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writes:My girlfriend is currently home schooled and her mom is planning on signing her out i ask her all the time not to drop out to finish school and also meet better ppl while shes in high school i dont want her missing out on the experience, I feel like its going to affect our future together and everytime I ask her to try and finish she doesnt have any motivation to and she doesnt like me talking about it. It feels like she gets mad because i care. What can i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, visione +, writes (4 February 2010):
 This would be a relationship breaker for me, but it depends on your views... does education mean a lot to you? It does to me, so something like this would drive me away. If she continuously avoids the subject, I'm sorry but there is not much you can do. She needs to motivate herself to do these things. If education isn't important to her, then that's her lifestyle - it doesn't mean you should settle for it.
Is she sure she wants to drop out completely? Does she have any thoughts about continuing it later? Non-traditional students (people who enter college older than most college students) aren't uncommon. But for right now you should think about yourself and what you want, do what is best for you.. you can only influence her so much in her *own* decision.
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reader, junebug81409 +, writes (4 February 2010):
Your looking out for the best of her and she cant even listen and give u some respect u is so rude.honestly if she dont care what u have to say than i would dump her and find someone who cares what u say and feel.sorry
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