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I don't know what to think about the lack of affection and empty condom. What should I do?

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Question - (1 May 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 4 May 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

Im not sure if this is normal or if we have a problem but iv noticed that after sex there's nothing in the condom,my boyfriends not the most vocal in bed unless we'r after a night out but always gave the impression of enjoying himself "its so good inside you,you're so hot..."

sorry hope not too grafic but im concerned that he's lost interest.

We usually see each other about 3 times a week and have sex once (or twice at weekends), for the first time since we'v been together (8 months started sleeping together after 2) last night nothing happened between us and nothing this morning, Im confused as the night before we started foreplay in the cab home from a club and had lots of sex with an encore in the morning.

I dont know what could have happened in one day-he only went home for a few hrs and came back out-that could cause this change????

Now im really starting to worry about those empty condoms and last nights lack of affection.... ....please help!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2006):

thanks for the advice (he's definately not on drugs) everything back to normal, we had great sex the next time we saw each other and HE CAME.

thanks again

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A male reader, iamsoscrewedup333 +, writes (2 May 2006):

I don't want to make you think things, but I know that when you are on certain drugs (class A) that you can go forever and can almost never cum. It still feels great but you just can't cum. Does he do drugs? If so this may be it

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2006):

anon male,you said one of us was bored? him obviously as im not, im very inexperienced so thats a worry, kinda feel more confused. how can i get everything bak on track?

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A male reader, owenroberts +, writes (2 May 2006):

i think that you are a little worried of what he thinks maybe? dont be it sounds like one of you may be a little bored dont make my mistakes and not talk about your problems as trust is the biggest thing in a relationship of any course of time,and you need to show each other your trust for the confidence of it to make him see you differently and more sexual males are visually based and need lots of stimulation women are more affectionately based and reqire more loving, its all a two way thing try and enjoy

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2006):

I'm not sure what you mean about empty condoms. Do you mean that he's not ejaculating? I have no idea what that would mean, except that it is possible for guys to have dry orgasms sometimes. The lack of affection may just be because you guys had just had a lot of sex and so he wasn't in the mood for it again that soon. I wouldn't worry about it as long as he's back to normal soon.

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