Is my husband looking to cheat?
Q. My boyfriend says that I am the love of his life and I love him too but he has "in a relationship" on his facebook profile and also states that he is interested in women. Can somebody help me with this? Does this mean that he wants to cheat on me?...
A. 8 June 2010: Everyone has that - It just means your sexual orientation.. so therefore hes interested in women means he is straight.. nothing to stress over at all.... (read in full...)
He cheated and then almost killed himself! Do I give him another chance?
Q. hello. i need help.... MY boyfriend of 8 months has been cheating on me with his ex.. on day i was hanging out at home when his ex girlfriend came to my house and told meh everything. ill tell u the convorsation " Yeah. hes been h...
A. 3 June 2010: Sociopath! Dont go there - leave him! I went thru the EXACT same thing..My then partner cheated the entire relationship, i only found out when he knocked one of em up. Told me he was sorry, begged for forgiveness, tried to guilt me by telling me he ... (read in full...)
Did my boyfriend get my colleugue pregnant?
Q. My boyfriend of 8 years cheated on me with one of my close co-workers at work, all three of us work together. And we have hung out together on the regular. But now the girl is pregant she's saying its 50-50. she not sure who the father is? I don't ...
A. 5 May 2010: Leave hun - I was in the EXACT same position recently. Its not easy.. throughout her pregnancy I thought I could handle it.. baby came and looked EXACTLY like my now ex bf.. after the child was born i still believed his promises of being a changed ... (read in full...)
How to trust others after being hurt
Q. Hey there, I just want some advice on how people have been able to overcome trust issues that were brought on by the betrayal of an ex partner. Im happy being single now.. but for future relationships I dont want to take past trust issues into a new ...
A. 30 April 2010: Neisha4knight - Thank you for your comment, thats actually a good way to go about it. =)... (read in full...)
I really like him but... he's got a girlfriend.
Q. So I've been really having a serious crush on this guy.. I have been told that yeah he is flirting with me and seems to be interested in me. There's only one problem he has a girlfriend. I don't know how long they been together or anything. These ...
A. 22 April 2010: You should do absolutely nothing considering he has a girlfriend. Let me ask you this - how would you feel if you were his girlfriend right now and here he is flirting with some other girl? It doesnt matter if you guys seem to have a deep ... (read in full...)
The sex I've had in the past upsets her.
Q. My girlfriend makes me feel bad constantly about the number of sexual partners I have had. I have been with seven other women. I don't think that's a high number. I had sex with seven different women but I only had sex, get this seven times. ...
A. 16 April 2010: Your number should no way be an issue, 7 I would have to say is a fantastic number considering your age. I know guys my age who have slept with 50+!! She doesnt have any right to demean you on your number. Whatever you did in your past before you ... (read in full...)
Need help not feeling guilty for wanting to move on from me ex who cheated on me..
Q. How do I stay strong and not feel guilty for wanting to move on from my ex who cheated on me and made a child as a result? Im finding it extremely difficult not to feel sorry for my ex.. I want to move on and heal my heart, so I changed my phone ...
A. 14 April 2010: QuirkLady - thank you for your words. I have been strong, I had to change my number twice because he got ahold of it and wouldnt leave me alone. I am ignoring his attempts, he leaves notes on my car and sends me emails however I am not replying ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend got another girl pregnant!
Q. I am going through a really hard time and im looking for some guidance or advice. im sorry if my questions seem all over the place but here i go. I have been dating my boyfriend since march of 2007... we have been through so much togethor and that...
A. 9 April 2010: I was in your EXACT position. I was with my ex for 3 years, then I told him we needed a break because he needed to sort his life out (he didnt have a job, needed to get his priorities in life straight, he had emotionally cheated on me before) Anyway ... (read in full...)
5 dollars for a 2 dollar coffee???
Q. There's a girl I work with, whom I get along with pretty well. She knows I really have a thing for her, but she's older than me. The other day I went to get coffee but she didn't have any money on her, so I bought her one. She said she'd pay me back ...
