What does he mean by the fact that he thinks I'm boring?
Q. What does it mean when a guy says your boring? is sexually or he just doesnt have any else to say? and how do i become less boring?...
A. 10 October 2009: Yes you're doing the right thing. You're saving yourself from pain in the future. You seem very wise and able to follow logic instead of getting blind-sided by your emtions. You don't need advice. You've got it under control. ... (read in full...)
How do I make being with my wife's sister happen?
Q. i had a chance to be intimate with my wife's sister about 2years ago, and i didn't, now i am regretful that i didn't. i am regretful because i am overwhelmly in love with her. i think about her everyday. i pray and ask God to make a way that He wil...
A. 10 October 2009: You seriously pray to god to help you break one of the ten commandment? You are a whole new level of ignorant and just plain mean. I don't see a bit of remorse in your writing. You love your wife you love you sister in law? You don't know what love ... (read in full...)
What color do women like? And do they like them curved?
Q. Hi i'm 18 and i hav curved penis,altough its doesn't seem to be curved when its relaxed but when it gets erected it seems to be slightly bent downwards and very little to left but its a very little curve.I wanna know will i hav any problem while ...
A. 9 October 2009: I back up anonymous. You can't really expect us to tell what every woman likes can you? They're all different. And are you going to turn black if that's what we tell you they like?
Your skin is your skin, your penis is your penis. Accept it, lear... (read in full...)
Why did he delete the sexy photos I sent him?
Q. i took a sexy picture of myslef in lingerie for my man, put it on his computer for him as a surprize and he deletes it!!!!! what the flying fuck? i'm not fat i'm not unattractive so what the hell? i've asked him about it but haven't got a response ...
A. 9 October 2009: Caaaaaaallllm down. You can't hate him for deleating your picture. I delete my wife's pictures when we're in an arguement because I feel guilty having them when she's mad at me. She's stopped deleting them from her computer because she knows she'll ... (read in full...)
Stripping naked in front of a window?
Q. Can anyone tell me why a woman would strip nacked and flaunt herself in front of the window when she is argueing with her husband ?. I am deeply puzzled as to why she would do this....
A. 9 October 2009: Are you complaining? Lol.. did she know you were standing there well in veiw?
Just thank your karma and move on. ... (read in full...)
What color do women like? And do they like them curved?
Q. Hi i'm 18 and i hav curved penis,altough its doesn't seem to be curved when its relaxed but when it gets erected it seems to be slightly bent downwards and very little to left but its a very little curve.I wanna know will i hav any problem while ...
A. 9 October 2009: Are you insinuating that you will colour your penis if our responses to a proper colour don't go hand in hand with your actual colour?
Well.. last time I checked, the penis goes in the vagina. Not the eye socket. So I really don't think colour has ... (read in full...)
He cheated on 4 girlfriends! will he cheat on me too?
Q. So.... my boyfriend of a year and I have talked about moving in together in the new year. We have known each other for like 7 years, and he is not only the love of my life, but my bestfriend. Thing is, he cheated on 4 of his 4 past g/f's, but ...
A. 8 October 2009: You can stay in the relationship but I think you should wait to move in with him. He might not cheat; tasting your own medicine can make you rethink your dosage to others, so he may be sincere. You'll never know until you try I guess. You might end ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for a woman to ask a man out?
Q. I have another question, is it wrong for woman to ask man out on a date? Does it start a cycle of a woman taking the male role in the relationship?...
A. 8 October 2009: Go for it. It won't start a cycle if you don't make it start a cycle. Just make a move and if you don't want to become completely dominant, then make sure you take turns. Don't always cave and make the next one. Or you could simply tell him, "Just ... (read in full...)
What does he mean by the fact that he thinks I'm boring?
Q. What does it mean when a guy says your boring? is sexually or he just doesnt have any else to say? and how do i become less boring?...
A. 8 October 2009: Oh I just read the first follow-up. I only saw the second one at first. You should just ignore him. You're doing a good thing for yourself by ignoring him because of his cheating ways. He's clearly a jerk so why should you care if he thinks you're ... (read in full...)
What does he mean by the fact that he thinks I'm boring?
Q. What does it mean when a guy says your boring? is sexually or he just doesnt have any else to say? and how do i become less boring?...
A. 8 October 2009: Well.. of course he's going to think you're boring if you don't talk to him... and you only hang out with him when you are put in the same place at the same time.. ... (read in full...)
He is calling me chubby and it hurts
Q. My boyfriend who I have not been dating for very long tells me I'm a little fat around the midsection and rear section. This really hurt my feelings when he said this. We had just made love and he told me I was not fat just a little chubby an...
