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writes:So I have heard that a guy likes me, and he has even told one of my friends but not me, and I like him too. Now being the idiot I am, I lied to my friends about liking him. So they think I hate him and they think he's strange, which I don't see how he is. Now I was ashamed of liking him before, not now, and I would tell my friends that I like him but I am pretty sure my friends would hate me if they knew I lied to them. So please answer my following questions:- Should I tell my friends about liking him?- Should I confort him and tell him I like him?- Should I wait for him to confrot me?- Should I not tell, leave things the same, and don't tell anybody anything?Thank you. :) Reply to this Question
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reader, ilanah tromans  +, writes (24 June 2011):
 i think you should tell your friends you have changed your mind and you are starting to like him so they dont know you've lied to them exactly, then you should tell the guy how you feel about him otherwise nothing will happen he'll think you dont like him back if you dont say anything to him, even if you just ask him to come out just so he knows your interested in him just dont make the mistake i made in liking someone and them liking you but not telling them so they move on its horrible, good luck !
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2011): Hi,
does this guy think that you don't like him or what? Because if not, you haven't got anything to worry about. Your friend's won't hate you if you tell them that your really do like him. Why should they? Okay, so you didn't tell them but maybe you felt awkward at the time spilling your feelings about him to them. If you like him, just take it slow. Go up to him, pretend nothing has happened, and chat about something. Get to know if a bit more. You probably shouldn't comfort him because the guy might get scared and embarrassed. Play it cool. But if you don't want to tell your friends than fine because your uncomfortable then leave it be. Tell them whatever you like about him when you've spoken a few words. If his a boring, forget about him and don't say a word to them. If they've come to the right conclusion about him on their own than everything's fine. If not, say that he's not as strange as they think. Hopefully the problem get's sorted. Good luck, girl.
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