Hes always blowing hot and cold.
Q. Hi, i need some unbiased advice!.....basically, i was in a relationship from a young age, 15. At the age of 20, i fell out of love with my boyf, and fell totally for my best guy friend who id known for three years. I ended my relationship nt knowing ...
A. 17 April 2010: aw thank u, we've had space recently and it has def helped, he sed he doesnt wanna keep faffing around and think he knows he needs to control his relationship anxieties, thanx 4 the advice :) x... (read in full...)
Please read! Crazy about my best guy friend
Q. Hi guys ne advice wud be appreciated. In short, i love my best guy friend and actually ended things over a year a ago with my ex of 5 years coz my feelings were so strong. My friend ad a gf but they drifted apart. We both have anxiety but are ...
A. 9 March 2010: thanx 4 the advice :)... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing by leaving? And should I leave him alone now and see what happens?
Q. Hi, about three months ago i met a guy in work. He said he came into my shop just to see me coz he thought i was beautiful. I'd been through depression and anxiety after a break up and wasnt sure at first. He worked in the shop and we got closer and ...
A. 24 August 2009: thank you so much guys, nice to have your perspective... (read in full...)
During sex all I do is think about the size
Q. Hi! k i'll try keep this short. I was with my ex for six years and we split b34 xmas. I dated and slept with two of the guys, its was nice but they didn't last long! Anyway, i've met a guy recently, and he's different to anyone i've been out with, ...
A. 2 July 2009: thanks for all the advice! lube and slower is the way forward lol... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm living in a nightmare.
Q. Hi everyone just looking for a bit of reassurance again. Me and my boyfriend of 5 years have been apart for 6 months now, but I'm not handling it well at all. It was my choice to end it, and now I feel like I'm being punished. I'm on ...
A. 18 May 2009: Thank you for all your replies, its nice to know i'm not going crazy lol :)... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm living in a nightmare.
Q. Hi everyone just looking for a bit of reassurance again. Me and my boyfriend of 5 years have been apart for 6 months now, but I'm not handling it well at all. It was my choice to end it, and now I feel like I'm being punished. I'm on ...
A. 15 May 2009: Thanks for the advice. I have good support networks in my family, and a few close friends that I trust. I just feel so not 'me'. But I hopefully will feel better soon, think I need a little more willpower. Thanks again for the advice :)... (read in full...)
It's driving me crazy..all these worries, no that I am not dating!
Q. Hi! So fed up of everything atm. As i said previously, i broke up with my boyf of almost 6 years five months ago and just felt really crappy for about 4 months. I miss the relationship but wouldn't want to go back to my ex boyf, who's moved on ...
A. 3 May 2009: thanks for the advice, think its just that i feel a bit conscious now when i go out on the town lolthanx again tho, im sure ur right :)... (read in full...)
Relationship not what it used to be--please help!
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for just over 18 months now. I just wanted to ask people's advice. For the first 9 months or so, things couldn't have been better- to put it simply, we were so in love! We did everything together. She always wa...
A. 2 May 2009: Sometimes people don't know what they've got when its there all the time. I don't agree with 'playing games' in a relationship, however if u just relax a bit and mayb just give her space, she'll hopefully show some affection first. Also, i do ... (read in full...)
What's wrong with me?! Is this NORMAL for a teenager?
Q. I'm a teenager that just can't date like others do. People my age date because they have a small crush on each other, because that's what you're supposed to do at my age, right? But for some reason I can only go with a girl for love, not just for...
A. 26 April 2009: I feel the same and i'm 21, i was in a relationship for five years, and since then the whole dating thing has been weird to me, i have to know a guy before i like him properly, personality is important to me, so don't worry you sound fine to me, and ... (read in full...)
There is a light at the end of the tunnel and you can move on
Q. Dear all, For those who think there is no light at the end of the tunnel read this. A year and a half ago i found out my husband of 21 years had been cheating on me not once but several times thoughout our marriage,i found out lots of things i...
A. 20 April 2009: Great story, ur so brave, and such a strong person!... (read in full...)
Is this anxiety normal after a breakup?
Q. I am currently dealing with anxiety and depression after a five year break up. It's really getting me down because I don't feel myself at all. My head will think things that I don't feel inside, and it's really upsetting me because I'm afraid that...
A. 19 April 2009: aw thank you for the kind message :) iv set up meetings with a counsellor so hopefully they will help, I just wanna know that i'm normal if that makes sense lol i was with the same guy for so long and from a young age and i feel a bit lost. I know ... (read in full...)