A. 8 October 2009: What? What do you mean all you can do is plastic surgery? There is excersize.. and eating well..
Anyway..
Yes he's being a jerk. He's being a jerk, that is, if you're telling is the whole story. That he just randomly brings it up and shoves i... (read in full...)
Why does she dress that way when I'm not around
Q. hey wats going on i tried talking with my girlfriend about why she dresses better and more revealing when im not around and she got realy defensive and didnt let me finish she always does that when i try and talk to her about something we nead to ...
A. 8 October 2009: I'd say she has some sort of resentment built up and is snapping at every word you say to her. Either that or she's not really as gaga over you as she used to be. OR she knows she already has you and doesn't need to impress you but likes the ... (read in full...)
What does he mean by the fact that he thinks I'm boring?
Q. What does it mean when a guy says your boring? is sexually or he just doesnt have any else to say? and how do i become less boring?...
A. 7 October 2009: Boring as in, not interesting or fun to be around/talk to.
Dictionary.com says: a dull, tiresome, or uncongenial person.
When someone says "boring" they aren't usually useing a word that fluctuates in meaning.
You should either change your ... (read in full...)
Should I have a child while I can? Or is he just not Mr. Right?
Q. i met my partner 18 yrs ago when i was 19 and he was 43, i realise this is a very large age gap but we had a happy relationship for about 15 years, the only problem we had was my desire to have a child, it always seem to cause a row if i brought up ...
A. 7 October 2009: Are you waiting for you husband's time so you can get another partner? This is very odd... people should really think about age differences and the problems they cause later on..
If you want a child, then it's probably the only chance you'll have... (read in full...)
Can I give my baby up for adoption overseas?
Q. Hi is it possible that I give my 7months old baby for adoption overseas?I really wish to know because I want her far away from me but want to get information about her well being from time to time.please help me....
A. 7 October 2009: This is not the place to ask. This is heartbreaking.. You need to research this or call a professional who would have this information. Like DFAX.. But we are not the right people to advice you on how to get rid of her...
And whatever you do, be g... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants kids, but I don't think I do. How can we get through this?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for almost three years now. I'm almost 28 and have two kids, 6-8 from a previous marriage. What is preventing our relationship from progressing is that I have had a vasectomy and am not really sure if I'm going to wan...
A. 7 October 2009: Having a family is one of our purposes of life. We reproduce to keep our race alive and in order to accomplish that, we have to be filled with a desire to do so. So it's instinct for people to want to have kids. It's not really fair for her to never ... (read in full...)
He's accepted a job that will keep him away from home for 4 weeks at a time; I'm afraid he'll look at porn while he's gone
Q. My husband recently accepted a job (without my opinion) that will keep him away for 30 days at a time versus coming home every 2 weeks as he did before. He works on a riverboat with men only and with this new job, I will only see him for a total of ...
A. 7 October 2009: If you don't like the magazines, then you don't like them and no one can calm you into it. I don't look at them, i hate them. I hate porn as well so don't think it's impossible for a man to disreguard these things. And this is coming from a person ... (read in full...)
Anyone with experience in the U.S. Navy?
Q. Well I'm considering joining the U.S. Navy. I think what I'm worried about most is that I'm 25. I know it's not OLD but it feels like it is to just be getting into that line of work. I sometimes feel like I have a lack of fulfillment in my life I ...
A. 7 October 2009: Lol sorry about that. I should have noticed. I've been in the Army since I was 17. Women cannot be in infantry and you're not looking for a lady.. so i guess.. cancel out pretty much everything i said. ... (read in full...)
Anyone with experience in the U.S. Navy?
Q. Well I'm considering joining the U.S. Navy. I think what I'm worried about most is that I'm 25. I know it's not OLD but it feels like it is to just be getting into that line of work. I sometimes feel like I have a lack of fulfillment in my life I ...
A. 7 October 2009: The Army, hence the avatar.
Army reserve or National Guard sound like good options for you. You can stay at home and get a GI bill and get paid to go to college, have a life, girlfiend, friends, etc. but you still get the oppurtunity to deploy and ... (read in full...)
How do I clean up
Q. Not so much a question about a problem, just looking for some opinions and advice on something sex related from other couples. Always after having sex and my bf comes inside me, it always seeps out. We don't use condoms because I'm on the pill ...
A. 7 October 2009: Kleenex.. or use a wash cloth and use water to ensure no stain.. putting a towel underkneath works well too, since washing towels and easier than washing sheets. ... (read in full...)
Will he know if I'm a virgin
Q. im seeing this lad and i told him im not a virgin, and we both want to have sex i dont want him to kno that im a virgin will he find out after having sex with me?? i cant tell him im a virgin either but i use tampons and ive been fingerd a few times ...
