Threesome etiquette
Q. I've been offered a threesome and i don't really know...the details. How do they work? Do you take it in turns or something? Sorry if this is a stupid question but i need to know....
A. 18 May 2006: Yea!! heh heh!! It really depends on what you and the other woman involved are comfortable with. It can be from, as you said, taking turns all the way up to you and the other girl doing stuff to each other while he is doing stuff to each of you. ... (read in full...)
Should I get pregnant by this man
Q. This is really stupid i know but i'm completely in love with this guy, who's told me he wants to have sex with me. The thing is, i know he doesn't have any strong feelings for me, and i'm tempted to try and get pregnant with his baby so i can have a ...
A. 18 May 2006: DON'T BE AN IDIOT !! If you supposedly really like this guy, why would you want to trap him in a situation that he does not want to be in??... (read in full...)
How do I leave my husband for someone else without hurting him?
Q. hi i am married with 3 children but i do want to leave my husband as i dont love him any more i know this as i get all this feelings about someone else but what should i do as i know this will really hurt him . ...
A. 11 May 2006: There is really no way to do it with out "hurting" him, but if you have to go, then you have to go. You have to ask yourself, it is better for me to hurt him, or allow him to keep hurting me?... (read in full...)
Wife keeps cheating on me... How can I get her to see how I feel??
Q. love my wife for 20yrs but she keeps on having affairs and i have child that is not mine.she goes on nights out and am very lucky if she comes home.did it before and found her at it with someone else.but keep staying with her.i am a lorry driver so ...
A. 11 May 2006: ummmm, hello, LEAVE HER !! You say you "love her" but she obviously does not love you or she would not hurt you like this. ... (read in full...)
He's told me to have sex with other men, what should I do?
Q. I am 24 and my husband is 27. Recently he has been telling me if I want sex, I should sleep with other men. I told him I don't want to cheat on him, and that he's suggesting cheating. However, he insists he has no sex drive at all, and says h...
A. 11 May 2006: you should seek some professional help. It is definitly not normal for your husband to tell you to seek sexual fulfullment from other men. Maybe he is having some sexual problems and is to ashamed to tell you or something of that nature. I would ... (read in full...)
She already had one affair and now she texting some other guy...what's going on?
Q. i recently caught my wife having an affair with a married man. i confronted her with it and i think it has stopped. i did speak to this man's wife so i know he has pressure on him. pretty confident its over. however now a month later i notice my ...
A. 11 May 2006: I agree with willywombat, I think that she is trying to make you be the one to leave her. Like she said, once you can maybe forgive, but twice and in such a short time? That is just too much..LEAVE HER... (read in full...)
I want to go to a hypnotist to let my ex go....do you think this will work!?
Q. I'm considering going to a hypnotist. I am in a good, supportive and stable relationship tho I can't seem to let my x go. I've had trouble w. this in the past, but eventually got through. It's never been this bad. Like there is more then meets the ...
A. 11 May 2006: NO... (read in full...)
Told my boyfriend how I felt... he needs to think about it. Bad sign?
Q. I told my boyfriend of a year and a half of how i truly feel last nite and where i stand in our relationship. He gave me a promise ring on my birthday in last december. When i switched the question around about where he stands his reply ...
A. 11 May 2006: Possibly, but at least you will know where you stand. Better to find out now than later... (read in full...)
All my wife does is nag... I'm very, very close to calling it quits - any suggestions?
Q. I have been married for five years, and my wife become pregnant very early in the relationship. Our first child has special needs and brought us closer together initially. We now have three children and things couldnt be worst. She has given up ...
A. 8 May 2006: my suggestion is to seek help and try a marrige counselor before doing anything rash. If she is not willing to go then maybe your are right. I am in somewhat the same kind of situation. I am very unhappy in my marriage, 2 kids and everything. I ... (read in full...)
Does this touching make us lesbians?
Q. I was staying over at my best friends house about 3 weeks ago nd we ended up kissin and touchin each other nd since then we both hav been taking it further every day. She slept at mine last night nd we ended up totally naked nd touching each other ...
A. 8 May 2006: It could mean you are, or not... I would say not to get caught up in labeling yourself or your friend. You seem to be exploring your sexuality and there is nothing wrong with that. I say if you like what you are doing and it seem to be "right" to ... (read in full...)
Wife keeps cheating on me... How can I get her to see how I feel??
Q. love my wife for 20yrs but she keeps on having affairs and i have child that is not mine.she goes on nights out and am very lucky if she comes home.did it before and found her at it with someone else.but keep staying with her.i am a lorry driver so ...
A. 8 May 2006: I agree, she is doing it because you don't seem to be making her pay any kind of consequence. You should either, lay it down and say if she does it again you are leaving (and actually leave if she does) or leave now and tell her the only way you ... (read in full...)
He's given me two STD's and narrowly missed prison for beating me... not sure what to do?