A. 9 April 2010: sometimes people like to pay back with more then what it actually cost... Say the coffee cost $2.65, no one would ever give you the EXACT change back unless they were a tight arse. I do it all the time, if someone pays for lunch for me because its ... (read in full...)
Need help not feeling guilty for wanting to move on from me ex who cheated on me..
Q. How do I stay strong and not feel guilty for wanting to move on from my ex who cheated on me and made a child as a result? Im finding it extremely difficult not to feel sorry for my ex.. I want to move on and heal my heart, so I changed my phone ...
A. 8 April 2010: You are so right in all the advice you have given me, I just dont know how to be so strong as to not read the emails or notes.. Its like Im tourching myself because I want to move on from him, but yet I also want to know that he misses me? I know it ... (read in full...)
Mixed bag of random questions.
Q. Can someone please answers some of my curious questions!! (as many as you can, maybe? Just write the number by it and state your answer) 1. When do boys start getting horny and turned on and get erections? 2. Do you have to pop your cherry befo...
A. 8 April 2010: Ok as for #2.. no you dont have to break the skin inorder for your period to come. I got my period when 11.. I lost my virginity at 17.. I dont think it has anything to do with releasing your period..... (read in full...)
Mixed bag of random questions.
Q. Can someone please answers some of my curious questions!! (as many as you can, maybe? Just write the number by it and state your answer) 1. When do boys start getting horny and turned on and get erections? 2. Do you have to pop your cherry befo...
A. 8 April 2010: Wow very random bag of questions indeed. Ill try to answer as many as I can!
1. Boys start getting horny when they reach puberty. Age varies as everyone is different.
2. Girls can get their period at all ages, again it varies.. and by popping y... (read in full...)
Need help not feeling guilty for wanting to move on from me ex who cheated on me..
Q. How do I stay strong and not feel guilty for wanting to move on from my ex who cheated on me and made a child as a result? Im finding it extremely difficult not to feel sorry for my ex.. I want to move on and heal my heart, so I changed my phone ...
A. 8 April 2010: Your right - I need to just let it go and not talk about it and just try live my life.. I just find it very difficult when he doesnt respect my wishes and is constantly contacting me in some way, notes left on my car, emails and just showing up at ... (read in full...)
Need help not feeling guilty for wanting to move on from me ex who cheated on me..
Q. How do I stay strong and not feel guilty for wanting to move on from my ex who cheated on me and made a child as a result? Im finding it extremely difficult not to feel sorry for my ex.. I want to move on and heal my heart, so I changed my phone ...
A. 7 April 2010: Yeah I know it will take months possibly years to see if he has truly changed or not..but i just found out hes lied so much more then i thought.. he told me he didnt go in the delivery room when his child was born, which i found out he did.. he ... (read in full...)
Need help not feeling guilty for wanting to move on from me ex who cheated on me..
Q. How do I stay strong and not feel guilty for wanting to move on from my ex who cheated on me and made a child as a result? Im finding it extremely difficult not to feel sorry for my ex.. I want to move on and heal my heart, so I changed my phone ...
A. 7 April 2010: I have spoken to him about this many times, and asked that he please give me my space as I need to figure out if I want to try with him again, given the fact that he has a lot of baggage now, so I have to take that into consideration aswell. I know ... (read in full...)
Need help not feeling guilty for wanting to move on from me ex who cheated on me..
Q. How do I stay strong and not feel guilty for wanting to move on from my ex who cheated on me and made a child as a result? Im finding it extremely difficult not to feel sorry for my ex.. I want to move on and heal my heart, so I changed my phone ...
A. 7 April 2010: I guess its even harder because I still love him. I want nothing more then for time to pass and he be able to show his changes are here to stay and not just momentary to win me back. I know people make mistakes, we are only human.. but should a ... (read in full...)
What do women like done to their breasts?
