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writes:Girls love to be "loved." This is the reason they try to make themselves attratrive to men---sexy clothes, careful makeup and hairdoes, cleavage, etc. If you want to please a girl so that she will do anything to please you, make her feel loved because you find her so appealing. If she is convinced that you truly love her, she will even "die for you." This is the basis for a long happy marriage. The Lord made women so that they love being "chased" and men so that they love to chase. We see this in the sex act. Women love to receive penetration, and men love to penetrate. Thus both get maximum satissfaction. To sum up: Love her and she will love you in return, in gratitude for finding her lovely. Reply to this Article
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (12 August 2008):
 I know what you're talking, but you're forgetting that we humans are very doubtful creatures.
Many women will believe that their partner loves her with all their heart, but will sometimes doubt their own intentions or feel inadequate for the guy's love. I agree with you in the idea that a guy should love his girlfriend so he can receive back love, but sadly this is not the case all the time. Love it's not black and white; there are lots of gray areas.
Another example is when the love of one of the person is not returned back. I've seen this many times with my friends, including guys. My friend [Adrian] loved his girlfriend so much, but she was a cheating liar and he knew it YET he was still with her. You could see his eyes be filled with sadness when he talked to her. He loved his girlfriend, showed to her that he loved her, but she never returned the feeling. It was clear that she was a lost soul, but she wasn't one that wanted to return back. She liked cheating on him and being in control of him and she practically used him while they were together.
And I will put my personal experience. I KNOW my boyfriend loves me with all his heart. I KNOW we will stay together,BUT I'm afraid that this will not last. There isn't any indication that our relationship will end, absolutely no, but my doubtful human thoughts lead me to try to see the reality that lurks in other couples. And even so, when I'm aware that my boyfriend loves me, I sometimes believe that I do not express my love for him enough. Of course, this makes me commit self sacrifices for him, but in my mentality they're not enough. I bet that I'm not the only one who feels this way.
I also believe that the saying "If you want to be loved, you have to love first" to be true, but sadly this is not the case all the time.
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reader, hdell +, writes (12 August 2008):
hdell is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIn response to PsyCookie I say that it is not enough for the guy to truly love the girl in order to see her respond in return. She must be CONVINCED that he truly loves her. If a girl is really convinced that the guy loves her, she will respond with sacrificial love for him. The basic principle is that girls love to be loved, and that is what they seek. And if they believe that they have found it, they will act accordingly.
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (12 August 2008):
This does not happen all the time.
I do agree with you when a couple is in a relationship, but there are times where the guy friend who completely loves and adores his girl friend is stuck in the friend zone and used as a rock all his life. The guy loved her like no one could, yet she blows him and goes for a jerk. I'd say maturity plays part on this too, not only giving them love.
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reader, flspy +, writes (11 August 2008):
Well, most American women subscribe to the equation: Money = Love.
Women dress for other women. Men will sleep with any pig that shows interest- remember Monica Lewinsky?
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reader, Nick Man +, writes (11 August 2008):
I agree fully with both comments. Also, always be a confident man, and love yourself before you attempt to do anything, because loving yourself is really the key to open the door for others to love you as well. A man who does not love himself will likely not be loved, compared to a man who does.
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reader, Eddie50  +, writes (5 August 2008):
I agree with this, also don't be afraid to be sensitive and romantic, its not a sign of being gay, women love a guy who can show their sensitive side as well, those guys who think by treating women like dirt is being a man are kidding themselves, they need to wakeup.
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