Q. im 19 and have been with my partner for almost 4 years we have a 2 year old daughter but since being with him he has givin me 2 stds in a result of cheating on me he has just narrowly missed a prison sentence for beating me badly its not the firs...
A. 8 May 2006: Umm, Hello, get rid of him and NOW... (read in full...)
Why don't I get wet?
Q. I'm a young vibrant girl, and would like to know what could be some of the reasons for not getting wet while trying to have sex, althought you're really horny?...
A. 2 May 2006: could be a clinical issue, some women just don't get as wet as others. I would say for now try some lube, like ky jelly or vasilene and next time you go to the doctors mention it, they have certain medications or stuff to help... (read in full...)
I don't know what to think about the lack of affection and empty condom. What should I do?
Q. Im not sure if this is normal or if we have a problem but iv noticed that after sex there's nothing in the condom,my boyfriends not the most vocal in bed unless we'r after a night out but always gave the impression of enjoying himself "its so good ...
A. 2 May 2006: I don't want to make you think things, but I know that when you are on certain drugs (class A) that you can go forever and can almost never cum. It still feels great but you just can't cum. Does he do drugs? If so this may be it... (read in full...)
Does he spend too much time with the mother of his children>
Q. I think I made a major mistake. I sent my boyfriend a email explaining to him how I think his relationship with his Ex, whom he has 2 children with, is inappropriate. I told him that it makes me uncomfortable when he does things with her and the ...
A. 25 April 2006: You are totally wrong about this. You are being very selfish and, although they are not your kids, you have to see that by them being friends it is soo much better for the kids. If he didn't want to be with you, he would not so by him just ... (read in full...)
Oh my god did I cheat without knowing it???
Q. I was at a party recently where i got very drunk and blacked out, I slept in the same bed as my boyfriends(25) friend but nothing happened. I met one of his friends recently who started calling me a whore etc and saying that he knows what i did the ...
A. 21 April 2006: you have to find out what happened, if anything before you say anything to your bf. You should confront the "friend" and tell him that what the other guys said and ask, why would he say that, nothing happened we just slept, RIGHT and see what his ... (read in full...)
We went away with another couple and I kissed her husband!
Q. Went away on holiday with another couple and their kids. They are separating -- her husband is moving out on the 15th of this month. They were still cool with going away(!) as trip had been planned since November. We went out one evening (her...
A. 21 April 2006: ummm did you not say that you kissed him?? If so, how is he playing YOU? You should be sure that YOU are not playing him, as he is the one who is getting a divorce, maybe so should you... (read in full...)
After three loving years something has changed and now she's not sure we're meant to be...
Q. Hi All, Sorry this is going to be a long post... I've been in a deep and passionate relationship for a little over 3 years now. Within the last couple months something has changed and when we talk about it, she says she cant put her finger on ...
A. 21 April 2006: I don't mean to be a downer, but I'd give 10 to 1 odds that she is seeing someone else. Just from experience, it has happened to me and I have done it as well, when you can't think of an actual way to break up the old, something is different and ... (read in full...)
Unsure how I've gotten to 19 and still a virgin!?
Q. I’m 19 yrs old and still a virgin , and so hungry 4 some, not that there’s a problem with me or I’m ugly, it’s just some think just away seems to get in the way or happen. Like now there’s a 20 yr old girl I no she’s really pretty and we’ve been ...
A. 21 April 2006: don't wait for a virgin, that is stupid. you don't have to inform the person you are with that, hey this is my first time unless you want to. Also, you may be able to get some just by telling them you are, some chicks are turned on my thinking that ... (read in full...)
If someone splits up with you, but still comes back for a bit of the other, are they using you?
Q. if a bloke you've been seeing tells you he doesn't want to be with you,yet keeps coming back knowing full well that u love him to bits,and you cant keep your hands off each other is he just using you or too scared to face his true feelings...
A. 21 April 2006: he is totally using you for a booty call... Guys can be scum, I know, I have done it. The way he sees it, he can have his cake and eat it too because he can have his freedom trying to hook up with other girls and also have you to do what he ... (read in full...)
Am I allowed to tell him how I feel, even if he's enganged!?
Q. I just found out oday that the person I believe is my true soulmate is getting maried in July, I know I don't have any right to feel as hurt as I am, for the countless times that I have hurt him, but it is killing me inside. I am engaged but I am ...
A. 21 April 2006: YOU HAVE TO TELL HIM!! I actually just wrote about my experience with this same exact situation! I was getting engaged and I did not express my true feelings to my ex (who was also getting engaged) and I still regret it to this day! I say you ... (read in full...)
I'm not quite sure which to do to make myself happier!
Q. Please!!! Someone to help me!!! Should I decide to have a baby or/and buy a house to revive ten years of unhappy marriage??? Thanks!!!...
A. 21 April 2006: if you "have" to do one of these 2 things to try to "revive" your marriage, then buy the house. If things don't work out you can always sell the house but a child is forever! Also think about the child, why would you use a person to try to fix ... (read in full...)
