Why ignore my messages after a heart-to-heart with me?
Q. why would she does this? to cut a extremley long story short.... i added a girl my younger bro knows at school on facebook (ther both 14) got talking, realy liked her she realy likes me (i dont fancy her (yet) i dunno how she feals about me)having a ...
A. 22 December 2011: i think she must be confused of how shes feeling at the moment maybe with all the family problems she doesnt feel like talking at the minute, give her some space for a few days then inbox her again or get your brother to talk to her, she may like ... (read in full...)
Is sarcasm a bad trait?
Q. Is sarcasm a bad trait to have? Do guys not like sarcasm? Not bad sarcasm just a mild if-you-ask-a-stupid-?-I'll-give-a-sarcastic-answer kind of sarcasm. Im just wondering because thts a really big trait of mine .. :P...
A. 21 December 2011: it all depends on the person your with, they may like sarcasm or they may hate it.. abit of sarcasm wont harm anyone its just when people go over the top and start being cocky that it gets annoying, so go ahead be sarcastic but know when to stop :)... (read in full...)
When is the right age to have sex?
Q. dear readers.. this is a sex question. everyone has different opinions on the right age to have sex right? it all depends on your values as a person, ie religion, gender, family, friends, boyfriend, etc.. just what ever makes you, you. so i ...
A. 7 August 2011: There isn't a 'right age' to having sex tbh, although the law says its illegal to have sex before 16, if you feel right with your boyfriend and he is like your bestfriend and yous have spoke about it enough about the consequences etc and you know ... (read in full...)
Making out?
Q. What is the right way to make out with someone?...
A. 3 August 2011: There is no right way to make out it just all comes naturally, its however you feel comfortable as long as your enjoying it nothing is wrong, i remember i used to search on youtube how to make out haha it doesnt work, there are a few tips on google ... (read in full...)
Can anyone help me not be so shy around boys?
Q. Hi well Im 14 and I am like super shy around boys. My face turns so red and I start like getting nervous and I have no clue what to say. I hate being so shy around boys. I want to be able to talk to them no problem. But I find it so difficult. Can ...
A. 3 August 2011: i used to be exactly the same, it just takes a while to build your confidence and be comfortable with boys, just try making little conversations at first then expand them the more confident you get, maybe just text boys at first then you might be ... (read in full...)
Parents found the naughty texts I sent to my boyfriend. Help!
Q. I've just asked a recent question about this same problem but things are seeming to get a little out of hand. So... i recently sent some naughty texts to my boyfriend, my mum checked my phone because she said she knew something was going on, she ...
A. 3 August 2011: this is exactly what happened to me but i wasnt even going out with the boy my mum and dad see messages from, my mum went round the boys house and everything... so embarrassing, but i guess your parents are just being protective of you because they ... (read in full...)
Getting over your first crush?
Q. i had my first crush when i was 11 and now i am 14 but i cant forget about him pls help me i dont know waht to do...
A. 3 August 2011: your feelings probably will never go away for your first crush, but trust me you'll find someone else and move on, unless you tell your crush and they may feel the same way you'll just have to look outside the box for someone else theres plenty of ... (read in full...)
I like the idea of a boyfriend but I don't like pressure
Q. i'd like a boyfriend and when i think about having one i think it'd be great, but then when i'm around a boy that likes me ... things change and i feel like i'm being pressured into things. i've never been pressured into anything but i don't ...
A. 1 August 2011: this is exactly the same situation i always get into its completely normal, make sure that if you do get into a relationship you dont get pressured into doing anything a relationship isnt all about that... when you find someone that wont pressure ... (read in full...)
Birth control questions......
Q. how do you get birth control? do you need a prescription?...
A. 1 August 2011: To get birth control you either go to your doctors, hospital or womans centre, they will ask you questions but they usually keep it confidential if you ask them too then usually just give you the birth control and you rarely need a prescription!... (read in full...)
Should I be his girlfriend or not?
Q. I'm 14 years old. We had a party in my house for my B'day. My dad's friend and his 16 years old son will (his mom is American and father is Sri lankan)also came to my house will gave me a present and told me " I want to tell you something " so I ...
A. 1 August 2011: if you dont feel its right to get into a relationship with him then dont you musnt be ready,and if your parents wont allow it then it isnt really a good idea. Maybe just stay friends with him and later on get into a relatonship with him, its abit ... (read in full...)
I keep holding onto something that hasn't been there in months, just waiting and hoping...
Q. well hello there. :) i'm really looking for advice. i was dating this guy for six months, and everything was going great. not only was he my boyfriend, he was my best friend. i could tell him anything, we never fought, hung out all the time, an...
