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30-35,
*otmoney13
writes:Hey everyone it's me again and my problems are growing rapidly. Today I told one of my best friends that I was gay and she said that's cool. I also told her about the guy I liked and she said he's cute and I should make a move. Should I? Again I'm still terrified but today I uhm.. fell down the stairs at school then he caught me in his arms!!!! OMFG!!!!! I said you caught me. He said you think I'd let you get hurt. WHATTT!!!!????? So is it the right time? for me to let him know?
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reader, dudeguy +, writes (2 December 2008):
IS HE GAY!!! if hes not he might beat u up
seriously u gotta know
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reader, Merisier +, writes (22 October 2008):
Give it more time, dont rush in to it.
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reader, yum yum  +, writes (16 October 2008):
 Its hard for me to judge whether you should tell him or not.If you decide to tell him and he rejets you, you could end up hurt and humiliated however there is a chance that he likes you to. I guess you should wait a little bit untill you get to know him a bit better. Ask him first what he thinks about gays...etc. If he shows some more sighns that he likes you I guess then you should make a move. Good luck!!
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (16 October 2008):
 this is too good an opportunity to waste, get him soon! go on!
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reader, lotmoney13 +, writes (16 October 2008):
lotmoney13 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you everyone i'm really thankful for all the advice and i really dont think its the right time. so for any of you that are intrested in solving anymore of my problems feel free to look and answer my other questions LOL!!!!1
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008): hey I am a 15 year old gay boy. I am out and proud to everyone. However before I was out and only my best friend knew, I fell in love with this massivly hot guy in my class. I was so nervous about telling him how I felt but I was almost certain he was gay aswell. I lost my school hat, and because I go to a private school it is an expensive hat - $80. He found it and returned it to me. I used the situation as an opportunity to tell him how I feel. I told him that I was gay and that I had feelings for him. I said that he was also gay and that he has the same feelings and he wanted to be more than just friends with me. We both came out of the closet to everyone that we are gay. We are now happily going out and we are totaly in love.
So I say find a good moment and just say it. If you think to much about it it will make it harder for you to actualy say it so take a deep breath and then just blurt it out.
Good luck
Xoxoxo
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (15 October 2008):
Sounds like a little romance movie. Before you make any sort of move on him you need to find out if he is gay or straight. As you don't want to get hurt. If he gives off the right vibes to you then sure go for it. What's the worst that could happen, he says no. Well then you find more fish in the sea but if you know he is gay and he gives off the I'm interested vibe, then you could well carry on your little romance. Who know's where it could lead? Be careful and please make sure he is not straight. If you're not sure, ask your friends, maybe they could question him a bit.
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