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writes:Hey everyone. I'm 17 and I have a question about dating. I've only ever been in one real relationship and that lasted for almost 3 years. With that said, I've never actually dated - like gone out to dinner or something with a guy that I'm not in a relationship with. Anyway, there's this guy that I've been friends with for about a year and I've always kind of had a thing for him but we both were in relationships. We lost touch for a few months but recently we've been talking again. A few days ago he asked me if I wanted to go out with him sometime and I said yes. He said he'd get back to me with the details the next day. But he still hasn't. In fact, he hasn't spoken to me at all. I kind of want to call him or text him and suggest us hanging out (with an actual plan for a date in mind) or something like that because I actually was looking forward to getting to know him on that level. However, part of me kind of feels like he might have changed his mind and I don't want to bother him. I'm not sure what proper protocol is. Any advice or thoughts?
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reader, sammy1986  +, writes (24 June 2011):
i would play it cool send him a simple text like hi how ya doing x if he replys keep the conversation going and if he mentions it suggest something but if he doesnt just dont mention it
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reader, ilanah tromans +, writes (24 June 2011):
 this sort of reminds me of a situation i've been in, i think you should get in contact with the boy who has asked you to come out for a date because if you dont find out how he feels about you, you could waste your time on him and end up really fall for him which will leave you broken in the end, if he has changed his mind then it just wasnt meant to be and at least you know you can move on, good luck !
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