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So did I actually have an orgasm ?

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Question - (5 February 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 5 February 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

my bf and i have been having sex for about three months now an i had never came but he said he thought i did the other night because apparently my vagina got suddenly hotter and i got soo much wetter, but i never felt anything spectacular like people say. so did i actually have an orgasm ?

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A male reader, Faraday United Kingdom +, writes (5 February 2010):

Faraday agony auntHave you ever masturbated and made yourself orgasm? It sounds like you haven't experienced an orgasm at all, yet. As has already been said, you would KNOW!

May I suggest that you try to bring yourself off by stimulating your clit on your own, when relaxed and maybe turned on by erotica or even porn, and see how it feels?

Then, when next your bf is in you, reach down and play with your clit, as you have very few nerve endings inside your pussy and are unlikely to cum just by penetration alone - most women don't.

Good luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2010):

no you didnt. when you do your bf will not have to tell you. i dont care if you are wet to your ankles, if your brain doesnt expode into fireworks and you didnt bump your head on the doors of heaven,and when you came back down to earth you were aware someone wass moaning and then you realized it was you.... you didnt O. pure ectsasy. mal

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2010):

Nah that sounds like you were just getting a lot more excited. It's a good start! When you do have an orgasm, some guys will notice your vagina muscles kind of tighten and loosen a few times. And you'll know for sure that you're having one!

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A male reader, maybe-not Canada +, writes (5 February 2010):

maybe-not agony auntno you didn't once you do, you wont question the feeling that you got. you will know it.

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A female reader, junebug81409 United States +, writes (5 February 2010):

maybe you just got wet.i dont know how you wouldnt know if you had one.i know i know and all my friends know and im pretty sure you would know.its a feeling like amazing...hard for me to explain but honey your time will come.and hopfully your va jay jay is warm feeling.lol its not normal for it to be cold..good luck

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