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*luesky34
writes:My husband and I have been married for 10 yrs.he's had 3 affairs that I know of! Should I walk away,or try to work @ it again??
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reader, Rafaella  +, writes (5 February 2010):
You only have one life to live, don't waste your time on people who do not respect you, who are selfish and immature... I don't understand why people commit and get married when they obviously are not committment type people... He will never change...HE WILL NOT!!
Dont waste your precious time on this man... you deserve a lot better... you have to teach men how to treat you...well fact is, what he has learned over these years is that its ok to cheat on you (he does this time and time again, because he can) and because he thinks you will never leave!
Well prove him wrong :-) Pack his bags and kick him out of the house ASAP....And enjoy your single life until you find a good man who will put you on the pedestal... you deserve that!
Take Care...
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reader, Cutie 54 +, writes (5 February 2010):
I think you should stay with him. The dating world is not good. Trust me you don't want to start over. Keep your guard up and introduce him to the lord. People can change. You just have to point him in the right direction. I will pray for you..
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reader, Screw Up +, writes (5 February 2010):
I think you should try to work it out with him. Just keep your guard up!! My husband has done the same thing to me and I tried the dating other people and none of them worked out. I was actually treated alot worse. So, I am now back with my husband and everything between us is WONDERFUL!!! He has found god and now I couldn't be happier. I think people can change if you give them a chance. Once Tiger Woods get off his "high horse" I think he will be ok also.
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reader, LUFC  +, writes (5 February 2010):
 walk away hun, hes done it before he'll do it again
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reader, Not My Name +, writes (5 February 2010):
 What is the point of working on it if you are the only one doing it? It is fairly clear your husband isn't.
As hard as it is, your better off walking away now and giving yourself the opportunity to meet someone who would be committed to you properly, not just on paper.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2010): sunshine,, pack his bags and he can leave.
You married a serial cheater. (too bad they aren't branded 'cheater' on their forheads so women would know.
You deserve better, your ego deserves better, your self-esteem deserves better, your self-confidence deserves better.
Once is survivable but 3 times?? Your *ahem* 'husband' has all the morals and loyalty of a dog in heat.
It will not be easy but, you deserve better and by you sticking in the current situation you are only harming yourself and your future relationships. If it hasn't happened already,, you will view all men the same way as you view the 'dog in heat' and trust no man ever. There are very decent men in the world and you are missing out on a good fulfilling life.
Stop cheating yourself and some very nice deserving man who you WILL meet and learn what devotion/respect/love/friend/lover/etc.. really means.
There are men who understand those qualities and are willing to show you what they mean.
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reader, bluesky34 +, writes (5 February 2010):
bluesky34 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm totally grateful for your timely response! I never even thought abt my husband & tiger woods! Thanks for the vote of confidence, I do deserve better. I luv him, but I will have to luv him from a distance!!
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reader, junebug81409 +, writes (5 February 2010):
walk away u deserve so much better.have u seen the news latey?how do u feel about tiger woods.that he is an a**hole huh?thats gonna be u and ur husband except that u know about the affairs.im not trying to be mean i really feel for u and give u my best of luck but i dont see how u even stay........im married of course i understand i probly would have stayed to but i cant even image the pain ur in and the things u had to go thru with this man u really need to walk away.im so sorry.i wish u the best of luck and wish u happiness.
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