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36-40,
*loudysunshine
writes:Hi! k i'll try keep this short. I was with my ex for six years and we split b34 xmas. I dated and slept with two of the guys, its was nice but they didn't last long! Anyway, i've met a guy recently, and he's different to anyone i've been out with, but i like him. However, we were lying in bed after a nite out, and i reli felt like i wanted to sleep with him. He responded, and the foreplay and everything was great. I cudn't wait for him to be inside me (sorry if this sounds a bit explicit) but when he did, his penis felt really big! as we had done a lot of foreplay it went in pretty easily, but i cud feel it was large. It felt like a mixture of pain and pleasure, and he was reli experimental with positions which was gud, but i knew it wud hurt after! anyway, we have slept together since then, and i cant explain, i always feel reli turned on just before, then wen we're doing it i just think about the size, and he goes quite fast lol i'm screaming but i don't know whether its nice or not! does that make sense? i have ocd so i dnt wanna stress coz it makes things worse and i like him. Also, i had a few orgasms with my ex, is it normal for women not to have them frequently? any suggestions/feedback greatly appreciated!
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reader, cloudysunshine +, writes (2 July 2009):
cloudysunshine is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for all the advice! lube and slower is the way forward lol
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reader, kittykhaos +, writes (2 July 2009):
 I had a problem kind of like this my long term x was 11" and he was a good lover experimental and such but the first maybe 100 times we had sex it hurt. I also had another b/f who was very wide and when we first started having sex the only way was to be on top. You need to tell him to be careful and that he may not be able to go all the way in. it sounds a bit crude but he needs to break you in lots of lubricant and foreplay. he needs to take it slow because obviously taking it fast is hurting you. Also not to be too crude most women can't come with out clitoral stimulation + if you are in pain you are less likely to be orgasaming because your thinking hard about other things. so my word of the day for you is "LUBE" lol
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (2 July 2009):
 Its normal for a woman to not orgasm all of the time. You need to talk with your boyfriend and explain that you're feeling a bit of pain and he needs to slow down! X
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