Met someone while broken up with boyfriend. Boyfriend is trying to work things out with me, but can't stop thinking about new guy...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years. We never had any major problems but my boyfriend surprised me by saying he doesn't know if he loves me anymore and wanted to take a break to get his head together. In the meantime, I met ...
A. 29 March 2010: If you love your boyfriend then stay if only after 2 weeks you find yourself wanting to be in the arms of someone else then there was really no love for this relationship. 6 years is a long time to through away for someone you just met in two weeks ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's friend is a total user but she can't see it at all.
Q. Okay my girlfriend has this ignorant ass best friend who I don't like, she has this problem with speaking to people. She also tried to shit on my mom who helped her ass out when she was out of a job buying her pampers and baby food when she had no ...
A. 9 April 2009: Thanks to all of you for the replies... (read in full...)
I am female and over six foot tall! I'm insecure about it. Tell me-- Do men find tall women attractive?
Q. This is a stupid question, but I am very insecure as I am so tall. I am six foot and tower over people, especially when I wear heels. I am very slim and used to be a model so everyone thinks I am so confident, but the truth is I hate it so much. I ...
A. 8 April 2009: I love a tall women plus being almost 6-4 myself and you being over 6 feet we would breed the perfect basketball player lol. But love who you are and don't feel insecure about the body God gave you.... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for me to love someone 10 years older than me?
Q. I am deeply in love with someone, He buys me drinks all the time, drives me home when I don't have a car, talks to me when I'm down, looks at me from afar and when we see eye to eye he smiles, we're both in the same college. he's every girls dream ...
A. 15 February 2009: Age is nothing but a number... (read in full...)
Should I buy him a better present next time or is he not being fair on me?
Q. Heya, these are the presents I bought for my valentines. I though about them really carefully before I bought them and each one of them has a meaning behind it. A teddy bear (it was a erally cute valentines one and reminded me of him because ...
A. 15 February 2009: First off its the thought that counts you could have not brought his ungrateful ass anything. Next time don't get him nothing and see if he wishes that you by him a gift of any kind next time.... (read in full...)
Inlaws causing problems in my marriage!
Q. Hi, My inlaws especially the mother and her daughter hate me more than anything, they're always talking bad about me behind my back, I found out through some e-mails the mother inlaw had sent to my husband's best friend and his wife , also she sent...
A. 15 February 2009: I think your In Laws are idiots they need to stop what they are doing. Your husband needs to be braver and stand by you and protect you like any real man would. If my mother and sister was to talk about my wife or do the things they did to you, I ... (read in full...)
I love my cousin but she rejected me, how can we stay friends?
Q. Hello. Guys . This is about me and my cousin. She is 15 . Im 19. Things are like, this started 2 years back. This cousin of mine and me is too close. More than just cousins. We used to talk for hours, we used to hold hands, she used to rest on ...
A. 15 February 2009: OK, family is off limits she just like being around you because she felt that she could be herself with you. Now when you came at her the way you did scared her and now she doesn't want things to turn into something more. All I can say is tell her ... (read in full...)
How much authority do managers have?
Q. Does a manager have the authority to send an employee home without issuing him some type of papers that states he is being sent home from work for a reason. Does a manager have the authority to tell an employee to come back when he wants them to. Is ...
A. 22 December 2008: My friend was giving a suspension letter due to investigation but unlike me they do everything right with him but this manager didn't do the same thing with me. If you are fired for what they say was fighting which I didn't do then why am I ... (read in full...)
How much authority do managers have?
Q. Does a manager have the authority to send an employee home without issuing him some type of papers that states he is being sent home from work for a reason. Does a manager have the authority to tell an employee to come back when he wants them to. Is ...
A. 22 December 2008: My friend was giving a suspension letter due to investigation like me but my thing is how did they do everything right with him but this manager didn't do the same thing with me.... (read in full...)
I had sex in the heat of the moment with my best friend but I have a boyfriend.
Q. I am seventeen years old and I'm in a healthy relationship with my boyfriend. However, at a party one night, me and my best friends brother (age 24) decided to have in the heat of the moment sex. Now I'm worried if my boyfriend finds out he'll dump ...
A. 21 December 2008: Sorry to say but he is no best friend and what you did was wrong put yourself in his shoes.... (read in full...)
How much authority do managers have?
Q. Does a manager have the authority to send an employee home without issuing him some type of papers that states he is being sent home from work for a reason. Does a manager have the authority to tell an employee to come back when he wants them to. Is ...
A. 21 December 2008: I applied for unemployment and the determination letter said that the employer couldn't show proof so I was awarded unemployment. Also a friend of mine gave me a copy of his suspension letter that he got from HR that talked about why he was sent ... (read in full...)
Can two friends have sex for fun now and again and still be good friends after?
Q. Can two friends have sex for fun now and again and still be good friends after?...
A. 21 December 2008: As long as no one starts to get feelings... (read in full...)
How much authority do managers have?
Q. Does a manager have the authority to send an employee home without issuing him some type of papers that states he is being sent home from work for a reason. Does a manager have the authority to tell an employee to come back when he wants them to. Is ...
A. 21 December 2008: By the way I am not at will, my country is USA, and my union ain't work a damn. So what can I do. Thanks in advance for your help.... (read in full...)
I can masturbate up to 12 times a day and it is still not enough, what do I do?
Q. I’m a virgin and I’m horny all the time to the point that I get headaches if I don’t masturbate! I can masturbate up to 12 times a day and it is still not enough What do I do? ...
A. 21 December 2008: Wow I don't know what to tell yo but do you have a girlfriend by any chance. Yo can hurt yourself by making that area very sore and raw.... (read in full...)
