Crush.....on a woman?
Q. I'm a teenage girl, who is completely straight. Anyone who knows me in real life knows I always have some crazy infatuation with one of our cute guy teachers. However, I joined drama club, and have developed this weird crush for our female ...
A. 5 March 2010: Infatuation can be for both sexes, all ages, animals, and things. You find her to be the embodiment of something you admire. It is normal to be awkward around someone like that, to look up to them, to feel memorized at how easily they are ... (read in full...)
It's getting that I'm scared to have sex in case I hurt them...
Q. I was seeing this girl that I really liked. We tried to have sex one night and it just didn't work. I just couldn't get aroused. I had been seeing her for only a couple of months and it wasn't really such a serious relationship but I really liked ...
A. 4 March 2010: Nope-not the only male virgin in the USA. You need to talk to your girl. Don't bring up your past too explicitly. You can just say that you get really stressed out, and you don't want to hurt her or not perform well enough. If she is truly loving a... (read in full...)
Where is the line between being high maintenance and wanting a reasonable amount of attention without any distractions?
Q. I don't really know what to think. My boyfriend moved to another state so we talk on skype and phone as often as possible. However I feel like sometimes he takes me for granted because he knows I love him to pieces, just little things like getting ...
A. 4 March 2010: You might want to ask if you are calling at a good time. Even though he may actually love you-staying glued to the phone or computer is not very interactive. Changing up the routine would help.
At the beginning of my relationship, my guy lived in N... (read in full...)
Mind games...
Q. Ok, he's gone. :-( My best guy friend just left for the US Armed Forces. He'll be gone for about 2 months, then back for a week and then off to who knows where for 6 months - a year! I know it's going to go fast but I can't help to feel "lonely." ...
A. 4 March 2010: He's not gay then, perhaps he's bisexual. But for your sake, I would not marry him until you were sure that he was fine with having a female as a serious counterpart.
I am bisexual but I am only sexually attracted to both sexes. I don't want to have... (read in full...)
Mind games...
Q. Ok, he's gone. :-( My best guy friend just left for the US Armed Forces. He'll be gone for about 2 months, then back for a week and then off to who knows where for 6 months - a year! I know it's going to go fast but I can't help to feel "lonely." ...
A. 4 March 2010: He's not gay then, perhaps he's bisexual. But for your sake, I would not marry him until you were sure that he was fine with having a female as a serious counterpart.
I am bisexual but I am only sexually attracted to both sexes. I don't want to have... (read in full...)
Is it right to rub up against women in clubs when you are in a relationship?
Q. Hi, I wonder if you can help. I'm not sure I know how to interact with women in clubs. I'm in a relationship and have been for the past few months, and when I go out with my friends, we all get really drunk and then I watch as they rub up agai...
A. 4 March 2010: It's okay to dance with girls. Grinding is a bit more intimate and may be a bit much. You can have fun, but try not to do the dances that look like sex acts with clothes on. Fun is fine to have as long as it's just that. If someone gets the wrong ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend creates anger and friction for all
Q. Hi ive been with my bf for 3 years. During the first year he had lots of contact with his ex wife. They have 4 children together and they split up a year before i met him because she cheated on him. We had the children to stay every other weekend ...
A. 4 March 2010: Sorry-meant to write that he *HASN'T* learned how to act in those situations.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend creates anger and friction for all
Q. Hi ive been with my bf for 3 years. During the first year he had lots of contact with his ex wife. They have 4 children together and they split up a year before i met him because she cheated on him. We had the children to stay every other weekend ...
A. 4 March 2010: You love is something you can't change, but he is not yet ready to be in a relationship and understand it's importance. You need to move on. You were more than likely (from the sound of it) a rebound relationship. He was not in love with you and ... (read in full...)
I am 16 and want to go to college and have a baby!
Q. I am 16 and my boyfriend and i have been talking about having a baby for months, we know we are sufficeintly mature enough. He has an evening job which earns a good amount. what i would like to know is.. if you are a hard working person, is it ...
A. 4 March 2010: No you can't-you are not the exception and you are falling into the trap that a lot of teens do-as a teenager you are almost an adult, but you lack the futuristic gauging mental ability you develop in your 20s. To you it may sound so simple. I get ... (read in full...)
Obsessing over boys and can't seem to stop.
Q. Help! Why do I obsess over guys!! Its wierd I think about someone non stop for maybe even a year then that's it I forget about them. Any sugestions except to get a life? Haha thanks ...
A. 4 March 2010: Your are becoming a woman and all the sensations you feel are overwhelming as they flood your body with the awareness of the opposite sex. Enjoy your fascination with guys.