Extremely confused, does he like me or not?
Q. I have a complicated question to ask. If a man thinks that all the boys fancy you, he finds you attractive he checks you out and gazes at your breasts when he thinks noone is looking does he fancy you? If a man tells you you're lovely and tries...
A. 21 April 2006: come on...you know that he is into you, he may just be intimatdated or afraid to let you know how he feels because he thinks 2 things may happen: 1) if you reject him it will devastate him and then he won't be able to talk to you anymore or 2) if ... (read in full...)
My god I'm desperate, my daughter physically beats me
Q. Iam a single mum with a 13 year old daughter who is physically bigger and stronger than me and she has started to hit and bully me. Iam a english size 8 and 5 foot tall and she is 5 foot 8 inches tall a size 24 and 20 stone she totally dwarfs m...
A. 21 April 2006: if this is actually true, which I doubt, CALL THE POLICE and have her arrested for poss of drugs, underage drinking and rape... stil think this is bulls**t... (read in full...)
Moving interstate to be with my guy, but how do I know he's The One?
Q. My boyfriend and I live in different states. He lives in Mississippi and I live in New Jersey. I'm leaving Friday to move with him and his family until we get an apartment, but I want to know he's the one. I'm leaving my relatives in Jersey and I ho...
A. 21 April 2006: I think that what you are doing will help you to find out if he is "the one" as you put it. I think if you think tha the may be the one, this is a good step to find out for sure. You may be leaving your family and friends in NJ, but you can always ... (read in full...)
He's got me to sign a "relationship agreement" (pre-nup) - am I being old fashioned by thinking this is out of order!?
Q. Hi, I have been living with my partner of two years for 3 months now. He has asked me to sign a relationship agreement effectively contracting out of NZ's defacto law. First I was hurt and angry, then I thought he should keep all that he has work...
A. 21 April 2006: he wants you to sign this document after living together for 3 months? I think that there is something up here if you asked me. What are the NZ laws? I know that in the states, this falls under state to state juristiction and that you have to be ... (read in full...)
I want to get with a girl I don't know! Should I slip her a note?
Q. I'm 26 and would like some suggestions on the best way to ask out a girl I like. I have been single for just over a year now but when it comes to asking girls out on a date or trying to chat them up I'm really useless at it because I'am too shy and ...
A. 21 April 2006: I think that the note thing is definitly NOT the way to go. I know that it can be hard to talk to girls/women, but I think that it is a bit weird to slip her a note in the checkout line. I would say that you make a point to go there when she is ... (read in full...)
I'm gay but I think I'm turning and I don't know what to do!
Q. Hi i have been gay for nearly 7 years and am currently in a relationship. however for a while now i have developed feelings for girls. Recently i was in a potential situation where something could have happened however i stayed away so it couldn't ...
A. 21 April 2006: I think that if you are having these feelings you may actualy be bi sexual and not exclusivly "gay". Many many people are bi or have bi feeling so it is not unusual for this to happen. I would say that if you are in a relationship that it would ... (read in full...)
After having a colposcopy exam, sex is just unbearable!
Q. Since having a colposcopy exam about 6 months ago ( which i found particularly distressing) i have found sex (oral and penitritive) very painful, to the extent that the strss and nerves that i feel before hand are totally putting me off sex. prior ...
A. 20 April 2006: GO TO SEE YOUR DOCTOR RIGHT AWAY!! with exams such as this, any discomfort should have gone away long ago.... (read in full...)
Should I tell my wife I look at these pictures AND spank the monkey?
Q. I have a question, and I'm especially interested in hearing from the women who are bothered when their husbands or boyfriends are looking at porn. You see, I don't really like hard-core porn and rarely bother with it. I do look at other pictures ...
A. 20 April 2006: NO WAY!! as you can see by the women who responded to this post, chicks do not understand anything about guys jerking off. Come on, one of them acutaly called it "cheating" , get a life lady!! It is perfectly fine to jack it to whatever floats ... (read in full...)
He loves me so much but just can't satisfy me!!
Q. I have been in a relationship with this guy for about 4 month now and i'm 30 year old and he is 48.I know he loves me so much but when it comes to sex it's not going so well. The thing is everytime when we do sex it last about 2-3 minute.He said he ...
A. 20 April 2006: Don't know if you know it or not, but any one of those "erectile dysfuction" pills that they have out these days (ex Viagra) will, in smaller doses, allow a man to stay up for long periods of time. I am not sure, but I think that you can even get ... (read in full...)
Is it true love or an obsession?
Q. I have known a guy since i was 14 and now I'm 26. I have been egaged and have had children, but I could not be happy in that relationship. now i am in another relationship of two years, a pretty good guy, but was again am unhappy. I always think of ...
A. 20 April 2006: WOW. that is too crazy for me. I just posted something totally like this. I am in almost the same situation you are. I am married but I cannot stop thinking about my ex that was always there for me. I don't see her a lot but everytime I do I am ... (read in full...)
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