Q. Ok random question i know but.......what feels good for girls breastwise. You see all these hyped up examples and now im not sure what to think. My girlfriend says that rubbing her breasts is slightly arousing but i dont know how much or what wil...
A. 1 April 2010: I like when a guy teases and runs his tongue around them and kisses them.. but it doesnt really do anything for me sensually...its just nice that they get paid a little attention during foreplay =) ... (read in full...)
I'm hurt by his betrayal and don't know how to move past it.
Q. O.k so I found out about his betrayal 3 weeks ago, and I find it hard to move forward with him. I find myself throwing things in his face about what he did. I know I shouldn't do that because he will get tired but I don't know what to do. I don't ...
A. 1 April 2010: By the sounds of it he cheated? Once someone breaks trust in a relationship especially in the form of cheating, it is very rarely gained back. I suggest you take some time out for yourself to really think about everything and if he is worth trying ... (read in full...)
Question about breast implants - saline or silicone?
Q. Hello! I'm considering getting breast implants. I have been researching the different types, methods of implant, and things which can go wrong. Overall, I've got a very clear picture. I have one problem, I'm debating whether to get saline or silic...
A. 1 April 2010: Im 23 and have recently gotten breast implants and i have to say its the best thing ive ever done for myself. I opted to go with silicon, i am not a fan of the saline one bit, they are more prone to leaks and ripples and even sometimes you can hear ... (read in full...)
Yes I cheated but will he ever put this in the past?
Q. my husband and i have been struggling in our relationship for 5 years ago we have been in a relationship for 10 and married for going on 2 well 5 years ago i got really drunk and really don;t remember the night and i cheated well for 5 years we have ...
A. 31 March 2010: You guys need to go to couples councelling to help rebuild the trust. You broke the trust he had for you, you did the worst thing possible. But in saying that, if you have really changed and you BOTH want the marriage to work, you need to work ... (read in full...)
What is your take on this love letter?
Q. XXX is to protect my ex's name, and mine. Please tell me of the tone of the letter, and the idea of the ballet tix. I am asking of as many people's feedback as possible. ----- Dear XXXX, I ask you to read these words with an open mind and he...
A. 31 March 2010: I have to say this is a pretty amazing letter. I am hoping what you have written truly has come from your heart and is purely genuine and not something you've gotten out of a romance novel. I loved when you tell her everything you miss about her, ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend had an affair and now he has a child with her, I want us to work but I am just so hurt!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 yrs and have 2 children together. Last year he was having an affair and the other woman now has his baby. He loves his child and wants to be a part of his life. My problem is I know he and this woman have ...
A. 30 March 2010: Your in a very hard situation right now - and believe me i know EXACTLY how your feeling. There were days when I just wanted to go to sleep and never wake up again - and sometimes I still do feel that way as its still very fresh for me, but you ... (read in full...)
5 things I DO NOT miss about my ex...
Q. Hey everyone, So it's been just over 2 months since I broke up with my boyfriend and I am finally starting to come to terms with the reasons why we broke up in the first place. I thought that it might be a good idea to start a thread on 5 things t...
A. 30 March 2010: 1. I do not miss the way you were moody towards me 90% of the time
2. I do not miss finding hurtful messages/photos on your phone to and from other girls
3. I do not miss the lies you told me
4. I do not miss having to pay for your bills
... (read in full...)
I need to gather peoples thoughts because I don't believe my doctor.
Q. *OP's own title* I have this problem that I went to the doctor with. It used to happen almost everyday but sometimes it's once a week, once a month, multiple times a day, it varies. But my heart will suddenly and without cause, start beating real...
A. 30 March 2010: Hey - No my mum isnt old, mid 40's. Apparently its common in adult women, but i have to admit besides my mother i dont know anyone else who has ever had it. I first got one when i was 15.. i had lost a massive amount of weight the wrong way and im ... (read in full...)
I need to gather peoples thoughts because I don't believe my doctor.
