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reader, The Realist  +, writes (5 February 2010):
 Spend time with this guy and if you even find that you are attracted to his flaws. If you're just feeling butterflies and don't know him very well then I would say that it's not love but it is the curiosity of what could come out of being with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionit's cause I feel butterflys in my stomach when i see him and i wanted so advice.
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reader, The Realist +, writes (5 February 2010):
It should be a feeling of unconditional love, a feeling where you would do anything to help the person out even if its tough love. Its hard to say exactly what you will feel but I found that love with my current gf and realizing that at any hour of the night I'd do anything for her or anyone she cares about. Don't let anyone tell you your too young to find love either.
The thing I can say for sure is it will be a very unique feeling and it will probably not come in one day.
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reader, junebug81409  +, writes (5 February 2010):
i know at your age your gonna have puppy love. lust. but at your age you can fall in love. im 21 and been with my man since i was 15 just turned. we just got married. Vday is our 6 month ann.! But u know ur in love when u think about him everyday all day. when ur not around him u wanna be around him. your willing to put his needs and wants before yours. your tummy gets butterflyes around him. Just everything. u will know even if its puppy love. I still think puppy love is just as important as love, bcuz it teaches you how to deal with love and stuff. ya know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2010): well, if you don't know then you are not in love.
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