Should we know each other's password?
Q. my 5 yrs bf and me were really cool abt facebook. he gave me his facebook password and i gave him mine. i never had any prob with that. but he used to surf my profile and got angry with some guy leaving msg.bhe yelled at me. i initialy used to visit ...
A. 27 May 2010: Its all about trust, and you have created yourself a problem here... If you change your password then he will think you have somthing to hide and its likly to cause another argument. I personnaly know all of my GF's email/facebook passwords et... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to want to dance with other boys if I have a boyfriend?
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 months now, we've known each other for 2 years though and were bestfriends untill we decided to start dating, he constantly tells me he's in love with and never wants us be apart, I know we won't last forever. ...
A. 14 April 2010: The fact you want to probably means hes not the right guy for you. Dancing with other blokes is fine as long as its "clean dancing" and when it just kinda happens. But not if your there perpusly wanting to get out and dance with them. Maybe you ... (read in full...)
I want to end my marriage without trying as I don't love my husband
Q. I am 28 yrs married for 1 1/2 yr to a man I knew 2 yrs younger to me.We met 5 times and agreed on marriage.After marriage it took us 1 yr to ve a physical relationship as he was not trying enough, as my work hrs were long, as he never tried to relax ...
A. 7 April 2010: This is the reason why arranged marrages are a bad thing in the modern world... all of these attachments should be formed prior to marrage not after.
But i cant help but notice that you say... He didnt try, He has'nt, He wont... maybe you sh... (read in full...)
Am I still a virgin?
Q. i want to know if im still a virgin or not i had some sort of sex today lol his penis didnt go fully into my vagina, it just slide on my vagina, n mayb a tiny bit went inside, and that lasted like 2 minutes lol i still think im a virgin but i ...
A. 1 April 2010: Nope, your not a virgin anymore... congratulations :)... (read in full...)
Someone get my name off this mortgage!
Q. how can i get my ex to give me financial settlement for our house. she wont sell it, ignores all solicitors letters, when i met her 5 years ago i had 30k and we used it to do the house up and had a couple of ...
A. 1 April 2010: You could consider taking her to civil court?... (read in full...)
I am attracted to the characters on South Park! Is this cause for concern?
Q. I find the characters in "South Park" kind of attractive, is this a reason to be concerned? I mean, they are nine years old. And they are not real....
A. 24 March 2010: I look just like kenny do you want my number? lol
But seriously, id say you do have some confusion going on here. Maybe you need to focus your attention on a guys at school/collage instead.... (read in full...)
Warts an' all!!!
Q. If my boyfriend has a wart on his penis and I had un protected sex with him does this mean I will get one too ????????...
A. 9 March 2010: First question is why did you have unprotected sex?
Because of where the wart is, theres a high possibility that its a STI... and genetal warts is one that will keep comming back time and time again once you have cought it the once.
You bot... (read in full...)
We don't use a condom but he never comes inside me... so could I be pregnant?
Q. my boyfriend and i never use a condom when we have sex, but he never finishes inside me, but he has fingered me when he has seaman on his fingers. for the past week or so i have been feeling nauseated, my back has been hurting, i have cramps that ...
A. 8 March 2010: Yes unprotected sex can lead to pregnancy..... Shock horror!
Take a test, and if your not start using condoms or go on the pill!... (read in full...)
Could I have lost my virginity to a toothbrush?
Q. Dear Cupid, This may be an odd question, but I don't know if I've possibly already lost my virginity. I've never actually had sex, however, being pretty in the moment, I've gone to certain extremes during masturbation. It's rather embarrassing, bu...
A. 4 March 2010: Nope, you can only lose you virginity to a Penis :)
However it is possible/likly that you broke you hymen in the process... But this dose not make you any less a virgin than anyone esle.... (read in full...)
My mom and dad want to use my credit and then have me go bankrupt, any way I can stop them?
Q. So I have sort of a financial problem... Apparently my dad and mom want to work up my credit then have me go bankrupt I have no specicfic reasons why so dey want to ... But I have no control and if I say no they stop talking to me... Why would I ...
A. 4 March 2010: Say no!... (read in full...)
Does the penis stop growing or is it a continuous process?
