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writes:My friend only talks to me when he doesn't know its me? I just started AIM and added him. He kept asking who it was and I didn't want to till him knowing if I did he would never chat with me. I wanted so much to talk to him but he never understands me. How can a friend e so close and never want to talk to you? He talks to me at school but I'm not going to talk to him because Its the 1 year since my first dog died and it still affects me so much but he never understands. No one can really understand how I feel. I feel like I could cry if I talked about it. The fact that he doesn't care makes me want to forget him but I really like him and value his friendship even though I always forgive him. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, junebug81409 +, writes (3 February 2010):
honey if he dont care about how are hurting then thats not a good friend.the older u get the more people change.i hated school bcuz everyone seemed to change for the worst.but try and talk to him and just be honest to him and let him know how u are feeling.if he doesnt care then i feel u should find a new friend.im so sorry.best of luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni have known him for 2 years and we almost hungout of school twice.
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reader, junebug81409 +, writes (2 February 2010):
i would just give him some space for a while and see if he comes up to u and talks to u.if he dont and he is mean to u then its time to tell him ur done and it hurts but u want true friends honey not mean ones.i am very sorry for ur lost with ur beloved dog.i have one and i cry just thinking bout her pasting away so i understand.if u wanna talk get ahold of me.im sorry if i didnt help that much but u deserve better treatment then what he is giving u.
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reader, llr113 +, writes (2 February 2010):
I don't understand why he chats with you at school and not on AIM? How long have you known him and have you guys ever hung out outside of school? Well to answer your question I would need more details. You could test the friendship by asking him to help you with something simple and see if he. Agrees. Friends like to help eachother out. I am sorry to hear about your dog, however a guy probably isn't going to sympathize with you that much unless he's more of the sensitive type.
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