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writes:Has anyone ever seen those girls on myspace which get random adds from people all over the world? You know, with the really big boobs and barely any clothes on? Well they have g-string/thong but you cant even see the string bit, so it looks liek they have nothing on? Well my question is, if a guy adds a bunch of those girls to his myspace, what does it say about him as a person? I see it as being really disrespectful and therefore question if the guy would respect me. Theres this guy im about to go on a date with and he has heaps of those girls on his myspace. I dont know what to make of it. 19 years of age by the way. any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008): I wouldn't think anything of it at all. I doubt he has even been to their pages, just accepted them as friends. A lot of people do that. You could always make a joke and ask him if he knows half his friends are 'bots' or advertising services. I had a friend that had many of these, but they were less offensive than his 'real' friends who sent those graphics of girls 'dressed' in string and posted x-rated suggestions in the comments :)
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reader, hdell  +, writes (26 August 2008):
Remember the double nature of a boy's interest. He loves to LOOK at imaginary girls, but the girl that he likes to be with (and eventually marry) is one with a beautful character who likes to please him. Don't be troubled by the male imagination.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (3 August 2008):
These myspaces aren't real, they are adverts for porn sites. So if he's a single male then it says he is in to porn.
Date him and if it gets a bit more serious then maybe you could mention that it bothers you and he could delete them.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2008):
I would go on more how he behaves when he is around you. If he shows you attention and respect, and isn't ogling every other woman that walks past, then maybe it isn't such a big deal that he has these women on his profile.
For example on Facebook there is a "daily hunk of the day" application that quite a few of my female friends have on their page, it consists of some topless model guy that changes each day. I certainly wouldn't say it is disrespectful or that it means they don't respect men.
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reader, bfire +, writes (3 August 2008):
Well it shows that he is sexually attracted to girls.
I know exactly what you are talking about. I added one once because at first I thought it was a real person, but later found out it wasn't. I never took myspace seriously though, I use facebook to keep in touch with my actual friends. I then removed her from my friend list. But the profile seemed legit, didn't say something like "check out my pics or cam here." There was actually interests and whatnot filled out.
Anyway, I don't add people I don't really know anymore unless they are from my city or a city I have been to.
With that being said, I don't want a bunch of 'porn' adds all over my myspace page. I think it is annoying!
Plus if you are his girlfriend, I think you have a right to be aggravated about it. I think it just shows a lack of self and confidence...he should just realize it makes him look like a tool, not a player.
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (3 August 2008):
 Are you the girl that posted a thread about your boyfriend wanting to take your clothes off???
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