Try to still pay attention to all the other things you enjoy as well so y... (read in full...)
Just got married, flirtatious friend of wife, I think I want to have sex with her, what should I do??
Q. Help, i got married last year and i love my wife to bits. The problum is when we go out with her friends one of them flirts with me all night. At first i didnt mind but now i really want to have sex with her. I dont know if its because i know i cant ...
A. 4 March 2010: I think you already know the answer to this question...if not then it's No
1)Permanently damage you marriage (if you are having these thoughts so early-you aren't someone she should have married-you don't see the importance of the relationship you ... (read in full...)
My mom and dad want to use my credit and then have me go bankrupt, any way I can stop them?
Q. So I have sort of a financial problem... Apparently my dad and mom want to work up my credit then have me go bankrupt I have no specicfic reasons why so dey want to ... But I have no control and if I say no they stop talking to me... Why would I ...
A. 4 March 2010: Sadly the choice is you should say no, and if they don't want to talk to you, then it's time to cut ties until they get a clue. If they can tell others what they are doing then they will get a wake up call.
I know it hurts, but your parents are ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend doesn't want us to move in together...and other more complicated topics
Q. Dear internet friends I have a feeling this questions gonna sound all disjointed and chaotic but here it goes: I've been dating this woman for about 2 years, she's 36 and I'm 33. Initially things were wonderful because I had no expectat...
A. 3 March 2010: Even though you have been going out for 2 years it seems that to accumulated time you have spent together may not warrant moving in yet. Maybe you should start having it start as you staying at her place for a week while you go to work regularly-and ... (read in full...)
I'm worried that my husband likes a woman at work
Q. Im worried that my husband likes a women at work. he drives a truck at a company and she works in the office, he always says that the girls are fat and unattractive because I do ask who works in the office and if any of those girls talk to him and ...
A. 3 March 2010: I was in a marriage like this and only after I was divorced and wondering what happened did I find out.
The problem is you in this case. Hear me out before the shock and offense sets in.
You are already insecure. You don't trust and this happened... (read in full...)
Is there a way to get access to his profile on adult friendfinder?
Q. Can you tell me if there is a way to get a profile of someone on adult friendfinder after they have deleted their account? I have the screen name and former account number. I was catching my cheating dog of a says-he's-not-gay husband and I ...
A. 3 March 2010: No you can't. Not for an average person.
May I ask why you haven't divorced this man. i am personally not the kind to say dump him and move on, but if he's a cheater, then he doesn't love you and even if you prove it it won't make him stop or love... (read in full...)
Masturbating Won’t Make You Blind, BUT
Q. ~ I recently read an article about masturbation, and it got me wondering about the effects of too much masturbation. The article focused on men being unable to orgasm during sex, but there are other dangers as well. First of all, let me say that ...
A. 3 March 2010: For women masturbating too much has similar effects
1)it's harder to cum during sex
2)you can cause yeast infections because the excess fluid can alter the PH in your vagina.
3)you can get more frequent UTIs if you rub the clitoris too much the... (read in full...)
I had sex with my boyfriend when I was talking to another guy. Now the other guy says I cheated!
Q. My relationship with my guy started out all wrong. We met on an internet site not intended to *hook-up* people-MFI (a site were you can have friends and benefactors contribute to your boob job). At the time I wanted implants to restore and enhance ...
A. 3 March 2010: He's not married anymore. Sorry I didn't make that clear. In his country you need to be married to the immigrant for 3 years before they can get their own permanent license-after that you can get divorced and they can live without you (Norway). She ... (read in full...)
Porn, relationships, and confidence of women today.
Q. Okay, so i'm just going to talk about relationships and porn and let me know your opinions on what I have to say, if you're a woman that doesn't mind her man looking at it then fair enough but don't come ranting how us women who aren't are ...
A. 3 March 2010: I read your other comments and replies and since he was the asshole, then just dump him. It's not men you have a problem with-it is him. Don't be so quick to label them all. what he said was certainly hurtful, but you need to learn when an asshole ... (read in full...)
Porn, relationships, and confidence of women today.
Q. Okay, so i'm just going to talk about relationships and porn and let me know your opinions on what I have to say, if you're a woman that doesn't mind her man looking at it then fair enough but don't come ranting how us women who aren't are ...
A. 3 March 2010: Picture this action movie full of physical combat,stunts, explosions, speed, and a need for fantastical strength...you are the director...who do you cast as the main actor, Vin Diesal, Dude who works at in the next cubicle, or Paul Giamati? ... (read in full...)