A. 20 July 2011: Well... I think you should write down all your feelings so you feel like your getting them all out, maybe tell him if there is a chance if yous will get back so you know for sure, he's probably feeling good that you still like him, but don't worry ... (read in full...)
I don't trust my boyfriend even though he has never done anything wrong! What is wrong with me? How do I fix it?
Q. My boyfriend is so sweet. We've been together for over a year now and for some reason I don't trust him. He trusts me completely. It never used to bother me, we used to be fine before but now I get upset all the time when we watch movies with girls ...
A. 14 July 2011: Aww your boyfriend sounds so sweet, I would love a boy like that, maybe you have trust issues because a boyfriend in the past has cheated on you, but this does not mean he will cheat on you, write down all your feelings and everything and just try ... (read in full...)
Why would he want to know if I'm a virgin or not?
Q. So my ex boyfriend who now has a new girlfriend asked me today if I was a virgin when I answered yes he seemed surprised which offended me... Why would he want to know if I'm a virgin or not?...
A. 14 July 2011: He probably just wants to know if your a virgin because he wanted to know if you would have done anything with him when yous went out, maybe he still likes you or wants to use you to have sex with as his girlfriend isn't having sex with him or ... (read in full...)
Should I try and get him back or not? He said he wasnt in love with me....
Q. so Me and this guy were just supposed to be a hook-up but then it turned into much more, i fell head over heels and he said he did too. but now he dumped me and im completely lost. He sent me a text that said " im sorry i do love you but im not in ...
A. 14 July 2011: I think you should try move on I know its hard but if he isn't in love with you I don't think you can change his mind, just tell him how you feel so he knows and if he changes his mind he sshould tell you, but if not then you should move on and ... (read in full...)
How can I be more open and trusting?
Q. Hi I know this problem doesn't directly have a lot to do with relationships but it affects everything in my my life and I don't know where else to try for help. This probably doesn't do this any justice but I hope it's enough About five years ag...
A. 10 July 2011: im really sorry about the loss of your mum and no wonder you have trust issues, my best advice is to try talk to your friends about everything all your feelings, emotions and your past, maybe even write it down on paper and give it to them, i've ... (read in full...)
He cares about me as a friend, but I want him to love me...
Q. they iz a guy i luv but the guy doesnt love me wat must i do and we are close friends...
A. 6 July 2011: i've been through this situation before, but im afraid theres nothing you can do but try get over him, he might fall for you in the end but the chances of that are quite low he probably has only ever thought of you as a friend and doesnt want to ... (read in full...)
We never talk but he's always looking at me!
Q. hi dear cupid :) there's a boy at my school who i used to be friends with him last year but then this year we never talked and he looks at me a lot and he shows a lot of signs that prove that he likes me but then he got a girlfriend but yet he k...
A. 6 July 2011: firstly i would try contact him by text or facebook and just have a normal conversation and ask him how his relationship is going, if he is flirty then ask him why or if he is just being friendly then you'll know he doesnt like you, but it just seem ... (read in full...)
I'm dating a guy for the first time, and I have no idea what to do or how to act!
Q. I just got my first boyfriend and i dont know wat to say arond him also i dont know if i ask him to go to the movies or will he ask me please help me...
A. 6 July 2011: aww it should just come naturally, make sure you dont put all the work in he needs to try aswell, he might just lead the way for you, just hold his hand or give him a wee kiss, if he doesnt ask you to go to the movies then you can ask him but make ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is always using my insecurity against me!
Q. I am very insecure about myself, and my boyfriend knows it. But it feels like he is always using my insecurities against me in some way. He always is going on and on about how clumsy I am, and its not in a gentle teasing manner either. He is ...
A. 4 July 2011: thats horrible!! i think you should tell him how you feel and tell him if he carries on he'll loose you, im clumsy myself still doesnt mean people should tease you about it atall, no girls deserves to be teased about their insecurities it will make ... (read in full...)
How do I end a 7 month relationship?
Q. How do I ditch my boyfriend? We've been together 7 months, but he's recently started acting different and I think there is another girl but dont want to jump to conlcusions. He hasnt been acting like a boyfriend, he never has time for me, he's alw...
A. 4 July 2011: i think the best way to finish it is to tell him face to face, just tell him exactly how you feel and im sure he'll understand maybe even go on a break and see how that goes, good luck! ... (read in full...)
I'm hopelessly in love with a guy that doesn't love me back
Q. I'm hopelessly I'm love with this guy. He's one of my closet fit friends, even though I don't see him that much anymore. He's like my brother and I'm like his sister. Iv been in love with him for 2 years but he's realy hot so he has girls typifying ...
