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writes:hey, I really need some help. I am a 15 year old gay boy and my boyfriend of two years left me a couple of weeks ago. Me and my boyfriend where incredibly close. We liked the same things, we hAd the same sense of humor and we where totaly on love, we had sex countless times and gave each other oral. When he left me I had a complete emotional breakdown. I tried calling him a bunch of times but all I got was his answering machine.After a few days I became very depressed. I locked my self I my room and didn't eat. After 5 days I attempted suicide. And well It failed because I am still alive now. This is what I need the help with. I am still depressed and suicidal and have to see a shrink every day but u am worried that I will never find anyone like him again. We where the percé t match.he said he broke up with me becuase he wasn't ready to comit to anything and he wasn't ready for this. Of course he said it is nothing to do with me. So...... Should I try and get back in touch with him and stay friends until he is ready to vomit or should I just let him go. I don't think I could just let him go though.Someone please help!!!!!!!!
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reader, Merisier  +, writes (22 October 2008):
My friend, you are only 15 years old and you have plenty of time in front of you dont try to end it now. Some relationships, come and go and those that are lucky just stay. But always remember that everything happen for a reason. Mayve he wasnt the one for you, and mayve he is and he just want some time along to thing about it. In my opinion is that whenever you think of him, call your other friends and im sure you do have other friends, just call them go and hang out with them, or try to read a book just to keep your mind busy. If he is not the one, dont wrry because someone is outhere for you and you havent find him yet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks yum yum you are very helpful. My ex boyfriend is also 15
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reader, yum yum  +, writes (15 October 2008):
 Hi dear, I understand what your going through, really!.
I know a friend that went through a very similer experience of breaking up with his boyfriend and he got very very very depressed. He had many thoughts of suicide and then went also to see a shrink..lol. However time seemed to heel to the pain for him. You must be a brave boy at your age to come out. You proberly also have a high level of acceptance, which is really good. Many teenagers at your age have depressions. However you have a good reason to be depressed. This is a hard time for you in your life, things will get better just stay calm and pace yourself. You still have your life ahead of you so try and not worry too much about breaking up (it happens in life). You are bound to fall in love agian in your life. You should wait until he comes back to you. Don't ever be too pushy because that's how you can damage a relationship. play it be ear. If you don't mind me asking you how old is your boy friend?. Maybe then I could give you some more advice. take care and good luck!!.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008): Hey mate - just stand back and if he is later ready to be committed with you he'll get in touch. It might take a while but get yourself back together and if not him one day you will find someone just as great or even better.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (14 October 2008):
 Do not contact him, let him contact you first. Stay in therapy, stay busy. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionsorry for the spelling mistakes I was in a massive rush. When I said vomit in the last sentence I meant commit. Sorry bout that.
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