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36-40,
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writes:So the other night my brother and I decided to go drinking, we drank... heavily and set out (in a cab) to hit the bar. We get to the bar, hang out, life is good, we met some cool people. Now that being said, I woke up and a girl was leaving my apt. so I pretended to be asleep. I woke up, hours later, piecing the night back into order, and there was used condoms in my bedside rubbish. This doesnt seem all that bad, exept, I have a serious girlfriend who was out of town, and two the girl I may have slept with was her best friend. (her friend drove me home)Now, how do I approach either of these situations, this just happened,so I havent really called or texted her friend, and havent been able to look my girl in the face. I have been sleeping on the couch, oh yea did I mention she lives with me? because thats important. So I havent been intimate with my girl, and I feel guilty...am I a bad person? can somebody help
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reader, Confuzzled012 +, writes (6 October 2009):
 Dude...
You have to act now. The more upfront and immediate you are in telling your girl what happened, the more likely she is to forgive you. If you wait a few months or wait till she finds out somehow, she's likely not going to want to be with you. Tell her. Tell her now. As soon as you read this. Go!
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (6 October 2009):
 I think you already know the answer to that.
You cant find love in a relationship if you are looking for love outside of it.
Drinking is no excuse, so don't try to b.s. us here with "you don't remember"
Part of being an adult is taking responsibility for our actions. And cheating is not a mistake, it is a selfish conscious decision that BOTH OF YOU made without any care for your GF, whom the both of you knew was out of town.
Time for you to be a real man, tell your GF and let her decide wehether or not to continue with her. It is no longer your decision. You lost that right when you screwed her friend, and you both are should be ashamed and tell her yourselves. Because she will eventually find out.
Congrats, dude...lmao...GOOD JOB!
GROW THE HELL UP!
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