Q. *OP's own title* I have this problem that I went to the doctor with. It used to happen almost everyday but sometimes it's once a week, once a month, multiple times a day, it varies. But my heart will suddenly and without cause, start beating real...
A. 30 March 2010: Hi there - I get Heart Palpitations alot myself. Sometimes I can go weeks without having one, and other times i can have multiple a day! i once timed by bpm for 20 seconds and got 70, so that made it 210 bpm! It was pretty crazy, but i sometimes ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend had an affair and now he has a child with her, I want us to work but I am just so hurt!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 yrs and have 2 children together. Last year he was having an affair and the other woman now has his baby. He loves his child and wants to be a part of his life. My problem is I know he and this woman have ...
A. 25 March 2010: Your very brave and mature contacting the woman directly. I did the same thing, I felt in order to get the truth I had to speak to her as my bf at the time wasnt telling all the truth. I guess ask her how long they had been seeing each other, ask ... (read in full...)
Husband cheated and got girl pregnant!
Q. what to do? i'm a christian, but am so confused. married 12 years and he cheated on me and got this young girl pregnant. he wants to stay with me, but how am i supposed to deal with him being involved in another child's life that isn't mine!!? we ...
A. 24 March 2010: I feel your pain - I was in a similiar situation however I was not married to the guy. I dated him for 3 years, he cheated and got a younger girl pregnant. It hurts deeply, I entertained the idea of us working and me letting him prove his so ... (read in full...)
He got someone pregnant while we were broken up
Q. my ex partner of 8 years and father of my two ids slept wit someone else fpr a few weeks wile we were apart.he told me he wasnt seeing anyone and was still having sex wit me wen he called for kids. he has recently found out she is pregnant. when he ...
A. 23 March 2010: Quiet-echo is right - its a lot of chaos indeed. Knowing that if he is in his childs life, he is in the life of the childs mother also. How would you feel knowing that everytime he goes to see the child, pick him/her up, etc.. he will be seeing ... (read in full...)
He got someone pregnant while we were broken up
Q. my ex partner of 8 years and father of my two ids slept wit someone else fpr a few weeks wile we were apart.he told me he wasnt seeing anyone and was still having sex wit me wen he called for kids. he has recently found out she is pregnant. when he ...
A. 23 March 2010: My bf(now ex) did the same to me. Slept with someone else while we were on a break (the break was for him to sort his life out, we did not talk about seeing other ppl) he got her pregnant and now the kid is here. I never took him back, i wanted to ... (read in full...)
My ex is a liar but I feel bad for ignoring her. What should I do?
Q. I broke up with my 4-year GF for good. We'd had complicated problems for a year (she is a liar). I cut her off completely after the talk, she chased after, and i got in my car and left. She called a few times. Left a message. A few weeks passed and ...
A. 22 March 2010: Im the same - I know my ex and I will never work out because I simply cannot trust someone who cheated on me and a baby was made because of that. I dont want to ever get back with him, yet I still look out for emails from him etc... I dont reply to ... (read in full...)
My ex is a liar but I feel bad for ignoring her. What should I do?
Q. I broke up with my 4-year GF for good. We'd had complicated problems for a year (she is a liar). I cut her off completely after the talk, she chased after, and i got in my car and left. She called a few times. Left a message. A few weeks passed and ...
A. 22 March 2010: My ex is the same - dated for 3 years, he did nothing but lie to me and cheated on me. I cut him outta my life a week ago (changed my phone number) He has now started emailing me, leaving notes in my mail box - saw me at the shopping centre and ... (read in full...)
Would it be ok to break my own hymen before having sex?
Q. Dear Cupid, This may be a silly question, but I don't know if there`s a possibly for losing my virginity, actually, for intense breaking my hymen by myself using something in place of an actual dildo. I've never had sex, but I want to have a f...
A. 22 March 2010: Not all girls bleed after the first time of intercourse. Sometimes your hymen can break naturally without you even noticing! My first time I didnt bleed at all =) ... (read in full...)
