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writes:ok, well, here goes, i am 14, and i AM for a fact bisexual, ive accepted that fact, you might think,. "oh shes too young", but i am more experienced and have seen more than you think. my problem is, i have been fingered by a past gf, and had sex and been eaten out by a few past bf's, but i have no idea whatsoever how to do all that myself! (the fingering and eating out). i am very interested in girls and sexual encouners with them. (ive already had a few), but still, i dont want them to do all of the work! can someone please give me some tips? greatly appreciated! =](and and also, i dont think i am as good at riding guys as i could be, tips??)
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reader, __AcidSpill__  +, writes (24 July 2008):
 Hi :)Ok, fingering:It's pretty simple, basically the same as when you masturbate but on somebody else. Make sure she's wet first other wise it really hurts... Rub her clitoris, try differnet directions, circles is good! :) When she's really enjoing it then put one/two of your fingers inside her and try to hit her G-Spot. Eating out:You pretty much suck/lick her clitoris, and around her hole. When she's enjoying it again use your finger and put it inside of her. It can make your jaw ache, so when it does rest your jaw and finger her, when you're feeling better try again!Guys:I didn't know exactly what you're asking to be better at (postitions, how to, in general)but:Just get in to the mood more and be adventerous. Let him know you're really enjoying it and he will try harder to please you. :]I hope this helps! :]
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reader, anonymous11 +, writes (19 July 2008):
honestly dude im bi too fingering is easy make sure she is wet!!!! otherwise she told me its really painful sometimes however eating out im a lil clueless on that my self
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reader, chrissy32789 +, writes (18 July 2008):
 its really simple.
fingering:
make sure your finger is wet some times it hurts when its not, put your finger in here and go slowly in and out thats pretty much it for that
eatting out:
go down on her with your tongue lick around on her clit and whole then suck on the clit a little ect. and when you are doing that you can finger her, its honestly not that hard all you have to do is find her g-spot and what she likes, explain to her that you never done this before and ask her if she can kind of explain to you what to do because all girls are diffrent.....Just becareful there is alot of stds out there and you dont want to get it...
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhumm. i dont like you, i think that you are to judgemental of ppl that you only know certain facts about. again, i respect your opinion. but i asked a certain question for a certain reason. i dont need your opinion. i dont WANT it. i dont want YOU to "answer" this question again. =] greatly appreciated.
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (17 July 2008):
 You did fall into the stereotypes:
Gays sleep with a lot of people: YOu fell into this one since you said you're "experienced". This is one of the stereotypes I hate the most since it makes people hate gay people. My gay friends don't follow this! But you know what? I have known some gay people that do and it ticks me off, even when its their own bodies. You know, I'm a bisexual too, but I don't go sleep around with people. I decided to respect my body.
Pre-Teens/young teens sleep around: Again, you fell for it again. Just look at your age.
Now, this is one of the wrong places to ask to tips to have sex when your age is as young. So many people look down upon it because we see teenagers as immature both mentally and physically. You should have lied about your age, no one could have known.
I can just hear the whining again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok, yes, i am young, and yes, i am underage. but it IS my body, i didnt fall into sterotypes, i am doing what my body feels like doing. thank you for your put-in, alot of ppl have said those things, but dont feel sorry for me, if it is a bad choice then ill take the consequences later.
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reader, Tigger3165 +, writes (17 July 2008):
 wow.... honey, first of all, slow down... you are only 14!!! i can't even believe what i'm reading... i don't mean the bi thing... i mean the fact that you are already having sex... and have, it seems, with multiple partners... but to answer your question, every one is different... ask for some guidance form your partner
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (17 July 2008):
Why don't you try to mimic what they do?
I'm sorry, but I really feel you're really young to be engaging in sexual relationships with people. I'm glad you have accepted yourself, but you're still too young to be having sex. It's just sad that you fall into the damn stereotypes. I don't care that you're having sex with either women or men, and it doesn't matter that you're "experienced", you're young and very under the age of legal conscent. I can just hear your "blah blah blah you don't know me, blah". I feel you'll regret it in the future.
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