A. 7 October 2009: If you are not the same person who wrote this question earlier, then you should take a look at this link because you are likely to get the same answers:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-think-im-ready-for-sex-will-he.html
If you are the same per... (read in full...)
How do I get my boyfriend to propose?
Q. I am 22 years old and i have been in a relationship with my 25 boyfriend for almost 5years what can i do to try and get him to propose. we always talk about the future, but i dont think that he is going to propose at least no tome in the near ...
A. 7 October 2009: You can't make him propose. If he isn't ready, then it is in the interest of both of you that he not do it. You can't force or manipulate someone into making a decision this large and important against his or her willingness. He'll do it when he's ... (read in full...)
Should I listen to my heart or my head?
Q. Hello, I'd like some advice on how to get my heart to listen to my head, or whether I should carry on as I am. A month ago, I split up with my bf of 9 years. We were happy for 7 years, lived together for 5 years, but then split up in May 2008 when ...
A. 7 October 2009: It's be one thing if told you about it, but he was hiding it. If you hadn't discovered it yourself, it would still be going on. He didn't learn his lesson the first time because you got back together with him. So why should he stop? You cannot let ... (read in full...)
The love of my life adds pornstars to his facebook!
Q. My boyfriend is the love of my life, an utterly lovely man, but also a very naughty, horny man. He likes his porno films and has tons. I've never minded this as I do like it to, but recently he's started adding the pornstar girls on his facebook.. ...
A. 7 October 2009: This is not ok. I don't watch porn myself, but I know that a huge part of why porn is ok to most people is because it's a fantasy, not a reality. Men whill never meet those porn stars and they are therefor untouchable and don't bother women. What he ... (read in full...)
Is it weird that I like being fat?
Q. I used to be very skinny. When I was a teenager and went on holiday I would eat and drink loads and not gain weight. Sometimes I would lose weight. Over the past couple of years this has stopped. A couple of years ago I took a year off from wo...
A. 6 October 2009: I'm going to be honest with you.. there's a difference in being sexy and trashy. Shirts that reveal your cleavage and your belly fall more on the trashy side. And if you're overweight, you're probably not attracting good attention. I recommend being ... (read in full...)
How do I fix this after cheating with her friend?
Q. So the other night my brother and I decided to go drinking, we drank... heavily and set out (in a cab) to hit the bar. We get to the bar, hang out, life is good, we met some cool people. Now that being said, I woke up and a girl was leaving...
A. 6 October 2009: Dude...
You have to act now. The more upfront and immediate you are in telling your girl what happened, the more likely she is to forgive you. If you wait a few months or wait till she finds out somehow, she's likely not going to want to be with... (read in full...)
Ex doesn't believe the baby is his and treats me very badly
Q. My ex was supposed to pay half a deposit for a pregnancy antenatal visit. He had agreed (prior to breaking up) to pay half then 1 hr before the appointment today he decided to go back on his words and not pay...meaning I am now trying to get any ...
A. 6 October 2009: I think he's in between emotions, not about you, but about the baby. When women find out they're having a baby, they have to be there. The baby is inside of her so unless hse aborts, she can't just walk away. But men, have that option. If they're ... (read in full...)
I had a bad accident, will women want to date me?
Q. I haven't dated in over 17 years and I don't want to be alone forever. I was nearly killed in a car accident when I was 24(I'm 41 now).I was a bodybuilder at the time,which doctors say probably saved my life.I was drunk(.33)4 times the limit....
A. 6 October 2009: Lazy guy, wow.. People make mistakes. Drinking and driving does NOT make someone a bad person! It means they're human.. they drank, didn't think clearly, got behind the wheel, and this man has spent the last couple of decades paying for that ... (read in full...)
Is it weird that I like being fat?
Q. I used to be very skinny. When I was a teenager and went on holiday I would eat and drink loads and not gain weight. Sometimes I would lose weight. Over the past couple of years this has stopped. A couple of years ago I took a year off from wo...
A. 6 October 2009: If it's not hurting you then I don't see why you should ask them to stop. But it is rude of them. Maybe they should be aware of that.
It's not weird to like being fat. I've known girls like that. They like the curves and the way they can move when... (read in full...)
Do nice guys even still exist?
Q. I am 19 and I have never been kissed. Or even been on a date. Now that I am in college I want to date but all the guys I meet are more interested in partying and meaningless sex. I do not go to parties and I obviously don't have sex so I don't know ...
A. 6 October 2009: Don't give up! Nice guys might be hiding in fear of no nice girls. That'w what I did. I covered up my insecurities by acting out and being the center of attention and getting in fights and doing drugs.. I felt so worthless I didn't care abou my ... (read in full...)
