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writes:Hey, Ive been seeing my girl for about 1 year and a bit and generally things are sweet and our relationship is mostly healthy on all levels. A small issue for me is her flirting when we go out drinking. Typically it doesnt bother me as im quite the same, but she is younger and a bit inexperienced in relation to my chick mates my age and she doesnt compose herself really well, maybe I get embarassed? Additionally she is gorgeous and always gets alot of attention. I know I would never cross the line with my flirting and I have never thought she would, so it has never caused problems between us. By the way we are living together (for a few months now). A couple of weeks ago however my trust for her was compromised. We rented out a flash arsed holiday house for 3 nights with my best mate and his mrs who gets on well with my girlfriend. Me and him try to do it at least once a year for a blow out. On our last night there we were getting cut by the pool, as you do, and I made the skinny dipping call, which is way to common when im juiced. Now for the record im pretty comfortable with my package, im not huge but enough over average to be confidant. My mate is like a donkey, ive known that for ever cuz we have been mates for over 15 years. As soon as we had our gear off, my mrs starts up with how impresive his unit looks and how its the biggest shes ever seen. While I could understand her initial suprise, which was to be expected, she performed like she had seen something incredible. My mates initial ego boost soon turned into embarassment so we hit the pool and tried to let it lie. The girls wernt long till they were in the water and my mrs mentioned it again being a tad more than flirtatious. I have to say I wasnt at all jealous, just embarassed and angry and my mate felt damn arkward. Then my mrs just goes straight up to him and grabs his dick (wtf), he freaked, retreated and jumped out, I thought his mrs was guna hit her, then to top it off she drops a comment about swapping partners for a night sometime. And that completly ended the night, those two were pissed and I was bummed and trying to figure out what the hell was up with my mrs.Im trying to keep in mind that we were all really drunk and she can be a bit imature at the best of times, but I cant help but feel that shes crossed the line and im guna resent her for it. She was so out of charater that night, I cant help but wonder if things went wildly differently, would she have slept with him? Or was she just trying to have fun and didnt realise how misguided, inappropriate and bizarre her performance was?Either way, my opinion so far is that anyone who is that fasinated and impressed over a big dick is a tad shallow and desperate and she might not be my type after all. If you can see a reasonable explaination for her actions could you point it out.
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reader, hdell  +, writes (10 May 2009):
Don't get all stewed over this. She was just having a little fun. After all you were all naked and feeling sexy. She was just teasing and having a little exiting fun.
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (7 April 2009):
 talk to her....
i'd be really pissed too if my girlfriend was right in front of me feeling on my friends pack-talk about awkward-
and you've gotta keep in mind that you guys were drunk, and with her beying younger , she gets really loose when drunk and goes all out-
just talk to her about it
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2009): RIGHT, I'm guessing that alot of it has to do with her age.... YOU mentioned that she's quite immature sometimes and i recon that alot of young women are. My first honest thought was that she wanted to swap partners and that's before i read your comment about you writing that. Maybe she was acting out of character, but i always thought that when people got drunk that they are alot more inclined to loose all inhibition. The best thing you can HONESTLY do is talk to her.... maybe you should test her even, to find out what her intentions are. Well try not to worry, it could be something over nothing. I would seriously talk to her or it will, eat away at you until you explode and then who will look like the bad guy..GOOD LUCK!!
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