Can I get past this and get my life together again? Please help me with your advice!
Q. Whoever can help me would be greatly appreciated. To start my story - my boyfriend and I have been together for 12 years, we have children together and I love him with all my heart. I just recently found out that he had an affair, it just crushed ...
A. 19 April 2009: you may get info on the internet about local counselling services. Talking should help you, and also you'd see things from different perspectives. Good luck!... (read in full...)
Can I get past this and get my life together again? Please help me with your advice!
Q. Whoever can help me would be greatly appreciated. To start my story - my boyfriend and I have been together for 12 years, we have children together and I love him with all my heart. I just recently found out that he had an affair, it just crushed ...
A. 18 April 2009: I don't think you'll ever trust him in the same way, but if you feel you want to work on it, have you thought about relationship counselling?... (read in full...)
Has anyone had a break up after a long time and felt like this?
Q. Hi, just wanted a little moan again. I'm so fed up of feeling sad, and worrying about things. I split with my bf five months ago, and although I don't want him back, I miss being in a relationship. He's moved on fast, which he's entitled to do, but ...
A. 15 April 2009: Thanks for your comments. I'm only on 10mg a day atm they don't seem to help so am going back to the doctors. Have began some counselling too. Thank you all for your advice!... (read in full...)
Me and my girlfriend of 4 years split up about a week ago and I need advice
Q. Hi guys.. Me and my girlfriend of 4 years split up about a week ago and I could do with some advice and hopefully words of wisdom! Theres alot to it so thanks in advance for taking time to read it. I first met my girlfriend 4 years ago whe...
A. 10 April 2009: I would just explain all this to her. Tell her you're confused by what she wants. You've done the right thing by giving her space, if you chased her, it would probably drive her further away, so you've definitely done the right thing thre. She ... (read in full...)
Absent attraction driving me mad!
Q. Hi, just wondering if anyone has ever felt like this. I was with my boyfriend for five years from the age of 15, we broke up five months, I liked a guy friend of mine a lot, but nothing came of it and he let me down. I dated recently and the guy ...
A. 10 April 2009: Thanx, im on medication atm, its not that i'm not sure, i've only ever gone out with boys, and I have a genuine fear of that changing, i know that sounds silly, but its just not something I would want to do. At the same time, I'm just bit off men ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend died 8 months ago and I can't move on...
Q. Hey dear cupid, I was dating this wonderful guy for 2 years, everything was perfect we never fought, never argued, it was a perfect relationship. He was my prince charming.. he asked me out on prom and since then we have been inseperable... but he ...
A. 9 April 2009: Hi I've only broke up with someone, and I'm a mess just can't imagine what you're going through but stay strong, definitely get medical advice and try to see positives, it sounds cliche, but time heals, take care xx... (read in full...)
Chances of her being pregnant?
Q. My fiance and I had sex last night, we normally pull out but she was on top and we couldn't coordinate fast enough when I came so the first couple shots ended up getting inside her. It wasn't much and she went to the bathroom and washed out. Could ...
A. 9 April 2009: big chance, withdrawing doesn't work either as there is pre-sperm before you actually ejaculate ... (read in full...)
I'm utterly confused about my feelings towards my teacher and his feelings for me! Help me!
Q. I'm 16 and I'm going to graduate at the end of the year. Today, I felt this strange sensation in my stomach today, nothing I've ever felt before. There were actual butterflies in my stomach today when I saw my teacher, and I just said, "wow" to ...
A. 9 April 2009: I think you should avoid getting involved with your teacher, I remember feeling upset once when my teacher got married, but he never showed interest in me like that, he just wanted me to do well in my studies. My advice would be to focus on your ... (read in full...)
Shadow of my former self....
Q. Help, I know I post on here a lot, but it's kind of theraputic. I just completely don't feel myself, I feel like a weak person, after ending a five year relationship, five months later I'm a mess. I was fine when I did it, but I genuinely feel like ...
A. 9 April 2009: Thank you for your reply, I just feel so down but I know I'm not the onyl one to feel like this. I don't think it helps that my ex has moved on quite quickly and I feel left behind, evn though the break up was my fault. Thanks again for your advice ... (read in full...)
Anxieties after a breakup.Help me!
Q. Please someone help, I can't stop crying as I write this. I've posted a few times but find it helps. I broke up with my boy friend of five years five months ago. I was totally fine and had never felt so together with myself. I liked my guy friend ...
