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writes: Went away on holiday with another couple and their kids. They are separating -- her husband is moving out on the 15th of this month. They were still cool with going away(!) as trip had been planned since November.We went out one evening (her husband and I) while away and got a bit tipsy. He told me how miserable he'd been (told me more than he should have), etc... Anyway, as the evening went on, he asked if I was getting cold and I said yes. He wrapped his arms around me. I started kissing him -- he didn't protest -- even after I snapped and said "Shouldn't I/we stop this?".Problem? Feel guilty a) because I enjoyed it and b) want more, but know intellectually that it's wrong. Never done this before in 15 years of my marriage!What is going on? Was I being "played" by him? Did he just feel sorry for me and that's why we made out? He told his wife how much he "liked" me.Help. I am *so* confused. Am worried that my friendship with his wife should be over, too. And why the hell do I care if he's still thinking about me?
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reader, iamsoscrewedup333 +, writes (21 April 2006):
ummm did you not say that you kissed him?? If so, how is he playing YOU? You should be sure that YOU are not playing him, as he is the one who is getting a divorce, maybe so should you
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2006): IT was wrong. I just got out of a relationship with my best friend.IT has caused major issues with my wonderful wife.Like you only kissing was invovled.Break away now it is not worth losing your husband.I regret it every day.GET away before your heart gets invovled.
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