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writes:A friend of mine teaches in a middle school. Two increasing practices worry her. One is that boys are pressing girls to give them blow-jobs. Good girls who resist are made fun off, by both the boys and the girls.The other practice is that girls are coming to school with short skirts. Then the go the the girls room and remove their panties. They spend the rest of the day without panties on. They say it makes them feel sexy. Some even finger themselvs while sitting in class.My fiend says teachers don't know what to do about these things. Any suggestions?
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reader, kitty_3 +, writes (12 July 2009):
 i'm pretty sure that none of that is true.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2009): Only too right. It's a wonder where they come up with this stuff (internet, magazine, gossip, movies) At our school we were educated about sex an the human body at the great age of 11 years and taught that it was ok to talk about it or ask questions to any of our teachers we felt comfortable with. The teachers were great in answering questions and worked together as a team to ensure that the same anwers were given for one question that way they never felt uncomfortable about possibly giving graphic details. Girls in our school wore tight black shorts under our uniform skirts in summer and dress trousers in winter
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reader, hdell +, writes (13 May 2009):
hdell is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy teacher friend came over this afternoon and I showed her all your remarks, for which she thanks you. She thinks the fingering is rare, but she knows how negative actions spread like wildfire amoung the students. Regarding the girls without panties, she sees them gathering in groups and giggling. They let the boys know about it and sometimes (when they think the teachers are not watching) they quickly lift their skirts to let the boys really know. The boys don't seem to mind. When they see teachers, how innocent they look!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2009): Make it obligitory for girls to wear black tights in school .
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (13 May 2009):
 I think she needs to take it up with the principal and have ALL the parents of the school come to a debate about what is appropriate and what is not.
Makes me want to home school..
It does sound like a sick fantasy, but there are certainly times I wouldn't be surprised if it did happen. Kids are so sexualized in today's society, it's horrifying.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2009): They finger themselves??? Thats shocking. It is true good girls are made fun of though because I was one of them when I was at school and pretty and popular girls do get pressed more sexually by guys because of their looks and if they act like sluts theyre going to get treated like one. this is very bad behaviour from thes girls. has your friend ever tried talking to the headteacher? or even saying `what are you doing under that table? i suggest you stop it right now or i will be phoning your parents` to them when they do it in class. it will publicly embarass them and it may be enough to stop it. i would suggest more talking to the headteacher first though as i am not sure if that is considered respectful or not to teachers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2009): Things have certainly got worse since I was at school!
Maybe some sort of lesson about sexual issues would help? I don't mean about the birds and the bees exactly, but just about having respect for yourself, and other people. We used to have lessons like these when I was at school, which focused on the emotional and personal sides of the topic.
Or maybe the teachers could speak to the students in question privately. This might have a bit more of an effect, rather than trying to tackle a whole group, where they will most likely just laugh. Or even contact their parents?
Just some suggestions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2009): I think thats a fantasy you got going on there. Girls sitting in class fingering themselves! i think not.
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