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I'm not sure if this relationship is right anymore. I want to trust him but I don't!
Q. I'm in a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. I have caught him twice chatting girls up online before and after we got together. Last time when I confronted him, he promised me that he wouldn't do it again and he ...
A. 29 September 2010: If you can not trust someone then you should not be with that person, trust is what you need in a relationship and if the trust is not there then it will not work out. I think your best thing to do is end the relationship if you can not find trust ... (read in full...)
What is the right age for a serious relationship?
Q. I'm 17 boy. I never had any girlfriend. I want to make only one relationship in life. So if I get a gf now , will i be able to carry on the relationship untill marriage? I'm not gonna marry before the age of 26/27. What your experience says? ...
A. 20 October 2009: it all depends on the girl and you no one can tell you yes or no, cause it all depends on how you and the girl work things out, but usally the first time you date someone you will not be wit that person for long time, so if you want to find only one ... (read in full...)
I'm gay and in love with my tutor-councillor from an educational summer program!
Q. I'm gay and in love with my tutor-councillor from an educational summer program I go 2. Over the 6 weeks there I became really close with. He's so gorgeous and my knees grow weak just thinking about him. He's 20 and a junior in college. I'm 17 and a ...
A. 19 October 2009: Hey its a pretty long question, but i will try to help you out as much as i can. First of all this guy may or may not like you like that, just because of the other kids telling you that they think this guy likes you dont mean that he really does, ... (read in full...)
He has a kid and I've slowly grown to hate him. How can I deal with this?
Q. I am 19, and my partner is 23. He has a six year old son from a previous relationship. The mother split with him as soon as she found out she was pregnant, and is now in a gay relationship. She prevented him seeing his child for 3 years or so after ...
A. 15 October 2009: yes you are be unreasonable, when you first got with this guy you knew he had a kid, and if you was not ready to be in a relationship wit a guy that has a kid, then you should of never got with him in the first place, as a parent your kid will ... (read in full...)
Does watching porn movies constitute cheating?
Q. When I was in a relationship with my ex-girlfriend, I used to watch porn movies twice or thrice in a week..in fact i still watch it. Whenever she would ask me that do you watch porn movies? I would answer saying that last time I watched porn movie ...
A. 15 October 2009: Watching porn dont mean that you are cheating on that person, its not like you are wit that person you are watching, cheating would be if you was wit someone else, so no you are not cheating, but you are being dishonest with her.... (read in full...)
Does sex play a huge role in dating?
Q. How long do you wait for sex with a guy so he doesnt think you are a hoe or slut?...
A. 12 October 2009: It all depends on the guy you want to have sex with, because some guys will call you a slut even if you waited a yr to have sex with them, or even if you never had sex with them. you have to be the judge of the guy, if you are ready to have sex with ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is violent, why do I still love him?
Q. i recently got back with a guy that i've known for years. i fell for him very quickly he was sweet and give me anything i want but here lately he start getting very mad to the point he hit me once and tried to again and keeps threaing to hurt me bad ...
A. 23 July 2009: You need to leave him and leave him for good, if you stay with someone who hits you it can lead to more, they always say they wont do it again but they do, and you probly love this guy because he treated you good befor he started hitting you.... (read in full...)
Should I break up with him? If so, where, when and how?
Q. I'm going out with a boy from the year above who really likes me and I kinda like him. He kept asking me out for months and has liked me for a year I think. The only problem is he gets jelous easily, but tries to hide it, coz I have lots of guy...
A. 23 July 2009: Yes you should break up with him, why be with him if you dont want to the longer you wait the more it will hurt him when you finally do break up with him, you should break up with him where there is no one else around, and just tell him that you ... (read in full...)
I'm 15, he's 19..what will happen if we have sex?
Q. i'm 15 years old and my man is 19 years old. if we have sex could he get into legal isus and go to jail? can me and him get legally maried in oklhoma at the a of 15 and 19? ...
A. 18 March 2009: He will be put in jail if you two ever got cought it is best to wait intil you are old enough, i think that you can give consent when you are 16 but then you still have to becareful that its allowed, you can not get married intil you are 16 or 17 ... (read in full...)
I'm gay and don't want to be!
Q. So I'm 19 years old. I have had a tough, tough life. My Mother had me at 14, she was a drug addict and and alcoholic. So therefore I was adopted by a single woman I lived with her for pretty much all of my childhood during that childhood I was ...
A. 18 March 2009: AWWWW sweetie i am so sorry to hear about your life, but you need to start hanging out with girls and trying things with them, you may find that you like girls also. Even if you dont like girls, you can still adopt a child and have a family with ... (read in full...)
So am I pregnant or NOT?
Q. Hello, Okay..I was on birth control from like June to December. I stopped taking them in December because I took an HPT that came back positive. I took it because my period hadn't come on and birth control is supposed to make it regular. So..sin...