A. 4 July 2011: aww this is exactly how i feel at the minute, i think you should just tell him even though he has a girlfriend you need to let your feelings out to him but make sure it dont break your friendship, at least you will know if he feels the same way for ... (read in full...)
Should I break up with my lying and cheating bf for good??
Q. Hey Agony Aunts and Uncles! Okay, i'm dealing with a terrible situation right now. My boyfriend and i been together for 2 years now and throughout those 2 years, he has cheated 4 times, he mistreats me, he hid things from me and lied to me. Okay, ...
A. 4 July 2011: he wont change my best advice is to finish it for good i know it will be hard because you love him but it will be better than being paranoid all the time he shouldnt be talking to other girls he obviously needs to grow up before he gets into a ... (read in full...)
He's very shy, how do I get his attention or make him like me??
Q. ok so i like this guy im not much of a player or too much of a flurt, but anywayz i like this guy hez a sorta shy guy and idk if he even likes me anymore and i wanna ask him out later later or him ask me out he alwayz looks at me at church so tht ...
A. 4 July 2011: aww if you see him at church why dont you have a wee chat with him as you not as shy as him be abit flirty with him and maybe even get his number so you can text him and then he might start to like you, good luck! ... (read in full...)
What can I do now to slowly start things up again?
Q. hey, well, almost 2 years ago i was going out with this guy. he was really sweet and i liked him a lot but i stopped things because i didnt think i was ready to go further. anyway, since then we have talked occasionally, but i dont think i'v ever ...
A. 4 July 2011: hmm if he likes you back he wont think your being stalker-ish you wont know unless you try, good luck!... (read in full...)
How on earth do I get a boyfriend? I really want to be in love!
Q. Well, I am 15 years old and I love the idea of love. But the thing is I dont have a boyfriend and I want one really bad. It seems as if all my friends have one and its like no one is there for me. I guess what I'm asking is; How on earth do I get a ...
A. 28 June 2011: aw i know exactly how you feel, but you cant force yourself to like someone it just happens naturally, but trust me you will find someone, just speak to boys as mates and flirt with them, chances are you'll fall for one of them it always happens to ... (read in full...)
Crush or boyfriend? They are both best friends.
Q. Ok so I need some help. I was dating this guy for almost two months then i broke up with him because i kinda have trust issues, since I was really young. Well we broke up for like three days then I went back to him because I really liked him still. ...
A. 28 June 2011: you need to decide who you want to be with quick , think through your head what relationship would be better and how long it would last, if you dont feel right with your boyfriend then you need to finish it as it is unfair on him, you may even ... (read in full...)
How do I get my ex of my mind?
Q. well I break up with my boyfriend, I realized that I did not love him anymore so....we both did agree to break up and think it was for the best because it was not working out but I still always thinking of him and I do miss him and the times we had ...
A. 28 June 2011: personally i think you still love him which is understandable, if you want to get over him i think you should just keep yourself busy with friends etc maybe even a hobby, write down your feelings thats what helped me also maybe just talk to other ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be the psycho ex girlfriend trying to get him back, but I really miss him! What should I do?
Q. So me and my ex boyfriend broke up after 2 months but we moved kinda fast because it was love at first sight pretty much and we're still trying to be friends and talk every now and then. Anyways it's been about 3 months and I thought I was over him...
A. 27 June 2011: Try get in touch with him maybe just text him and just have a normal conversation about memories etc and see what he's like with you,if hes sweet and flirts with you then confront him that you still have feelings for him if not then he must of moved ... (read in full...)
Should I just risk it and kiss him?
Q. There's this guy that over the past 2 weeks that I've become really close too and I really like him and I think he likes me. We've gotten to know each other really well and I think that we are really compatible, but the problem is he's just turned ...
A. 24 June 2011: try not to fall for the guy too much as you are only 15 and he is 19, depends how you feel and how he feels to be honest, if he seems like he is only in it for sexual reasons then walk away, also think about how your family will react if they found ... (read in full...)
I told him I love him and now I'm worried about losing him as a friend
Q. a few hours ago i admitted to the boy i have loved for about a year or two that i was in love with him.... but im really woried its going to mess up our really good friendship because hes one of my best friends... any advice on how to keep him a ...
A. 24 June 2011: wait for him to think through what you have said, if he feels the same way he should come running back and maybe he'll tell you the same thing but if he doesnt talk to you obviously he doesnt feel the same but if he doesnt get back to you for a day ... (read in full...)
I lied to my friends about my feelings for a guy, what should I now?
