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writes:What does it mean when a guy says your boring? is sexually or he just doesnt have any else to say? and how do i become less boring? Reply to this Question
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reader, Confuzzled012 +, writes (10 October 2009):
 Yes you're doing the right thing. You're saving yourself from pain in the future. You seem very wise and able to follow logic instead of getting blind-sided by your emtions. You don't need advice. You've got it under control.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks again for your response=]i care because earlier this year{like january} i actually started to have feelings for him... and told him that... i have been tryin hard to get over him....recently he asked me if i still had feelings for him
and i told him no{ even tho i think i lied}.i dont wanna be with him cuz of his past and he shows no signs of changiing.. was that the right thing to do telling him i dont like him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2009): I would say he is mad that you aren't that interested in him, so he is feeling rejected and putting it back on you as you are boring, you have no taste....etc.
Let it go in one ear and out the other. If he is saying that to other people it just makes him look like he is jealous or something and if you ignore it he will stop...don't give him any attention when he acts badly.
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reader, Confuzzled012 +, writes (8 October 2009):
Oh I just read the first follow-up. I only saw the second one at first. You should just ignore him. You're doing a good thing for yourself by ignoring him because of his cheating ways. He's clearly a jerk so why should you care if he thinks you're boring?
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reader, Confuzzled012 +, writes (8 October 2009):
Well.. of course he's going to think you're boring if you don't talk to him... and you only hang out with him when you are put in the same place at the same time..
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey thanks for the replies but me and this guy has never dated..he liked me last year but I did not return the feelings until this year... But even then I wouldn't talk to him or kiss him... And this year he started callin me boring...we don't speak on the phone and we only hang out because of family and friends...
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionum lol thanxs for the replies but me and this guy dont even go out.... he started callin me that this year... cause he liked me last year and i never returned the feelings until this year but i wouldnt kiss him or talk to him cuz he has a reputation of cheating.. could that be it??... what bothers me is that he's tellin other people that and its pissin me off im tryin to ignore it but idk what to do..me and him dont speak on the phone and are around each other because of family and friends not by choice...please tell me what is goin through his little brain!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2009): You can become less boring by not worrying about what an asshole said to you. What a loss class thing to say.
Bored people are boring. He is the one who is boring, good riddance, stop obsessing about what he had to say, he doesn't know you it doesn't sound like to me.
And you mentioned sex, one way to avoid jerks is not to give them sex too early upon meeting them and being more selective by knowing what your boundaries are and setting them early. If a guy can't live up to your standards (like not calling you names and being rude) then he isn't worth your time and energy.
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reader, itiswhatitis +, writes (7 October 2009):
It simply means you are too dependant on him....if you get a life and have space and interest of your own it actaully turns a man on..it also gives you something interesting to talk about-- a life. Find some interest of your own, hang with your friends & family and sometimes don't report to him, let a call go to voice mail and wait a few hours to call him back...The old saying distance makes the heart grow fonder is SO TRUE; when I am oit and about coming home is a grand affair he misses me soooo ... I was dating a guy for 1 year who I actually adored more than food. I was always checking in and making sure he know my every move. I was always available for him, with 30 minutes notice I'd be ready to go..... and you know what he got bored, started taking me for granted.. MEN love the chase, and a challenge. I started finding something to do, even if I was at home as far as he knew I was super busy, out handling ...and you know what he went from ignoring me and acting disinterested to proposing... we are now married but I make sure to give him his space and I stay so busy I'm the most interesting woman in his world...He tells his friends all the time..My girl is no joke she is a super woman.... GET A LIFE!
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reader, Confuzzled012 +, writes (7 October 2009):
Boring as in, not interesting or fun to be around/talk to.
Dictionary.com says: a dull, tiresome, or uncongenial person.
When someone says "boring" they aren't usually useing a word that fluctuates in meaning.
You should either change your personality to fit his, open your mind and try new things, or find a guy who has the same hobbies (or therefor lack of) as you do.
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