A. 16 February 2009: If you had a hpt come up positive and 2 that came back neg. either you was pregnant and lost the baby early,or the hpt that was pos. did not work. or the other test may have not worked, why dont you go to the hospital and have a blood test done ... (read in full...)
What would I see on an 8 weeks scan?
Q. I am 7 weeks pregnant, me and my husband were wondering what may we see on our 8 weeks scan which i will be having next wednesday. Will it be an ultrasound and will i be able to hear a heart beat. I have had a scan at 6 weeks and could see my baby ...
A. 16 February 2009: congrats on being pregnant...Im 20 weeks pregnant and when i had a scan done when i was 8 weeks preg. it looked like a little bean and they was able to pick up what the heart beat was, but i was not able to hear it..well good luck and i hope it all ... (read in full...)
Is HPT reliable?
Q. Generally My gf period is on 5th of every month, but in this month already delayed by 12 days. She checked her pregnancy by HPT. But the test was negative. So, Is HPT reliable?? Please tell me the symptoms of pregnancy at this point in time??...
A. 17 December 2008: the test are 99% right if you use them right, wait a few more days and take another test to see what it comes out to be and if it is still neg. then go to the hospital and get a blood test done. the early symptoms would be sore breast, and mornning ... (read in full...)
Is there any reason to refuse sex with the one you love? Does this mean she is cheating?
Q. Dear cupid, How would you know if a girl is cheating on you?? What are the signs?? Do girls have times where they are not in the mood for sex?? I would say there's no reason for you to say no to sex when you do it with loved one?? am i right? ...
A. 26 November 2008: When a female dont want to have sex it doesnt mean that she is cheating on you women go through the stage where they dont want it, if you really want to find out what is going on with her why dont you ask her whats going on with her and if you did ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend orgasms thick white fluids, is this common?
Q. I'm in a relationship which my girlfriend orgasms thick white fluid. Its unusual since I've never come across a woman that orgasmed thick fluids. The best way to describe it is as thick as lotion. What information can you tell me about this and is ...
A. 22 September 2008: The "thick, white stuff" you're noticing is vaginal discharge — a mixture of cells and natural body fluids that help clean the vagina. In general, women secrete a clear, mucus-like substance right before ovulation (midcycle) and a thicker, whiter ... (read in full...)
What is this 'ball with a hole in it', inside my vagina? Please help!
Q. Hey me and my boyfriend have been sexually active for around 5 months and weve been together for seven! Where both 16 by the way! Well anyway before we had sex my boyfriend was fingering me quite hard and when he went home i went to the bath...
A. 21 September 2008: I am not sure you better really see a doctor before you continue to do anything.... (read in full...)
Can he get in trouble with the law, even if by the time our baby is born we are both of legal age and married?
Q. I'm 17 going to be 18 in three months and have a fiance who's 26. We're going to get married in December of this year, right around the time I turn 18. Recently I found out I am pregnant and I was wondering if he could get in trouble with the law, ...
A. 18 September 2008: No he will not get introuble just watch what you do intil you trun 18 i met my husband when he was 24 i was 17 we got married a month after i truned 18 so dont worrie about it just watch what you do intil then!... (read in full...)
Can I fix this relationship? I don't want to walk out on my family.
Q. I'm not sure what to do with my situation anymore, i am in a relationship with a 19 year old girl and i am 30, we have a 9 month old daughter, and a baby boy on the way, she also has a 2 year old son from a previous relationship. We lived together...
A. 18 September 2008: I just want everyone to know that the age gap dont make a diffrence, my husband is 26 and i am 19 i was 17 when i met him and we are just fine, its not the age gap its the girl herself she is not ready to grow up and take responsibilty, You need to ... (read in full...)
Who should I focus on trying to start a relationship with? I've fallen for my guy friend who is straight...
Q. First off, i just figured out i'm bi. I have fallen for my guy friend who's straight but also very "friendly" to me. Such as lots of hugs, clinging to each other during scary movies etc. I think it's best to keep it quiet between us. In addi...
A. 18 September 2008: This is all it comes down to, your friend that you like is stright and dont like the same sex, but if you asked me it sounds like he likes the same sex also just the way you said at scary movies you guys hold on to each other maybe he is bi and ... (read in full...)
Can you offer any advice on how I can get an orgasm??
Q. I need help with having an orgasm with my partner. i know he tries very hard and this is important to him. I can have a orgasm on my own by stimulating my clitoris in 15 minutes but I have never had a vaginal orgasm. Is this only when you hit the g ...
A. 18 September 2008: Dont be upset that you cant orgasm during sex alot of women cant, so heres something you can try, have him do oral sex on you before you start having sex and have an orgasm that way you had what you wanted and he gets what he wanted, even if you ... (read in full...)