How do I slow down the growth of hair on my bikini line?
Q. my bikini line hair is a lot and even extends like 2cms from the bikini line.i use hair removal cream but after 2days, hair growing starts to pop out. i feel so embarrassed that i am a young girl having such, a let me call it problem. what can...
A. 3 March 2010: Sadly the only thing that reduces hair growth are extreme chemicals that are made to damage the hair shaft (hand your skin). It cannot greatly slow it down without you hurting more of your body. electrolysis will target the hair shaft specifically ... (read in full...)
Anal Intercourse...what to do to avoid pain and weird things from happening?
Q. Hi yall the name nessa. Anywho I have a slight problem. So my bf's been asking and complaing...he wants to have his noodle doodle up my a*s and to me that's just going over the limit... I don't know what to do I want to satisfy him anyway I can but ...
A. 3 March 2010: he sounds like he doesn't understand what anal sex is or what he is asking you to do. It is not like vaginal sex and the pain is not like losing your virginity and you grow out of it. The pain is something totally different-actual damage is being ... (read in full...)
He has double standards when it comes to his porn watching and me masturbating...
Q. k so a while back i found my boyfriend was watching porn and all this shit , and i never really did a whole lot about it like at first i told him it was over but he wouldnt let me leave so we worked it out but i dunno lately ive just been thinking ...
A. 3 March 2010: Double standards aren't good in any case. Why is porn bad? Beware of cultural and religious brainwashing Why is masturbating not okay? I think you guys ought to answer those things properly, because people who disapprove of porn and masturbation... (read in full...)
Anal Intercourse...what to do to avoid pain and weird things from happening?
Q. Hi yall the name nessa. Anywho I have a slight problem. So my bf's been asking and complaing...he wants to have his noodle doodle up my a*s and to me that's just going over the limit... I don't know what to do I want to satisfy him anyway I can but ...
A. 3 March 2010: he sounds like he doesn't understand what anal sex is or what he is asking you to do. It is not like vaginal sex and the pain is not like losing your virginity and you grow out of it. The pain is something totally different-actual damage is being ... (read in full...)
How do I slow down the growth of hair on my bikini line?
Q. my bikini line hair is a lot and even extends like 2cms from the bikini line.i use hair removal cream but after 2days, hair growing starts to pop out. i feel so embarrassed that i am a young girl having such, a let me call it problem. what can...
A. 3 March 2010: Sadly the only thing that reduces hair growth are extreme chemicals that are made to damage the hair shaft (hand your skin). It cannot greatly slow it down without you hurting more of your body. electrolysis will target the hair shaft specifically ... (read in full...)
How do I start having orgasms again?
Q. So, my boyfriend has been rubbing me 'down there' and fingering me down there and I used to get orgasms.. but I dont anymore.. Is there anyway to increase getting them?...
A. 3 March 2010: Yes. As long as something medically wrong isn't happening-you should be able to. One thing that will stop a female orgasm dead in it's tracks....Is worrying about whether she will be able to orgasm. Also-you may need more variation-doing the same ... (read in full...)
I had sex with my boyfriend when I was talking to another guy. Now the other guy says I cheated!
Q. My relationship with my guy started out all wrong. We met on an internet site not intended to *hook-up* people-MFI (a site were you can have friends and benefactors contribute to your boob job). At the time I wanted implants to restore and enhance ...
A. 3 March 2010: I guess I am not going to get answers to something like this. But thanks everyone. We're fine now, just trying to get rid of the ghosts the linger. I'm not going to get rid of my guy, because before I posted here, he already knew that how he felt ... (read in full...)
Is this relationship acceptable?
Q. Hey. I'm 18 years old and I have recently left the sixth form at my school. I noticed that one of my male teachers was becoming increasingly flirty. He was winking at me on the corridors, touching my arm at any possible chance, and he would ask me ...
A. 2 March 2010: It depends on how old he is. If he is within 5-ish years from you I say go for it. But if not this is a red flag many young girls miss. At his age he should be at a mental mature state far above yours...no matter how smart and mature you may be, you ... (read in full...)
Pregnant, but wish it was my ex's!
Q. I am in a tricky situation. I split up with my ex Tim, who I dated for 4 years, 3 months ago but we have remained friends. I was 2 timing him for a few months (which he doesn't know about, and for which I am truely sorry). I have been dating Ed ...
A. 2 March 2010: You know the mess you are in so I won't repeat it. You are in a really tough bind and I almost want to say you should give the child up for adoption (or if you have family to help) because you are far from ready to be responsible for someone else's ... (read in full...)