What can I do to solve my depression?
Q. i think im really depressed, my parents are divorced, i have no friends who live any were near me, im anti social, and feel down all the time. can you recomend anything i can do?...
A. 5 October 2009: If you're really depressed, that's chemical embalance in your brain and you need to talk to your parents about seeing a doctor.
However, you may just be an unhappy person. You say your antisocial as if it's a decision.. and I think in your case... (read in full...)
I'm in love with two best friends. Any ideas?
Q. im in love with two people both available but both best friends and they both like me what should i do? x...
A. 5 October 2009: That's not love, that's crushes. You can't be truely in love with more than one person. Love is committment. You should not date either one of them. It would not be fair for whoever you do date that you still are "in love" with the other. What's ... (read in full...)
He shaved his pubic hair when I asked him not to!
Q. So today is a very sad day for me. I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years and he's been talking about shaving his pubic hair for a while. Well, today he did it! Why why why? He just came home from work ate dinner and did it while i was ...
A. 5 October 2009: Woah woah .. it's HIS pubic hair. You cannot demand that he never shave it! That's very controlling of you. I did it once when my wife didn't want me to and when she saw it she said "oh.. you did it. Why?" And I told her why and she said "oh ok.. ... (read in full...)
He lied about his age. What should I do now?
Q. I met a guy who told me he was 18 going on 19..things developed fast and I think I've fallen for him, only for him to tell me he's 16. I'm 22. I'm confused and told him I need time to think. What should I do?...
A. 5 October 2009: I think that's a fine dicision. You should keep in touch with him though. Who knows... maybe you can have a beautiful relationship one day. ... (read in full...)
He lied about his age. What should I do now?
Q. I met a guy who told me he was 18 going on 19..things developed fast and I think I've fallen for him, only for him to tell me he's 16. I'm 22. I'm confused and told him I need time to think. What should I do?...
A. 5 October 2009: People lie, not typically to hurt others but to keep themselves safe. He was scared that if you knew his age you wouldn't give him a chance. Well would you have? He felt he needed to do it for some reason, either because he's been judged for his age ... (read in full...)
If I can get her into it it's OK, right?
Q. if i was in the mood for sex and my gf isn`t and i did things to make her horney like foreplay is it safe to assume i can proceed? if she resisted at first but then gave in then it`s ok? its not rape if she ends up enjoying it right?...
A. 5 October 2009: Just apologize to her and let her know that you don't feel ok about it. Make it clear that you will discontinue your actions and that you don't want her to do anything she doesn't want to do. Be gentle and move slowly. You can't rectify what you did ... (read in full...)
If I can get her into it it's OK, right?
Q. if i was in the mood for sex and my gf isn`t and i did things to make her horney like foreplay is it safe to assume i can proceed? if she resisted at first but then gave in then it`s ok? its not rape if she ends up enjoying it right?...
A. 5 October 2009: It seems like an emotional rape but not a physical one. You didn't hold her down and force her with your body, but you pushed her into it and used words until she agreed. You should let it go and let her have it when she's comfortable herself ... (read in full...)
How should I apologize for accidentally touching her breast?
Q. So, theres this girl in my 9th grade english and P.E. classes, and we been hanging out alot. I like her, she likes me, and we get along really well. I hug her almost every time we have to leave eachother for classes/ bus, although were not actually ...
A. 30 September 2009: I disagree here.. I think that you won't feel alright around her again until you assure her that it was all accidental. Your note sounds fine to me. And I think she'll have respect for you if she knows it was an accident and that you didn't get all ... (read in full...)
Maybe if he thinks I'm sick, he'll drop the tough guy act and want to get back together?
Q. i want my bf back but idk how long or if that will happen and i dont want to wait around for him to realize what he let go and what we had. do u ever really get over ur first true love? our break up ended bad and we havent talked since, iv e...
A. 30 September 2009: You can't tell him you're sick to make him talk to you. That's just a petty thing to do, to guilt him into it. If he came back after that, he wouldn't be sincere and it wouldn't be because he wanted to. You jsut can't do that to a person.
If he c... (read in full...)
Dating 3 weeks, when do I shave my pubic hair, before we get married or before sex?
Q. i've been dating this guy for 3 weeks. i don't know if i should shave my private area before he and i get marry? or before we have sex? ...
A. 30 September 2009: ... I don't think marraige or sex has anything to do with pubic hair.. I couldn't care less if my wife is shaved, trimmed, braided, buzzed or fullout bush. I think each guy has a different preference though so just ask him if he wants you shaved or ... (read in full...)
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