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writes: I have a complicated question to ask.If a man thinks that all the boys fancy you, he finds you attractive he checks you out and gazes at your breasts when he thinks noone is looking does he fancy you?If a man tells you you're lovely and tries his best never to hurt your feelings and apologizes when he does but can still tease you jokily and playfully and make silly jokes and go out of his way to make himself look the idiot just to make you smile.If when people say cruel things he stands up for you and makes you feel special. If he spends an entire evening talking about his feelings and his job of asking your your feelings and making you feel good about yourself even though he needed to finish work for the next morning an doesn't complain one bit, instead gazes into your eyes and tells you that he doesn't mind you coming to see him, he doesn't mind speaking to you. And after all that he even asks how you are getting home and shyly hesitantly asks whether you want a ride home, does he care about you?If he can act the man with his friends flirt with every pretty girl he sees make every girl he meets feel like an item yet make you feel like a woman. If he can greet every person he meets with a crude mouth with cruel cold eyes and strict gifted tongue yet greet with a caring smile, gooey eyes, charming tongue and shy mouth. If when a girl says hes a pervert he scowls and shouts yet when you say it he flushes and laughs. If when he gets close to a girl he doesn't notice his body is still and stiff, yet when he is close to you his body trembles his arms shiver and he tries to hide the smirk on his face and when comes close he squirms
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reader, iamsoscrewedup333 +, writes (21 April 2006):
come on...you know that he is into you, he may just be intimatdated or afraid to let you know how he feels because he thinks 2 things may happen: 1) if you reject him it will devastate him and then he won't be able to talk to you anymore or 2) if things end up going bad between you to then he will not have your friendship at all. I know all you girls think that all guys are after just one thing, and you know what, most of the time we are :), but there are times when we really really like someone that we don't want to ruin it..
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2006): You could just be his next target, then he could turn that cruel cold thing toward you when he gets bored. He does not sound a nice person inside, does that matter to you?
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (8 April 2006):
 You knows he fancies you or you would not have written what you did.
So is this a round about way of asking if you should take that leap of faith?
Yet from what you have written there are a few warning flags. He teases you until he has to apologize, irresponsibly blows off work, flirts with 'every pretty girl', uses a 'crude mouth with cruel cold eyes and strict gifted tongue' with others, and that other girls have a reason at all to call him pervert is a huge warning!
Yeah he likes you, but don't you deserve better?
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reader, shania  +, writes (8 April 2006):
 Im trying to figure out this question you asked.Is there a fella you fancy then,but you want to know the tell tale signs? If it is then i would say that this guy does seem very interested in you.I would say that he has a caring nature but you will only know if a guy really does care about you if you are actually dating him,because thats when feelings get stronger if you are happy and contented with the right person.Why dont you ask this fella out for a drink or a coffee and see if he wants to date you as a proper girlfriend,otherwise you could be waiting forever.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2006): I think u already know the answer!
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