Q. I'm nearly 20, was raised in a strict home, my mom remarried 6 years ago after loosing my dad to a car accident. My mom and I are close. We can wear each others clothes. She and I go a lot of places together and my friends that know her know she is ...
A. 3 March 2010: It sound to me as if you have an unhealthy obsession withyour stepdads penis!
Yes you should drop the subject completly, Im sure one day you will come accross one that big yourslef...untill then you will just have to manage with 'mr average'... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a guy and girl who are just friends to be holding hands like that?
Q. Ok so I liked a girl whom I met at a pool at a fitness club. She is totally a free minded girl and I like her for that. She once said that she liked to be complimented and I jokingly said that I would compliment her every day. She took it seriously ...
A. 1 March 2010: How long have you been giving her these compliments?
Maybe she got bored of waiting for you to make the move or ask her out.... and moved on herself?
Sounds to me like you had a chance, but didnt grasp in it time.... (read in full...)
Should I consult a doctor because I am having trouble getting an erection?
Q. Hi I am 20 years old I have not done sex anytime but when i have gone to do it my penis dosent stand ,I dont know y but when I was seeing some adult movies it was regularly standing what might be the reason behind it? either to consult a docto...
A. 26 February 2010: Its caused my anxiaty, if you get an erection when watching porn, and in the morning when you wake up then its just in your mind... caused by worry about getting an erection.... (read in full...)
Am I doing the wrong thing trying to change sexualities?
Q. I am really confused. I left my husband 3 months ago because he was abusing me...he was hitting me.....anyways right after that i spent a very short time with a loser who only wanted to use me for sex and obviously that didn't work out either.....so ...
A. 25 February 2010: Sorry to ansawer with another question.... But you cant just wake up and decide that you want to be a lesbian....
You either are or you are not... Do you find women attractive? Fantasise over them? ... (read in full...)
The "pull out" method!
Q. My b/f and me were doing it doggie style and he always pulls out and relieves himself on the outside. Last night he pulled out but then he shot his stuff all over the outside of my privates. I asked him why he did that and he said he gets turned ...
A. 25 February 2010: The Pull out method does not work. Get a test, and start using proper protection (if your not already pregnant). You should also have a STD/SDI check to make sure you havnt cought anything nasty! ... (read in full...)
Marriage foundation... confused!
Q. Hello, I have been chatting with a man on a dating site for a while we even discussed marriage. So he soon asked out on a date. But then he told me about a foundation that was helping people to get married and that they would be given money and ...
A. 24 February 2010: Sounds like some kind of cult to me!
Ask him to clarify himself.... But be very carefull you know what you are getting yourself into.... (read in full...)
Pubic hair problems, help!
Q. okay, im 14 and i already have a bunch (not a whole freakin forest) of pubic hair. it kinda worries me for 3 reasons, one im scared when i start having sex guys will see it and be disgusted by it, two because i do not know what to do with it, and ...
A. 24 February 2010: Its in the right place, so dont worry about that.
Dont get confused with what you see on porn starts... Thats not normal pubic hair.
My personal prefrance, is none atall.... But thats just mo, not every bloke out there.
However it is norma... (read in full...)
Smelly problem!
Q. So I'm with this guy and I really like him. I've been with him for 5 months but recently he has started asking me to do stuff with him. I don't mind as I feel ready I'm just really nervous about doing anything as it will be my first time (for ...
A. 16 February 2010: Sometime washing to much can causes a problem as you wash away the good bacteria. Also be careful with what you actually clean yourself with.
But always best to get checked at the doctor, he will probably take a sawp and check for bacteria... (read in full...)
I feel crushed by guys!!!
Q. I feel crushed by guys Hi im a 16 yr old girl... i really hate my relationships with boys and ive given up. It hurts when your freind tells you that one of your ex-boyfriends told her that he made a mistake when he was with me. I know that its real...
A. 11 February 2010: Most Guys you age are only after one thing... Give dating a miss for a few years and concentrait on your studys :)
... (read in full...)
How do you ask someone to kiss you or hint at it?
Q. im 15 years old and i have never kissed anyone! i really really want to! i have someone in but i have only known him for like 2 months. how do you ask someone to kiss you or hint at it?...
A. 5 February 2010: You dont ask him... you just do it :)
You can normally tell when they will not pull away, just slowle move you face closer to his... he will make it obvious if he wants you to kiss him!