A. 7 April 2009: Thanks again, I know you're right, and that's what keeps me positive, thanks again for your reply!... (read in full...)
Anxieties after a breakup.Help me!
Q. Please someone help, I can't stop crying as I write this. I've posted a few times but find it helps. I broke up with my boy friend of five years five months ago. I was totally fine and had never felt so together with myself. I liked my guy friend ...
A. 7 April 2009: Thank you for you're response. I have been for medication and it does seem to be helping although I think it will take a few more weeks to work properly. I know how silly it is, but I can't seem to stop worrying about it, maybe because I have so ... (read in full...)
I don't know how I will move on
Q. I dont know how I will move on. Its quite long now, 2 months, since my married man left me. He left me as our relationship went to his wife, however from the time he left we do not stop keeping each other until one day his wife came to know our ...
A. 7 April 2009: I don't think you should contact him again, its sounds like the typical story of 'he'll never leave his wife' you deserve you're own happiness, and shouldn't have to share!... (read in full...)
I was more independent when in a relationship than I feel now!
Q. Please someone help me shed some light on why I feel the way I do. I'm 21 and broke up with my bf of five and half years about five months ago. I felt we'd grown apart and also I liked another guy who is my best friend. He promised a lot, and let me ...
A. 7 April 2009: Thanks for the advice, that's so true what your saying but I'm just so used to being with somebody, I feel lost atm. My bf of five years wasn't a player, or my friend that i liked, i tend to favour personality however the guy that i dated recently ... (read in full...)
How can I educate my friends on my disorder? How can I help myself overcome it?
Q. Hey, i need help, im a 15 year old girl with social phobia, generalized anxiety disorder and Avoidant Personaltiy Disorder (SP, GAD and AvPD). The thing is non of my friends understand, they just think im being rude when i don't go to sleepovers...
A. 6 April 2009: Maybe you could show your closest friends a website or leaflet to help explain things? Stuff like this can be hard for teenagers to understand but in time, with maturity they'll realise it's part of you and hopefully accept you for who you are, if ... (read in full...)
Has my boyfriend gone all cold?
Q. Hello.... Well here it is, my boyfriend has gone all cold...... He is not like he use to be 7 months ago. He does not say he misses me like he use to, randomly in the day he send a text message like, i miss you my angel.. Or he would phone just to ...
A. 6 April 2009: I wouldn't push him too much, just be there for him :) there's nothing worse than feeling like someones being cold with you, but give him some space and hopefully he'll realise you're there to help and he doesn't have to deal with things alone :) ... (read in full...)
What should I do to be his friend? I have a crush on him!
Q. I have a crush on this guy that was once my friend, but we never really talked then. Now we're like strangers, and we fell out several times. He can be really mean but also very nice.For 4 years, i think i talked to him for about 10 sentences. If i ...
A. 6 April 2009: I'd say don't make it obvious you're interested. Find out what he's into, eg films, music etc and try subtley to have conversations about them, but still be yourself!... (read in full...)
How do I get things back to how they were?
Q. Since i have been at uni i have been really good friends with this girl. For the past 3 months she has been really flirty with me, hugging me every chance she can, sleeping in my bed etc which i really liked. I knew she liked me but i never acted on ...
A. 6 April 2009: I don't think you should make her jealous just try and act normally, it's prob hard for her because when she liked you, you weren't available, and now you are she's changed...my friend acted the same, when he couldn't have me, that's when he wanted ... (read in full...)
How do I get things back to how they were?
Q. Since i have been at uni i have been really good friends with this girl. For the past 3 months she has been really flirty with me, hugging me every chance she can, sleeping in my bed etc which i really liked. I knew she liked me but i never acted on ...
A. 6 April 2009: Hi :) I've been in a similar situation, I'm a girl aged 21 and av been best friends with a guy from uni for two years. I had a bf for five years, but my friend was always in the back of my mind, we were always cuddling, and laughing and started to ... (read in full...)
Do I come across desperate?
Q. I was physically abused by my step mother when I was growing but between the ages of 9 - 11. I always found it hard to make friends as I felt people thought I was weird. Even my half brothers and sisters made fun out of me and found ways to make ...
A. 6 April 2009: I don't think theres anything wrong with you! you're just being friendly but I just think negativity has stuck with you from from childhood and you might just be a bit insecure. Sometimes people are just busy and don't always make time for ... (read in full...)
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