Q. So I have heard that a guy likes me, and he has even told one of my friends but not me, and I like him too. Now being the idiot I am, I lied to my friends about liking him. So they think I hate him and they think he's strange, which I don't see ...
A. 24 June 2011: i think you should tell your friends you have changed your mind and you are starting to like him so they dont know you've lied to them exactly, then you should tell the guy how you feel about him otherwise nothing will happen he'll think you dont ... (read in full...)
Dating advice?
Q. Hey everyone. I'm 17 and I have a question about dating. I've only ever been in one real relationship and that lasted for almost 3 years. With that said, I've never actually dated - like gone out to dinner or something with a guy that I'm not in a ...
A. 24 June 2011: this sort of reminds me of a situation i've been in, i think you should get in contact with the boy who has asked you to come out for a date because if you dont find out how he feels about you, you could waste your time on him and end up really fall ... (read in full...)
Does my boyfriend's friend have a crush on me??
Q. Well basically I have a boyfriend who I've been with for a long time. I get on fine with his friends. One friend in particular who has liked me previously (although he didn't tell me this) seems to talk to me a hell of a lot. Mostly online. We talk ...
A. 23 June 2011: i reckon he likes you maybe you should confront him and ask him how he feels about you, if you dont like him back tell him straight so he doesnt think your leading him on if you like him back your going to have to tell your boyfriend, i have sort of ... (read in full...)
Why is it so hard to talk to guys?
Q. Why is it so difficult for me to talk to guys? I can usually talk to guys I'm comfortable with with no difficulty whatsoever, but if i try to talk to a guy i don't really know, i get so shy. I've never had a boyfriend before, and i feel like I'm ...
A. 23 June 2011: this is totally normal i think everyone gets this from time to time, i was like this last year im 14 now and recently my confidence level has just risen and im not as shy but i still find it difficult to speak to boys, it will just come naturally to ... (read in full...)
He never tried talking to me before, but after I had my first kiss with him he is putting in effort....why would he do this?
Q. We hooked up when I was drunk. It was my first kiss and my friends gave him crap for it. We're not very close and he never tried talking to me before unless it's in person. But now he actually puts in effort in keeping in touch with me online and ...
A. 23 June 2011: he may feel guilty or he may be wanting to apologize as you were drunk, he may want to get to know you more as he may be interested in you or he may just want sex you never know just speak to him and see what hes like he may be a nice guy, good luck ... (read in full...)
Am I right in being mad at him? What should I do?
Q. Hello, i just asked a recent question on this topic but its got worse, so this guy who has fancied me and my freind for ages, he sent both of us they same sweet texts and called us babe and put loads of kisses at the end of each text he always told ...
A. 23 June 2011: You defineately have a right to be mad at him, hes been leading you on which made you fall for him and now hes going out with your best mate, i would be pissed off too hes just an example of a young boy who needs to grow up and stop leading girls on ... (read in full...)
What can I do now to slowly start things up again?
Q. hey, well, almost 2 years ago i was going out with this guy. he was really sweet and i liked him a lot but i stopped things because i didnt think i was ready to go further. anyway, since then we have talked occasionally, but i dont think i'v ever ...
A. 19 June 2011: hmm if you have facebook maybe contact him on there or ask someone that is friends with him for his number...... (read in full...)
What can I do now to slowly start things up again?
Q. hey, well, almost 2 years ago i was going out with this guy. he was really sweet and i liked him a lot but i stopped things because i didnt think i was ready to go further. anyway, since then we have talked occasionally, but i dont think i'v ever ...
A. 18 June 2011: just send him a wee text and just try make an interesting conversation with him, bring up old memories you had etc, eventually confront him that you still have feelings for him otherwise you'll never know... good luck!... (read in full...)
Should we be making out? And how do we control our urges?
Q. hi. Im a 15 year old girl. My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 7 months im just wondering if we should be making out by now? We talk about it and we both want to but we dont know if its to early or not. So should we be making out? We...
A. 17 June 2011: Do whatever you think is right, if yous feel like yous are ready to make out and yous are comfortable with eachother then go for it, just do whatever happens naturally i find it really cute that yous havent made out it just proves hes not using you ... (read in full...)
Does he just want to play around? Does he like me less than I like him?
Q. Me and my guy friend been talking and texting for a long time and he never says that he wants to be more than friends. Does he likes me or does he just wanna play around? I like him back and he says that he does too. What is going on? Does he like ...
A. 16 June 2011: my advice to you would be just to not rush into things i have made that mistake and i strongly regret it, just see how things turn out boys always act interested until they get what they want. If you really like him though you have to confront him ... (read in full...)
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