Feeling ready to give my virginity to him.
Q. i am a virgin and i have very strong feelings for my boyfriend. we have know each other for all most a year now and i think that he may be the one i lose my virginity to. how do i get him to see that i am ready to give myself over to him without ...
A. 2 March 2010: I would say put aside the whole Virginity, How Girls Feel, How Boys Feel-just for a second. Sex is not love. they are 2 different things that are closely related, but not the same thing. You need to look at your physical attraction and you emotional ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has been verbally abusing me for two years but I cant live without him!
Q. hi im going through a lot of depression.of late my boyfriend is just acting very weird with me.hes always to rude and harsh with me i love him to death and i cant just live without him.im helpless.what do i do i have done everything from my end to ...
A. 2 March 2010: 1) Read: Don't be That Girl-it's a book that actually helps instead of preaching.
2)You need to set your boundaries. example-" I don't like it when you talk to me that way, it devalues me, makes me feel insecure,__insert feeling___. I can't stop... (read in full...)
How much will anal sex hurt and is there a way to make it easier?
Q. Okay so here's the thing. I'm 14 and me and my boyfriend have had sex a couple times and done everything else exept anal. well we tried once and he couldn't get it in. He wants to try it again but when he first tried he said my ass hole is really ...
A. 2 March 2010: BTW-about the pain-I don't have pain while having anal sex, nor do I get the overwhelming sensation to poop. It did when we first tried, but when we took those steps I gave you...anal sex was painless and we could pick up the speed and I enjoyed it ... (read in full...)
How much will anal sex hurt and is there a way to make it easier?
Q. Okay so here's the thing. I'm 14 and me and my boyfriend have had sex a couple times and done everything else exept anal. well we tried once and he couldn't get it in. He wants to try it again but when he first tried he said my ass hole is really ...
A. 2 March 2010: Even though you are too young to be this far, you are going to do what you are going to do. So at least here's the skinny so you don't seriously hurt yourself.
1)Poop 2-3 hours before and wash thoroughly back there.
2)Practice with yourself... (read in full...)
I'm not getting any younger, and I want a chance at happiness. Would it be selfish to leave my partner?
Q. I have two young boys with my partner of ten years. It seems that most of those years have been a series of mounting stresses. My partner has always had difficulty with intemacy; relating to some abuse experienced as a child, but I have always had a ...
A. 2 March 2010: Caringguy is on the money. A fulfilled relationship is comprised of the Love Triangle: Love, Passion, Commitment....not the soap opera triangle. You are entitled to try to get all 3 parts. It does you no good to get 66% of your needs...that's. ... (read in full...)
I had sex with my boyfriend when I was talking to another guy. Now the other guy says I cheated!
Q. My relationship with my guy started out all wrong. We met on an internet site not intended to *hook-up* people-MFI (a site were you can have friends and benefactors contribute to your boob job). At the time I wanted implants to restore and enhance ...
A. 2 March 2010: Thank you lexie 88 for the advice you posted earlier. It was the compliment you gave GrimmReality that my earlier post responded to.... (read in full...)
Can a guy man have gay friends? Is it the same as a married man being friends with a single woman?
Q. I am gay and have a boyfriend and he thinks a gay man in a relationship shouldn't have gay friends. To me that shouts insecurity but from his perspective it is a genuine moral standard. Neither of us had gay friends so it never even came up. I ...
A. 2 March 2010: You can have gay friends and your uneasy feelings are dead on. He is insecure and wants to control his insecurity by herding you away from things he can't handle. And you have to pose the question to him "Don't you trust me enough to be around other ... (read in full...)
I had sex with my boyfriend when I was talking to another guy. Now the other guy says I cheated!
Q. My relationship with my guy started out all wrong. We met on an internet site not intended to *hook-up* people-MFI (a site were you can have friends and benefactors contribute to your boob job). At the time I wanted implants to restore and enhance ...
A. 2 March 2010: GrimmReality: You haven't even heard the circumstances leading to the site involvement. It was published in the news as a decent site for regular people to get help. The site on the other hand was littered with women so desparate to get a boob job ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend flirts and pretends to be single online. Should I dump him?
Q. I recently discovered my boyfriend has a networking account on which he behaves as if he were a single guy. He flirts, he apparently texts, and his status when I checked was "looking for random hookups". I called him somewhat hysterically and ...
A. 1 March 2010: I have been in this situation in my Marriage. He is not in love with you. Simple as that. He may care for you deeply, but he is missing the rest of the true love pyramid-commitment and passion. He gets the passion from other women and straddles the ... (read in full...)
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