Of if you have a strong enough personality and p... (read in full...)
How old do you have to be before age doesn't matter?
Q. How old do you have to be before age doesnt matter? Im 22years old and i really like a girl who is only 17, 5years is a big difference at this age i think, although she doesnt act or look 17, i feel as though we are the same age but i know when we ...
A. 20 January 2010: Im 25 and dating a 19 year old, we first got together when she was 17 (do the math yourself).
If you like he and she likes you go for it! people wont judge, and if my chance they do, screw them there probably not worth knowing anyway!... (read in full...)
Does the penis lose its muscle?
Q. I;m a 20 year old guy, and I have gotten to know this other guy a bit older than me. Well, I gave him a massage one day and it lead to a passionate play around. Him and I were naked together and his penis became hard in not time but mine couldn't ...
A. 13 January 2010: DO you wake up with an erection? If so then its not medical so dont panic.
Probably caused my anxaity *sp*, just relax more when your in that kind of situation, and dont worry about keeping/getting an erection (yes i know... easier said than don... (read in full...)
3 packs of pill back to back and now I have irregular bleeding
Q. First off thankies for reading this! Ok, I've been on the pill (Microgynon 30) for just over a year. And I've been having sex since I went on it, but not with condoms. Doctors told me that it was ok if I took one packet straight after the other so I ...
A. 13 January 2010: Taking the pill back to back and skipping your period is very bad for your body, and shouldnt be done two often.
You dont need to take them back to back to protect you against pregnancy... just take them correctly (at the same time every day). I ... (read in full...)
Embarrising question most likely for females to answer!
Q. Ok this is a very embarrasing question to ask, but I told my boyfriend that I had to clean the drain in my shower because it was clogged. And he asked if I shaved my crotch and I told him no i haven't. Reason is because I was taught to wait till I'm ...
A. 8 January 2010: You never need to shave it (as in all off), its all about personal choice.
Do it when/if you want to... and only then.
However it is the norm to keep things trimmed for wearing bikines etc..... and im pretty sure all girls do that as soon as ... (read in full...)
What is a 'Fleshlight'?
Q. What is a ''Fleshlight''? What does it do? I'm confused....
A. 4 January 2010: Its a masturbation aid for men, you need to be 18+ to buy one, and suposadly replicates the feel of a womans vagina.... but i doubt that very much.... (read in full...)
I've had genital warts, what do I say if she says she's on the pill?
Q. i want to have sex with someone but i have had genital warts before. its advised that i should wear a condom all the time, but what if she says 'im on the pill its fine you dont have to wear one?' i dont want to tell her ive had the warts before. ...
A. 23 December 2009: turn it around the other way... would you want a girl not to tell you?
Also ALWAYS wear a condom... the girl being on the pill wront protect you from STI/D's... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant if ....................
Q. Can i get pregnant if my boyfriend cums on my vagina but then wipes it off? It wasnt all the way inside but i kno they swim. He wiped it really good but im not sure if theres a chance i can get prego....
A. 22 December 2009: Yes!
You can takew the morning after pill up to three days after... Go Get one!... (read in full...)
Hollywood ex: Do? or don't?
Q. Hi All, So my boyfriend has been sort of hinting that he'd like me to get strip the carpet downstairs, but I'm a little unsure about it. Ladies, have you done it before? Would you recommend it? Does it hurt as much as I think it might? Any ot...
A. 21 December 2009: Id say its pretty much the norm these days, most girls dont have any atall.
I prefer it, everything is much cleaner etc.... (nothing worse than a mouth full of hair ;))
... (read in full...)
I have only one ball!
Q. Hi, im a 17 year old guy still in school im a virgin and my dick was 6" last time i checked maybe 5 months ago but thats not my problem my problem is i only have one ball in my sack nd i can feel the other one to the left right above my dick nd this ...
A. 15 December 2009: Go and see a doctor and get yourself checked out.... (read in full...)
This pervy man has threatened me, posted pictures of me on the internet and I just don't know what to do!,
Q. This might seem like a strange question to ask help for, but I don't know who to turn to for advice. When I was 16 I was friends with an older man who told me he was a photographer. I was happy at first because I was studying photography at c...
