boys but boys more what should I do? Also I had sex with a boy!And now afraid he might tell someo...
A. 30 May 2008: Listen you will have plenty time to tell them but in the meantime enjoye ur teenage time. As for your friend, if he is not out himself, he is not gona tell that he has sex with you. So don't be afraid.... (read in full...)
Have I just turned gay?
Q. I have a problem. I like someone so much! I have done for 3 whole years, but I've been too shy to tell them. They were seeing someone a few years back and just yesterday..HE is seeing somone else. What do I do? I was going to say I like you but then...
A. 30 May 2008: No need to say sorry bro. I don't think u should tell him cause that happen to me, after told someone that I grown up with last January till now I never heard from him again. I told him cause I thought he was a good friend and have an understanding ... (read in full...)
The magic has gone in my relationship, it seems. Recently I keep thinking about another guy, what should I do?
Q. omg please will someone help me, i really need some advise, so please please please ! read this for me, thank you. ok so ive been going out with this guy for nearly two years (he is 21, i'm 19) and although we had a rough start in the relationship...
A. 30 May 2008: You don't want t leave your boyfriend just because a stranger that have a lot in comment with you. Plus he has a boyfriend, what you planning on doing, you gona ask him 2 break up 2 his bf ? List man the best thing to is to talk to your boyfriend ... (read in full...)
What is the best way to "come out"?
Q. What's is the best way to be "OUT"? I'm afraid to tell everyone that I am a bisexual? Or worse, a gay? Anyone can help me?...
A. 30 May 2008: Well in my opinion I think if you come out now there is gona be a lot of change between you and ur friends and ur family. Before you wana do that, you better think twice. As for me, I'm not gona say I will never come out, but as for now I don't ... (read in full...)
Bi and confused!
Q. I am a 16 year old guy who is Bi. I have a Girlfriend and i have recently started seeing this guy. I dont know what to do, i know i am cheating before anyone says it, and i know i am a horrible person. But what should i do. I am very confused...
A. 30 May 2008: Well in my opinion, I will not tell you to break up either one of them. But you thinking on doing it, make sure you think twice. I'm almost in the same situation as yours except I'm still talking the girl she has answer me yet and I love my ... (read in full...)
What can I do to make him trust me again?
Q. My partner and I are going through some tough things. We've been dating since Sept 2006 and I did wrong to him. I always said I would never cheat on him n I did. I kissed his best friend and talked to another guy behind his back. We weren't a couple ...
A. 30 May 2008: I feel you bro. Mine was worst than yours. A month 2 weeks after I started dating my boyfriend I had sex with another with another guy on the I was suppose to with him for a date. He kept on calling me but I didn't pick and I sent him a text telling ... (read in full...)
How do I come out to my mother without it being awkward?
Q. I recently came out to a female friend and she told me I should just be open about it and not be scared of what people think of me because of that. She suggested that the only people I should care about if I told them would be my family. Now part ...
A. 20 April 2008: Like my boyfriend always say, mother always knows. Yea sure it is scary to tell her but are you really ready for that challenge? You do know there is gona be a lot of talk. Like me I don't think I will ever tell my parents, I just want to be a ... (read in full...)
What should I do? Can she even get pregnant from pre-ejaculate fludis from one sexual experience?
Q. I don't know if this really falls under the "love and relationship" category, but here goes: I was spending some time with a girl. We had sex once. Now, I am unable to use a condom. Everytime it goes on, I go down. I've tried different sizes,...
A. 20 April 2008: Yea she can get pregnant cause same thing happen to a friend of mine. The best way to find out if the baby is yours is to go to a health clinic and have a test.... (read in full...)
Now that my boyfriend changed his password I don't even want to see him! Why?
Q. Since my boyfriend change his cell phone password, it got me thinking that he is hidding something from me or he is cheating on me. That situation make me think act different when I'm with him, every time I see him or with him, it get me wonder. ...
A. 19 April 2008: I do understand but it bothers me cause he has my emaill adress,my hi5 and my cell phone password while in have his cell phone.... (read in full...)
Should we call it quits if he's not sure if we should move in together?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years i'm moving out in January and he still doesnt know if we're ready to live together? If he's still unsure after two years do you think we should call it quits?? Thanks!...
A. 19 April 2008: Why would you come it quit? Not everyone wana move with her boyfriend or his girlfriend. You never know everything happen for a reason. You should be happy about cause do you know how couple that move in together and they don't even last 2 or 3 ... (read in full...)
Attracted to my little sister but I don't think it's wrong!
Q. So I am attracted to my little sister and I don't think it is wrong. i always have an erection around her and we are home alone a lot. she is just too sexy to ignore. i want to have sex with her but i don't think she wants it with me. if i can't ...
A. 19 April 2008: Are you insane brother, she is your litle sister how can you think of something like that? Bro you need jesus. I tell you what to do whenever feeling come take your bible and start reading. I'll pray for you brother.... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my brother's girlfriend, what do I do?
Q. For just over 4 years now I have been in love with my brother's girlfriend and have no idea of what to do. I know that she feels the same way about me because two years and half ago she confessed her feelings to me and for six months we were seeing ...
A. 19 April 2008: Well in my opinion I don't think you should be with her. She is like a sister to you she has 4 kids now and they are all ur nephews or nieces. I can understand a lithe if she didn't have any kids with brother like I said just a litle but she does. ... (read in full...)
21 and confused, am I gay?
Q. I'm a 21 year old guy but I'm just confused and lost at this stage of my life. For a couple of years now I've always found myself having a preference with checking out guys, I also check out girls but its at a different level. Like most of my male ...
A. 16 April 2008: i dont know if you should tell a close friend about it cause you dont know how that close friend going to react. Im saying that because because i lost one of my best annd best friend like that. When i told him i think i have feeling for guy and ... (read in full...)
My gay lover goes back and forth between me and his girlfriend. He says he is choosing her. Should I try to get him back?
Q. Hi, I have been in a relationship with a guy who is 9 years younger than I am. As far as I know, I have been gay since my teen days, although I had one serious "relationship" with a friend in the past, who eventually moved on and got married. I met ...
A. 14 April 2008: Well if he says it is over, I think this time, it is time for you to move on. Don't waste ur time cause the same thing might happen again.... (read in full...)
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