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Should I try and get him back or not? He said he wasnt in love with me....

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Question - (14 July 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 16 July 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, *rook_e_boo writes:

so Me and this guy were just supposed to be a hook-up but then it turned into much more, i fell head over heels and he said he did too. but now he dumped me and im completely lost. He sent me a text that said " im sorry i do love you but im not in love with you you are not the right girl for me and you deserve much more than me im sorry don't hate me" this crushed me. and i want him back so bad. should i try and get him back or no,. i cry over him and i don't know how to fix things plz help...

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A female reader, Brook_e_boo United States +, writes (16 July 2011):

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Brook_e_boo agony aunthim and i are now back together, and he said he was confused on what he wanted, and thats why he said that,

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (14 July 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntTry and lose contact with him as much as you can. I'm afraid you cannot make someone love you no matter how much you try, if you keep trying to get back with him you are going to just get hurt even more. It is hard to deal with a break up but just give yourself time to recover and move forward. You will find someone who will love you back. He is obviously just not the guy for you and I guess you need to accept that.

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A female reader, MissTellAll United States +, writes (14 July 2011):

MissTellAll agony auntI'm so sorry you went through this. The best thing to do is limit contact with him and just try to get over him. With time, you will heal from the hurt.

Good luck getting over him :)

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A female reader, ilanah tromans United Kingdom +, writes (14 July 2011):

ilanah tromans agony auntI think you should try move on I know its hard but if he isn't in love with you I don't think you can change his mind, just tell him how you feel so he knows and if he changes his mind he sshould tell you, but if not then you should move on and you'll ffind someone else, you deserve someone that loves you back!

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