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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I don't know whether or not to shave my pubic hair. I have shaved it in the past, but let it grow back as I was not sure if girls are 'meant to' do this - I heard that it is a matter of opinion, but I am still unsure of what to do - where and how much to shave??what do most guys prefer? and do most girls do it??please help me as I really like a guy who I think wants to sleep with me.. but I'm so scared of getting it wrong!!!I would be so grateful for any advice you can give - products to use, where to shave, if girls are even meant to shave. etcthank you! xx
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reader, hindsight +, writes (21 July 2010):
Most men have a preference, but aren't going to turn it down if its being offered regardless of how your pubic hair looks.
I prefer shaved, but a small, neatly trimmed strip can be very sexy too.
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reader, Randya2 +, writes (24 May 2009):
I like simply trimmed. So i would say stay natural. There is a reason for that....pubic hair catches natural pheromones which makes you "SO MUCH" more attractable to the opposite sex! It is a personal choice though. But i guarantee you that you will have more guys after you if you have pubic hair then without. Try it both ways and prove it to yourself!!!
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reader, confessjess +, writes (17 December 2008):
I shave unruly areas, but leave a patch, I find it more comfortable and attractive personally. Plus it looks better with bathing suits for it is all cleaned up down there, whatever you find most comfortable. You have a while before you should worry about the guys opinion on this.
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reader, Buffalo Bill +, writes (16 December 2008):
My preference is natural; i.e. unshaved, but as others here have said, do what is best for you, and not what you think men expect of you. If nothing else the responses here make it plain that men have different views on this,so pleasing all of us is impossible. Don't put up with razor burn or hot wax being spread on your privates on my account, though.
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (15 December 2008):
Many guys have different preferences. Of all the guys I've talked to, shaved is their favorite. BUT you should try many different ways to find how YOU like it. If the guy you are talking to has a problem then he is an ass. My boyfriend is fine with it anyway I do it, I just prefer it shaved. I used to have just a strip but decided I liked it better another way. Once you get to know this guy a bit better you can ask what he likes best and maybe try it. A guy who loves you though won't really care all too much, even if they do prefer it a certain way. As for products to use- I use a regular razor and just shaving cream (Skintimate shave gel) is all.
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reader, agtorange +, writes (15 December 2008):
If you've got a boyfriend you can ask how he'd prefer it.
If that's not the case, go with whatever is most comfortable.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008): I think most men prefer shaved, and some dont. U can simply ask him what he likes, easiest way to find out.
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female
reader, heartbroken . x +, writes (15 December 2008):
hey
im 14 so i no how u feel
i shave so do what you want with ur hairs
if a boy doesnt like it fine , dont beat your self up about it , its there choice if they want a shaved one or not , but u can do what u like , if u wanna shave , shave , if u dont , dont ,
do what u want , dont let boys make u do it
hope it helps
Heartbroken x
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reader, a_decent_1 +, writes (15 December 2008):
I prefer an unshaved one.. !!
As said before by boredatwork, it's about preference.. !! Actually some days i prefer an unshaved then some days i fancy a shaved one.. !! So, there is no definite answer to that..
By the way you are 13 - 15 and you "should not" be sleeping with guys.. You could probably wait for atleast 2 years before having sex as sex at this age Can be painful as the body is still not ready for it.. !!
G'day
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reader, Boredatwork +, writes (15 December 2008):
The no real wrong answer ort right answer, its all a matter of perfrence.
I prefer it all shaved off, but thats me not everyone.
Im sure he wont mind either way, and should just be happy to get there :)
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