I feel left out and it makes me depressed!
Q. I work at a day camp in Vancouver. I am friendly with most of the staff but I don't talk to them too much because I don't know what to say. I also have social anxiety disorder. The other staff are friendly with me but there are parties every ...
A. 13 July 2011: just approach them and talk to them more ... thats it!... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a two-year-old to want to nap/sleep/lay on her dad's chest?
Q. Is it normal for a two year old girl to want to nap/sleep/lay on her dad's chest? She's definitely a daddy's girl but a friend of mine told me she shouldn't want to lay on him. As soon as he lays down even if she's not going down for a nap or rea...
A. 12 July 2011: there is absolutely nothing wrong with that ...your friend dont understand that little girls do that because 1) its comfortable, 2) body heat feels good 3) it is Daddy!!! perfectly normal!... (read in full...)
There's now an unspoken tension between us. How can we move forward from here?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for nearly a year and a half. We live together. We haven't had sex in over 8 months. The sexual relationship never seemed quite right to me, her body language always made it seem like it wasn't something she wanted to ...
A. 19 February 2011: Maybe there is something in her past, like sexual abuse ... that is what it sounds like to me anyways.... (read in full...)
I'm not interested in relationships. What affect will that have on me in future?
Q. Hello everyone, I'm 15 years old, I haven't had a boyfriend, I've been asked a couple of times but I'm not interested. Every boy I know behaves in unacceptable ways. They're cocky, or not sensitive, too sarcastic. Don't get me wrong, I can tak...
A. 19 February 2011: dont worry about it you are only 15 ... i used to be like that when i was 15 ... the older you get the more your mind will change ... when you get to 50 thats when your mind will be stable... (read in full...)
I told him I'm pregnant today. He became abusive and aggressive with me. Where do I go from here?
Q. hi everyone, im 22 and this guy is 20. i need some good advice here. today i found out that i'm pregnant this is my first time being pregnant and the guy im pregnant for he's a player. its been nearly 3half weeks i havent heard from him. he's been...
A. 19 February 2011: Stay away from him ... go far away from him because if you don’t he will hurt you really bad mentally and physically. Just remember to serve him the child support papers when the baby is born.... don’t waste any feelings on this jerk... (read in full...)
My fiance and I have been together a year and I'm a virgin. But is he a sex addict?
Q. Hello, i've been in relationship for a year, and then got engaged to a guy, but i feel inside he is sex addicted. we 've never been in a sexual relationship and i am still virgin, even in my thoughts about love.. last time we went out we were exc...
A. 19 February 2011: he is not a sex addict, he is just turned on and very attracted to you and want a sexual relationship with you too... I, like yourself, am a virgin and the guy i was dating did the exact same thing. It is your decision whether you want want to be ... (read in full...)
What is wrong with asking someone out for a coffee?
Q. It's me again...The guy who is all stuffed up in the head. Some people have told me in the past that I make inappropriate sexual comments. They say it's part of Aspergers Syndrome. But my question is...Why do people get so touchy about inapropria...
A. 6 February 2011: lol you shouldve texed her, email, twit or facebook chat her lol maybe she doesnt like it the old school way .... technology man! get with the program!
on a serious note ... it is better to just approach her and ask her out for coffee face to ... (read in full...)
22 year old virgin: weak or responsible?
Q. I am a 22 year old man who is still a virgin. Despite the fact that I am a black belt, eagle scout, and college graduate I still feel like I am a failure because I haven't had sex at my age. I know several women my age that would like me but I am ...
A. 24 January 2011: im 24 and im a virgin. i think that you are making a wise choice to wait. this is definitely a sign of maturity and resposibility... (read in full...)
25, virgin, and don't want to scare guys away
Q. So I am going to be 25 and I am a virgin. It's by choice for the most part .. The problem is I'm very self conscious about myself .. I want to be with someone but because I'm not experienced it makes me even more self conscious ! I'm to afraid to ...
A. 24 January 2011: dont woory about it. im the same age as you and im also a virgin. dont feel insecure about that if anything be proud that you held on to it for that long because not everyone can do that.... (read in full...)