A. 15 December 2009: If you were 16 at the time the photos were taken, inform the police.. They will be taken down and him/the site owner will get what they deserve.
Dont blaim yourself, your not the first and definetly not the last girl this will happen to. Just do ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend slept with other guys should I be ok with it
Q. my girl likes to hang out her guy frends but some of them shes slept with should i be okay with that ...
A. 15 December 2008: Did she sleep with them before you meet? If so just get to know them, as your together now.
You may find it earier if you know these friends also.
If shes is still sleeping with them (you did not make it clear in your question) then this is not... (read in full...)
What should I do with my pubic hair?
Q. I don't know whether or not to shave my pubic hair. I have shaved it in the past, but let it grow back as I was not sure if girls are 'meant to' do this - I heard that it is a matter of opinion, but I am still unsure of what to do - where and how ...
A. 15 December 2008: The no real wrong answer ort right answer, its all a matter of perfrence.
I prefer it all shaved off, but thats me not everyone.
Im sure he wont mind either way, and should just be happy to get there :)... (read in full...)
I want sex with my cousin but she says no.... what to do???
Q. Hi my name is jaan, iwant to have sex with my cousine sister.whenever i tried to seduce her she refuses. i am very cofused and frustrated. please help me. Thanks...
A. 15 December 2008: When will people learn that no means NO...
Shes not interested go for someone that is!... (read in full...)
If you swallow sperm, can you get pregnant?
Q. Hi, my question is really embarrassing and I know a lot of people will feel awkward answering it... but I have always wandered but I am to embarrassed to ask any one else... Ok so I'll cut to the chase... basically if cum (sperm) gets on or in any o...
A. 15 December 2008: No you wont get pregnant by giving oral sex, but you can still contract a STI or STD, so its advised to still use protection. Sperm needs to come into contact with your vagina, so aslong as you keep all traces of it away from there you will b... (read in full...)
Marrying another but having oral sex with my boyfriend
Q. I am involved in oral sex with my boyfriend. After a month i am getting married to someone else. What should i do. Should i continue with him as i have developed emotional bond with him....
A. 12 December 2008: I agree with the previouis poster, Why are you getting married? You are cheating now... thats just not right!... (read in full...)
What can I do to relieve all this horniness??
Q. I'm 13 years old and I'm sooooooooooo horny all the time. If I ever got caught with a vibrator I'd be dead! What do I do??????!!!!!!!!!...
A. 11 December 2008: Just be careful about wher you do it :) Theres nothing wrong with pleasuring yourself.... (read in full...)
When a woman has an orgasm. how much fluid is normal?
Q. When a women does ejaculate, how much fluid is an average amount?...
A. 10 December 2008: Are you saying you think you may have more than average? Is so let me put your mind at rest...
The more there is the better the guy thinks he has done, so you have no need to worry :)... (read in full...)
Instead of masturbation, what are other ways I can pleasure myself sexually?
Q. Instead of masturbation, what are other ways I can pleasure myself sexually?...
A. 9 December 2008: Masturbation by definetion means to satisfy yourself sexually, so no matter what way you go about it, it will still be masturbation. Whether you're between two cushions on the sofa, or in your hand. Find a girl to do it, thats the only way it ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong of me to want to have fun before I settle down?
Q. I told my girlfriend that I think relationships at my age are more to do with fun rather than love and she got really upset. I do love her but I don't want a serious relationship just yet. I'm only 17. I've been going out with her for over a year ...
A. 5 December 2008: I think you have already decided mate, Many people at your age wonder exactly the same thing. I was in a relationship from 18-23 and i regret not getting out sooner. If you think your not ready to settle down and are happy to walk away, then... (read in full...)
I just want him to love me for me, not just use me for sex or try to make me the person he wants me to be.
Q. I have been with my bf for just over a year, I love him so much, I nearly died a few months back and since then things haven't been right, he won't open up to me or talk to me. But now I have an STI and I think he has been cheating, he tells me he ...
A. 5 December 2008: I think I replied to your previous question also regarding the STI, heres my 2pence worth (I used to be a serial cheater, then I found 'the one' and keep it firmly in my pants now'. At 16-17 imo you are way to young to tie yourself down to... (read in full...)
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