My ex wants to talk, I don't. How do I gently tell him no?
Q. Hi, My exboyfriend contacted me last week (through email) and asked me to get together personally so we can talk. We broke up three years ago. Then I would've been very interested in talking to him, not now. There were things about the past I...
A. 18 March 2010: I dont think that would be harsh at all... Yes its blunt and straight to the point, but why sugar coat it. If your not interested then reply with what you were going to say, or dont even reply at all! Im sure he will get the point. ... (read in full...)
My ex texted wanting another chance
Q. Well to make a long story short I have been on and off with a guy for about 2 years and he is in college he has done me wrong before and made plenty of mistakes so I ended it and was plannin on endin it for good... Well I started liking someone new ...
A. 17 March 2010: Dont give him another chance - once trust is broken especially in the form of cheating, one can never trust that person again. I made the mistake of giving my ex PLENTY of chances, and each time I took him back his mistakes got worse and worse to ... (read in full...)
B/f is secure but I don't love him; other guy now wants me
Q. I have a boyfriend of 5 yrs whom I live with, I also have a friend that I met around the same time. I chose my boyfriend because of the stability he provides me with, but honestly I don't love him. If he did not take care of me I would not be with ...
A. 17 March 2010: Well your just "using" your current boyfriend for the stability he provides you... Im sure if he knew that you were just with him because he supports you he would kick you out, and even more so after finding out your cheating on him. Have some ... (read in full...)
Will allowing my wife to sleep with other men get her through her mid life crisis?
Q. My wife has came to me with the idea that she wants to sleep with other men. She is madly in love with me and our sex life is incredible. She has been chatting online with other men and has lined up her first "dude" for this Friday night. She is ...
A. 17 March 2010: She is selfish - No one who is in a loving healthy relationship with a great sex life would dream about sleeping with someone else. Your wife has issues, instead of allowing her to sleep with other men I suggest you take her to couples councelling ... (read in full...)
Should I get an abortion of let my boyfriend think the baby is his?
Q. I am in a relationship and I have been messing with a old flame. He is also in a relationship and has a new baby. I found out I am pregnant by him (my old flame). I have had sex with my "boyfriend" so he will think he is the father when I prepare ...
A. 17 March 2010: No one can tell you to get an abortion, its a decision that should be made by both parties but ultimately comes down to you. You should not keep it and tell your boyfriend its his if you know 100% its not, thats just not fair to ruin his life like ... (read in full...)
What goes through someones mind after a breakup?
Q. Hey everyone, my girlfriend broke up with me a little over two months ago. Im a lot better than what I was after it happened. She wont talk to me now for some reason. I would just like to get a better idea what goes through a girls mind after they ...
A. 15 March 2010: I guess it depends on why you broke up. If she broke up with you because you hurt her in some way, then ofcourse she wouldnt want to speak to you because having no contact does help someone going through heartache... But if she broke up with you ... (read in full...)
What does sex feel like the first time?
Q. okay so everyone is having sex lately and i mean everyone ..i feel so left out but i dont really care. I could have sex if i wanted but im scared for some reason. I feel my body isn't ready for that.. I heard that sex makes girls get bigger i was ...
A. 11 March 2010: For some girls it hurts, for me it didn't because it was with someone who was gentle. But it didn't feel amazing the first time, but once your comfortable n start exploring different ways to do it you'll have an amazing time. Just make sure ur first ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my mother and risk my whole family finding out what happened?
Q. Hi there Aunts and Uncles. This is is something that has been playing on my mind for a long time. I'm remaining anonymous due to the topic. I was molested by my cousin as a child. The earliest incident I remember was when I was 4. My cousin was 25...
A. 10 March 2010: I'm sorry this happened to you. It's a big decision to make and only you can't make it, but justice should be made and that sick bastard should go to jail. He ruined your life and Jays life and who knows how many other kids he touched. People like ... (read in full...)
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