Advice needed about job situation
Q. If a manager said that he sent an employee home on suspension pending a misconduct investigation, is there a letter that must be signed by the manager and employee when he orally suspends you or is there some type of letter you are suppose to get in ...
A. 21 December 2008: Thanks for your advice I live in the US, if you wantedto know what country I live in.... (read in full...)
I am not happy with my body image, how can I change it?
Q. I am not happy with my body image. Some people my say I'm small but in the stomach area I'm not. I wear a size 7,8,9 (depending on the brand of clothing). I also play basketball and workout (lift weights) so I have a some muscle. How do I stay ...
A. 21 December 2008: abs are made in the kitchen and the gym eat right and do cardio and you will see the abs start to appear. ... (read in full...)
My boobs are really embarrassing for me!
Q. my boobs are really embarrassing for me :( first off, my nipples are really big and really gross and really not cute! secondly I always get pimples on them! third, on my left boob I have two cysts and getting a third. what's wrong with ...
A. 21 December 2008: go see a doctor asap ok.... (read in full...)
Is this too big of an age gap?
Q. Hi everybody, I met a guy who is older than me and we and thinking about getting into a relationship. I am 20 and he is 26. Is this age gap ok or is it too wide? Thanks for all your help. :)...
A. 13 December 2008: I think that love has no age.... (read in full...)
Grandfather died 4 years ago I'm still depressed
Q. Hello. It's been almost four years since my Grandfather died and i'm still depressed after that time. And i keep having nightmares that show him bald and corpse pale. (He died of cancer) Is it normal to be this depressed for this long? Does anyon...
A. 13 December 2008: I know how you feel because I lost my grandmother sometime back and it still hurts. But if you have memories of them they never die, hope this helps.... (read in full...)
People Are Using Me to Get Ahead at My Work
Q. Hiya. This is more of a work issue than a relationship one, but still a big one. See, recently I started working as a waitress in my uncles hotel, and word got out to some of the other waiters about the fact that the owner of the hotel is related ...
A. 13 December 2008: First off you go to work to make money not friends. Forget these people if you know they are being nice to you because of your uncle then do what you have to do as far as your job and stay your distance from them people. Like my mom always told me ... (read in full...)
How can I stop my internet addiction?
Q. I have a major procastinating/internet/facebook addiction, which includes surfing the web for long inhumane periods of time and looking at other people's lifes and photo albums, when I should be studying... It's becoming a problem, what can I do?...
A. 3 October 2008: Go to a library and sit someplace that is far away from computers or go out and get you and your friends to start study groups... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and want a baby... but why?
Q. i'm 13 and i want to have a baby but i don't feel unloved my mom and my friends would do anything they could to help me why do i still want a baby so badly?...
A. 1 August 2008: Are you out of you mind keep your head in them books and away from the dumb ass boys. How can someone in your age group even yourself be able to raise a child do you have a 9 to 5 job. And it's not your moms problem to take care of it also. So what ... (read in full...)
My wife is having an affair! She wants to work things out but stay friends with him?
Q. My wife of 12 years has recently started having an affair with a freind of hers who is 10 years her Jr. He met her while she was working she runs Karaoke. at first she denied anything was going on but after ac couple of weeks she admitted it. She ...
A. 1 August 2008: The reason she wants to remain friends with him is that she still wants to fuck him. Get out and save yourself the trouble. "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me".... (read in full...)
Why do I feel old at age 21? I feel like I should have kids already!
Q. I just turned 21 and all of a sudden I feel I am geting too old. I want to start having kids, I have been watching amazing deliveries on tv. Most of my cousins already have kids and they are arund my age. I only have 2 years of college left and I ...
A. 1 August 2008: Your a young adult thats what you are, be young and have fun... (read in full...)
Why does he give me random attention and then ignore me for days?!
Q. Hey. Im just wondering if you can help me understand something about this lad. Ok, so one day he'll give me all his attention, talk to me, flirt with me, compliment, text me, Msn and everything then the next day he won't even aknowledge me - Im as ...
A. 1 August 2008: I think he might have something or someone else on the side... (read in full...)
Why do women stay with utter jerks?
Q. I need advice. What is it that women want with men? I always see girls who are generally nice in personality with guys who are complete jerks not just to other people but to them as well. Yet these girls still stay with them. It's the same ...
A. 23 July 2006: What martini just said is almost the same answer I was going to give but in all its the truth.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to break-up because my parents don't like him!
Q. My boyfriend and I are having some problems. He wants to break up with me because my parents don't like him. I tell him that it shouldn't matter what they think as long as I love him. What should I do?...
A. 9 April 2006: I can understand where he is coming from because I was in a situation like that before with this girl that I really liked and I ended up breaking it off brcause I didn't feel at ease with or around her mother. Only thing I can tell you is tell your ... (read in full...)
Should I call her again or is she just not interested?
Q. Got approached on the train by this girl who gave me her number, I called her up and we started talking. She told me how she had been checking me out for like two months and that she wanted us to get together, everything was going good. We called ...
A. 15 March 2006: So because I had to get my work hours straight so that I won't be working 3pm to 11:30 pm and then turn around with maybe 2 hours of sleep be back at the airport 3am to 11:30am She doesn't want anything to do with me anymore is lame. I understand ... (read in full...)
Should I call her again or is she just not interested?
Q. Got approached on the train by this girl who gave me her number, I called her up and we started talking. She told me how she had been checking me out for like two months and that she wanted us to get together, everything was going good. We called ...
A. 13 March 2006: My thing is, if she didn’t want anything to do with me anymore she should have told me instead of acting like this. Come to think of it there was one time that I came up to her section where she worked, my friend was with me because he drove me up ... (read in full...)
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