Younger woman said she loved me, but now that she's single, she is avoiding me!
Q. Ok, I met a girl about 6 months ago at her work, and when i walked out the door to leave her manager came outside to tell me that this girl said that I was going to be her husband one day. Well after about a week or so me and this girl exchanged ...
A. 21 January 2011: the age difference is not bad. just be patient with her and talk to her... (read in full...)
I'm worried about my ex wife, who who has joint custody of my 13 year old son, moving to another state.
Q. I'm worried about my ex wife, who has joint custody of my 13 y.o. son, moving to another state. She has started to date, and admitted one guy she is somewhat serious with was out of state. I hate the thought of my visits with my son changing. I ...
A. 21 January 2011: she needs your permission for that... (read in full...)
I have a crush on a much younger woman... should I ask her out?
Q. I have a huge crush on a girl who is much younger than me (10+ years). We met at college where I am much older than most of the other students, but I have had no problem with making friends among them. I also can tell that at some point she liked ...
A. 21 January 2011: 10 years is not that bad. ask her out... (read in full...)
Is he thinking about her and does he like her?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 1/2yrs. We have on n off fought about his brother's girlfriend and it just doesn't seem like I can really talk about it with him. He says he doesn't feel anything for her but in my view I think he does. It ...
A. 21 January 2011: this just sound like a jealousy problem that you have ... he has no feeling for that girl.... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a guy that has a girlfriend.
Q. I am 17 years old. Ive been secretly seeing this guy that has a girlfriend, for a year now. I totally understand how wrong it is, but my emotions wont let me leave him. Ive tried and tried to leave him, and one time i even did, but a few weeks go ...
A. 12 January 2011: just leave him ... he wont leave his girlfriend for you so why are you with him ... dont waste your time, you could be with someone who respects you enough to not make you his side chick .. remember you deserve better than that... (read in full...)
Obsessed with wife's prior sexual history
Q. I have been married for 25 years. We have a wonderful 11 year old son. My wife is a wonderful person. Everyone loves her except my family. My problem(s) stem mostly from my lack of self esteem. I have suffered from clinical depression and a...
A. 12 January 2011: dude from what i just read ... u r very insecure ... you would cause someone to cheat even if they didnt want to before ... my gosh... (read in full...)
I'm beyond lonely.
Q. Hit the half way mark of my 20s and am still single. Not bad right? Everyone falls into this category periodically. Except for the fact that I've been in this same boat all my life. I've never had a girlfriend or even been kissed for that matter. ...
A. 5 December 2010: you know what, im 24 and although ive dated in the past, its been 4 years sice ive been single. just like you, im educated, good job, good and gentle person, virgin, i get compliments all the time so i know that i am attractive yet im still single! ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend betrayed me in the worst way!
Q. Hi everyone. I am hurting at the moment. My boyfreind has broken my trust and has done teh worst thing any one could ever do to me. I though he was a good guy. I told him about my past sexual abuse by father and he told his famly about it. I can ...
A. 22 October 2010: dont break up with him. He loves u. The news hit him so bad that he had to tell someone ... if anything U need to open up more about this because u dont know if ur father did this to someone else ... speaking about what hurts, helps relieve the pain... (read in full...)
How can I progress to having sex?
Q. My girlfriend takes most of the same college courses in my county local community college, we like each other and visit each other all they time. The farthest I've got is making out. How can I take it a step further and have sex with her? Please ...
A. 9 October 2010: well first of all ur a kid n really dont need to be having sex now
and that is HER AND ONLY HER decision on whether or not you will get to this point with her.
do not pressure her to have sex with u because that would be very selfish
what... (read in full...)
How can I be happy and single?
Q. All advice would be much appreciated! I'm 16 and have never had a boyfriend, and I think I need to work on myself for now as I keep having crushes and it's distracting me from school. So what do single people do in order to make themselves happy...
A. 9 October 2010: I get new hobbies, like reading books on subjects that i find interesting... back in high school, when i was ur age i joined clubs and organizations in school and that kept me occupied. i really had to time to have crushes because i was always ... (read in full...)
