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... Send *issesConfused a private message | | | *issesConfused's profile:From a young age I've always loved watching shows that have tendencies to show their viewers that people have different problems, and while the solutions are not the best or not there, humanity is something we all in common. This has always been a comforting notion to me, considering that I have always felt like the odd one out. So, I'm pleased that there are other people feel the way I do.
My friends and other people are constantly coming up to me with their own problems, and asking me for advice. I listen to them and tell them what I would do in their place, but always make it a point to tell him/her that they have to trust themselves to know what's right and that the only person that can decide things for them are themselves. While they find me confusing at times, they usually appreciate it later.
It feels wonderful another person out, and it makes me think that maybe I do have a place in this world. If there are people just as confused as I am, maybe I'm not as alone as I think. I can learn from them or vice-versa.
However, I am really insecure and am convinced that I am the most hideous thing on the face of the Earth. So when it comes to relationships, I try not to say too much about it since I've only had one boyfriend so far. I'm sure I'm not the only person who feels that way about themselves, so outwardly I'm perfectly fine to the rest of the world.
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