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*b217
writes:my boyfriend and i never use a condom when we have sex, but he never finishes inside me, but he has fingered me when he has seaman on his fingers. for the past week or so i have been feeling nauseated, my back has been hurting, i have cramps that feel like period cramps( my periods been over for a good 2 weeks now) and my breasts are a bit sore to the touch. do you think i could be pregnant?
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reader, ab217 +, writes (8 March 2010):
ab217 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni'm going tomorrow to buy an OTC pregnancy test, and i know it's not smart to not use a condom, but sometimes it wrecks the mood to put one on, and sometimes you just don't have one with you..and next month, if i'm not pregnant, i'm getting back on the pill.
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reader, Boredatwork  +, writes (8 March 2010):
 Yes unprotected sex can lead to pregnancy..... Shock horror!
Take a test, and if your not start using condoms or go on the pill!
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reader, spinnaker  +, writes (8 March 2010):
 while anything is possible. Unless a guy ejaculates iside a woman it is highly improbable she will become pregnant. The precum is secretions from the bulbourethral gland that lubricates the head of the penis as well as neutralizes any acids or other materials toxic to sperm found inside the urethra.
Sperm does not get released until ejaculation.
Considering that only 1 out of the hundreds of thousands of sperm that get ejaculated into the vagina actually make it to the egg, and that sperm only have a limited amount of energy to make the journey, it is highly unlikely that even if a few sperm cells were to become trapped in the plumbing of a guy, that it will survive long enough in the highly acidic vaginal environment (half of the ejaculate dies on contact within the vagina) and still have enough left in it to complete a pregnancy.
The best thing to do is wear a condom because you are essentially relying upon your boyfriends ability to pull out and nothing more.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (8 March 2010):
It's highly possible. You don't have to ejaculate in a woman to make her pregnent. There is 'pre-cum' that comes out before, so yes, it's very possible. Get tested.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 March 2010):
 Only a pregnancy test will reveal the truth. You should go for a pregnancy test at the clinic or buy those OTC pregnancy test kit.
You could be pregnant because you had unprotected sex. Even though he did not come , his pre-cum could contain sperms and his fingers with semen could have caused conception.
There could be millions of sperms on his finger when he fingered you and it only takes one sperm to fertilize your egg.
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reader, veronika  +, writes (8 March 2010):
 Take a pregnancy test. It's much more effective than asking people over the Internet you've never met... ;)
But you could be pregnant, who knows. If semen has gone inside of you, then yeah, there's always a chance.
Why don't you use a condom, or why aren't you on birth control? Just curious. You sound a bit worried that you might be, but I can't help but think - well, you admit you never use a condom, so why should you be so surprised you have a pregnancy scare now?
Use protection, not just to prevent pregnancy but to stop the spread of STDs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2010): Yes. It is very possible.
Sperm can live for up to a day outside of the body. Plus the are extra-good swimmers, and can still leave his fingers and swim right up to the egg.
The pull-out method is useless. Every culture for the last several centuries has known this. There is still sperm in the pre-ejactualate fluid. Not as much as in Semen, but still there.
Bottom line. There is no 100% fool-proof contraception. Not condoms (though these work in 99% of cases), not diaphrams, not those little implant thingies, not the pill.
The human body is BUILT to procreate. In any enviroment. AT any time of the year.
This is natural. Preventing such an occurence is messing with nature, and when you mess with nature, there are no absolutes.
You need to get a pregnacy test, and then go to a Doctor to confirm, cause even those hime tests, whilst pretty accurate, can return false negatives or positives.
Abstinence is the inly sure-fire way of preventing pregnancy, and we all know how much that sucks.
Flynn 24
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