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*olaroid93
writes:Help! Why do I obsess over guys!! Its wierd I think about someone non stop for maybe even a year then that's it I forget about them. Any sugestions except to get a life? Haha thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, BagLady  +, writes (4 March 2010):
Your are becoming a woman and all the sensations you feel are overwhelming as they flood your body with the awareness of the opposite sex. Enjoy your fascination with guys.
Try to still pay attention to all the other things you enjoy as well so your life doesn't revolve around guys. I would recommend romance novels or manga, but they display a lot of unrealistic things about life so it's not good if you know you are impressionable. If you aren't then it's great entertainment.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (4 March 2010):
 Focus on what is your priorities in life and on God and what are the things that will make you happy.
Just shift your focus to other things that interest you , your friends, hobbies,entertainments, things you like to do. etc.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (4 March 2010):
 I think this is just the stage in your life. I used to obsess over girls when I was younger. Try and find another interest to keep your mind off all the guys but otherwise just go along with it knowing that it will fade as time goes on.
Its perfectly normal and you're ahead of the game for noticing it so it doesn't completely take over.
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