His family wants nothing to do wiith me until I'm his wife. I'm very insulted!
Q. Ok, so here's the thing, my boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 1 and 1/2 years now and I've only met his family one time. He goes back to his hometown where he grew up and visits them, but doesn't invite me and when I told him that I ...
A. 21 July 2008: Honestly it sounds to me that he is hidden something from you because i never met a family that was like that, and for his uncle to say what he said, how would his uncle know if you took you to a friends house with out someone telling you? Do you ... (read in full...)
My new girlfriend asks "How can she be with me when my son always comes first!"
Q. hi my name is paul. im 32 years old and i have posted before about the sameish subject, only thing is things have changed and im in termoil, could realy do with helpfull advice. i have a 5 yr old boy who i dont live with he lives with his mum some ...
A. 21 July 2008: If she can not accept that your kid comes first then show her where the door is, she is always around you and when you do get to see your kid she should have no problems with that when your son needs money she should stay out of it because your kid ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my parents that I am gay?
Q. I am a 15 year old gay who has no idea when or how to tell my parents I'm gay. When should I tell them and how. All of my close friends know so I have something to fall back on if they don't take it well. Thanks to anyone who has any ideas....
A. 18 July 2008: You dont really have to tell them that you are gay one day they will find out when they never see you with girls ect. but if you really want them to know then sit them down and tell them " we really need to talk about something and i dont know how ... (read in full...)
I need tips on how to please girls sexually. I'm bisexual.
Q. ok, well, here goes, i am 14, and i AM for a fact bisexual, ive accepted that fact, you might think,. "oh shes too young", but i am more experienced and have seen more than you think. my problem is, i have been fingered by a past gf, and had sex and ...
A. 18 July 2008: its really simple.
fingering:
make sure your finger is wet some times it hurts when its not, put your finger in here and go slowly in and out thats pretty much it for that
eatting out:
go down on her with your tongue lick around on her cl... (read in full...)
I feel like my boyfriend only wants me for sexual stuff!
Q. I'm 14 and my boyfriend and I have been going out for a month and I started too really like him. A couple weeks ago he asked for head and I gave it to him but yesterday he asked me again and he asked to see my boobs. I said no but I feel like thi...
A. 14 July 2008: Hunnie you better leave him now....it sounds like he uses and abuses girls....ive been there with guys they act all nice to you and tell you that they love you and you do all this stuff for them because you think they really care about you and ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend messes around with another guy!
Q. I have a girlfriend I've been with since May and we had been messing around for about 8 months before that. We were supposed to be messing with only each other but she messed with someone else. Then she asks to be friends with him. I told her no. ...
A. 14 July 2008: Honestly you should sit down with her and talk to her about this and ask her if she would ever do anything with this guy again and see what she says. it sounds to me like you two was kind of together before but not really and if thats the case then ... (read in full...)
I have some questions about fertility drugs!
Q. Hi everyone i am 19 years old and married, i have been trying to have a baby with my husband but it has not happend yet i have been going to my doctors and she feels i need clomid, i have been trying to figure out things from the internet but i have ...
A. 14 July 2008: Maybe i should of been a little more clear on why my doctor wants me on clomid...I dont get my period i get it maybe once every 2 years if that. My husband has been checked for low sperm count but everything came back normal for him... (read in full...)
All my friends talk about oral sex - but I don't know what it is!
Q. What is oral sex? I am too young to even think about having it, I just want to know because everyone knows and I don't. So when they talk about it I just have to go along with it, and what if one of these days they ask if I know what it is...I ...
A. 14 July 2008: Oral sex consists of all sexual activities that involve the use of the mouth, which may include use of the tongue, teeth, and throat, to stimulate genitalia. Cunnilingus refers to oral sex performed on a woman and fellatio refers to oral sex ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to have anal sex more often but it's very painful for me but I want to satisfy him, what can I do so it won't hurt as much?
Q. Well my boyfriend wants to have anal sex more often but it's very painful for me but I want to satisfy him, what can I do so it won't hurt as much? ...
A. 26 February 2008: Hey sweetie, I have had the same problem as you, but i found this lub called anal-ez and it works really well it numbs you up it hurts for a couple of seconds but then it starts to work...... (read in full...)
Could she be fired after testing positive as a result of second hand smoke? She works in healthcare, rewarding job.
Q. This is kinda of a relationship question.My gf has a great paying job in healthcare.We are far apart and she just failed a drug test there.She had told me a while back that her grown son smokes a lot of pot.Mind you she told me this like in ...
A. 20 February 2008: It is a good chance that she could get fired for this but it also depends on the rules of a job some places if you fail a drug test then they get fired and some only get warnigs, but if she has gotten a hand book from them then it will say in there ... (read in full...)
I was suggested a threesome with my mother and her lover, when this woman found out I was bisexual!