I don't want anything inside me! How am I ever going to have sex?
Q. I'm 24 n a virgin, yet i have urges like everyone else. I have one problem ... I am scared of anything going inside my vagina. the mere thought of it makes me squeeze my legs together. Ive had a boyfriend before n I only let him go as far as playing ...
A. 29 September 2010: Thanks so much for the advice ... my best friend did tell me that i would need to relax...Gosh this is so frustrating but i am going to try ... how do i even relax? should i try to think about something else or what?... (read in full...)
How do they manage to sleep at night, tormenting others all day?
Q. Hey all. I need to talk to someone about this. Today I gave notice in my job and I feel utterly deflated. Having been in the job for less than a year, everyday in that office has been a living HELL - to put it mildly. Despite being qualified...
A. 29 September 2010: SHE MIGHT BE SLEEPING WITH THE BOSS BECAUSE THAT IS CRAZY .....if i were u i wouldve talked to the boss supervisor n get proof of everything such as video of how she acts in the office, anything i could find n shut her up!... (read in full...)
Spousal Verbal Abuse?
Q. What is the advise out there to a woman who is married to a verbally abusive man? When anything goes wrong (flat tire, freezer not working, sports team lost?) it's because I'm a f-ing bitch. He shouts it over and over at me in front of our ...
A. 29 September 2010: LEAVE! RUN FOR THE DOOR!... (read in full...)
He is thinking of leaving his wife for me, but I'm worried he may only be leaving because he thinks the grass is greener on the other side....
Q. Ok, it's best to start at the beginning. I work with a guy who is 15 years older than me, have always had a soft spot, and the room kinda lit up when I saw him. I hadn't realised that (2 years down the line) he had felt the same as me. He is ...
A. 29 September 2010: he wil not leave his wife for real .... i hear these stories so much ... women do no be fooled by these words!!! how many women have to go through this same situation ("he said he was going to leave his wife for me") before yall realize that it is ... (read in full...)
Is it fair to eject people from your life who don't mind their own business?
Q. I know that no-one's perfect, but I have lost a lot of friends lately because I can't stand people who stick their nose in my business. They try to manipulate me. Is it fair to eject people from your life who can't mind their own business? I kn...
A. 29 September 2010: dont eject them because later on in life u dont know which one of them will be able to help u out of a tough situation.... dont be mean to them, just avoid them 80% of the time. minimize contact with them but not completely.... (read in full...)
Why does this girl freeze up around me?
Q. There's this girl I like...a lot. I notice her staring and smiling at me when she thinks I can't see her. She also makes long eye contact with me without saying anything. When I talk to her she seems shy and submissive. She fidgets (such as...
A. 29 September 2010: she likes u ... she is just nervous... (read in full...)
We have been together 17 months now and we still have not had sex!
Q. Okay so about a year and a half ago, I was at a small house party with a few friends and I met a guy, I was only 16, and although I wasn't a virgin, sex was the last thing on my mind. Me and this guy fancied each other and we exchanged phone numbers ...
A. 29 September 2010: just be patient n wait.
do u know how many guys would pounce on u without loving u?
it is admirable to find a guys who loves but want to wait till he is married before sex.... he is the type of guy tht u keep.
u wont die if u dont have ... (read in full...)
Can anyone decipher what he is saying?
Q. A friend of mine and I have been exchanging sms and chats for sometime now. Recently I suggested that we meet for lunch, and added in jest ' unless you prefer dinner' to which he replied ' Either is fine !..I am not scared of you " I just didn't ...
A. 29 September 2010: lol I guess he is taking ur offer as a challenge... (read in full...)
Is there any way I can keep the space I love and keep a guy interested?
Q. I'm a 26 year old female, and I've never had a boyfriend. I've barely been on a date! I've had guys interested in me, but usually I'm never interested in them. There are only 2 guys that I regret dismissing before we really started anything, and now ...
A. 27 September 2010: you know what girl, that is something that you will have to work really hard on because when a guy is interested in you, he will want to spend as much time as he can with you. You, not wanting them around because of "alone time" is going to drive ... (read in full...)
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