Q. Hiya all so iam 18 years old and i realy badly need HELP!! when i was 11 my mum left my dad for a women at her gym. I live with my dad and he realy hates the both of them so i now live with my mum and her lover. we talk about...
A. 20 February 2008: I am not here to judge you are make fun of what you think, i dont belive in relationships with your family but heres the thing if you are going to feel ok with having sex with your mom and her lover then thats your choice, but do you know if someone ... (read in full...)
My teacher is a lesbian, should I ask her how she feels about me?
Q. i love my science lessons because the teacher is stunning. am bi and have a stunning girlfriend but my science teacher gives me the same looks as my girlf does. she never shouts at me she jst says dont do that please. i know she is a lesbi...
A. 20 February 2008: Listen sweetie i think it is better that you dont try to get with your teacher no matter how much you two like each other because not only do you have a girlfriend but your teacher will get in trouble and do you want that to happen to her? do you ... (read in full...)
What happens when you take the pill?
Q. I'm considering going on the pill, but I'm not fully sure what happens. Do I have to stop taking it for a week, or something, to have my period? I'm confused where to get it from too. Can any of you give me some advice on where to get the pill, an...
A. 28 January 2008: hey sweetie first of all you are under 18 years old so you will need a parent to go with you because you have to go the doctors and tell them that you want to go on the pill. The pills are all diffrent ways of how you take them but you dont have to ... (read in full...)
What happens when you take the pill?
Q. I'm considering going on the pill, but I'm not fully sure what happens. Do I have to stop taking it for a week, or something, to have my period? I'm confused where to get it from too. Can any of you give me some advice on where to get the pill, an...
A. 28 January 2008: hey sweetie first of all you are under 18 years old so you will need a parent to go with you because you have to go the doctors and tell them that you want to go on the pill. The pills are all diffrent ways of how you take them but you dont have to ... (read in full...)
How can I be sure I took her virginity?
Q. Before I met my girlfriend she was almost raped,a guy forced himself on her,but didn`t penetrate very far(just about the head),she was a virgin and she bled. A year ago, my girlfriend and I had sex for the first time,she told me afterwards that i b...
A. 4 January 2008: There is no way to really know if you took it from her beacuase some girls bleed and some dont so you are just going to have to take her word on it, but she was raped and no matter how far he did or did not go in her she lost her virginity, but that ... (read in full...)
He anally raped me, treated me like a toy. Should I finish with him?
Q. me and my boyfriend were having sex the other night, and he asked me for anal. I've done it once before with him and didnt really enjoy it but it didnt hurt so i thought it would be fine again, not realising last time i dont it i was very drunk ...
A. 4 January 2008: Hey hunni, sometimes guys get very out of control and dont relize how bad you are in pain. But is this the first time that he has really hurt you this bad? because if it is maybe you should work it out and tell him i dont like it anal and you really ... (read in full...)
My period is starting just before I'm suppose to meet my boyfriend for a romantic trip away. How can I tell him I can't sleep with him?
Q. Hi! I was just wondering if anyone had any advice. I'm meeting my boyfriend for a romantic night away in 2 days but my period is just about to start. I have a really irregular cycle at the moment so there was no way i thought it would come this ...
A. 1 January 2008: hey sweetie there is no reason to be embressed most girls get there period, but you should just tell him now that you have your period and you dont want to do anything. And i am sure you can work around it.... (read in full...)
Everytime we have a sleep over, we end up kissing! Am I a lesbian?
Q. hi i have a best friend we have been friends for 5 years we are still at school and in year 7. and we often have sleepovers and everytime she comes and sleeps around mine we end up kissing and i dont know what to do i think she really fancies ...
A. 1 January 2008: Hey sweetie why dont you talk to her and find out about what is going on ask her when she kisses you what does it mean to her, and tell her not to be afraid of telling you the truth and then tell her what it means to her but keep the orgasm out of ... (read in full...)
I'm not gay, I have a girlfriend, but I'm turned on by gay men, why is that?
Q. I am a 14 year old boy and I am "turned on by gay things". I dont want to be gay I have had a girl we have been going out for over a month and she wants to have sex so do I but im scared i want be preparied for....
A. 1 January 2008: hey sweetie you are young still so your hormones are racing like crazy. Not alot of boys or girls admit that they think about the same sex but alot of teenagers do its not just you and if you dont want to be gay then dont push yourself towards it ... (read in full...)
I'm going through puberty but I can't ejaculate, why??
Q. I can't ejaculate yet im already growing pubes though And I'm 15 How much longer will it take do y'all think?...
A. 1 January 2008: Most boys begin to ejaculate semen when they're between the ages of 12 and 15, although some begin ejaculating at a later or earlier age. You can still masturbate and even have orgasms before you're old enough to ejaculate. If you are not able to ... (read in full...)
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