FWB offends me. Is FWB just a cheap way to get easy sex instead of paying a sex worker? Does FWB stand for anything else other than sex?
Q. FWB I don't really like this game because what if the other person start to have feelings? To me it seems to be basically about money. Where does one draw the line and say this is not what I want? I really think FWB is a trade off for free sex. I c...
A. 25 December 2012: not always . fwb is never about money its about sex with no attachments im in one now and it means we scratch an itch so to speak then have a great friendship on the side with no complications of a relationship.
fwb is hard because nearly a... (read in full...)
Women's perspective on a guy's height please.
Q. Ladies, I'd like to hear from you how you feel about height as it relates to attraction. Is it a non-negotiable for you that your man be taller than you are? What about when he's taller than you, but not taller than you in heels? I'm 5'8" and l...
A. 24 December 2012: im 5"5 and my boyfriend is 5"6 i generally prefer guys 5"8 + but im not too fussed to be honest ... (read in full...)
I'm in desperate need of earning back my boyfriend's trust
Q. Well I have been with my boyfriend 7 months now, but there are so many guys that have been flirting with me ever since i started dating him. Now he is realizing that he has given me so many chances and doesn't know if he should now. I'm afraid of ...
A. 8 April 2012: so basically you flirted with other guys whilst you knew you had a boyfriend? im sorry but i can completely understand why he doesnt trust you, i wouldnt either. i think you need to grow up to be quite honest and i also think your boyfriend needs to ... (read in full...)
What are the biggest problems that most people have to deal with in a lifetime?
Q. What are the biggest problems what most people have to deal with in a lifetime? In my family we have so much problems , that it is hard for me to see, if everybody got problems like that ,or it is out of the ordinary to have them,like that . ...
A. 28 March 2012: everybody you meet is fighting their own battles, most they keep hidden from the outside world. to me i have a very serious illness that will require daily multiple medications for all my life and has no cure it affects everything and everything ... (read in full...)
Is my weight appropriate?
Q. What is the average weight for a small sixteen year old girl who is 5 ft 2? Im 6 stone 8 pounds, i'm probobly the thinnest out of all my friends except from one who is not much more thinner than me, alot of people say im realy thin, but i dont think ...
A. 20 December 2011: you have a bmi of 16. normally anything under 18 is classes as underweight however because of your age it is classed as a healthy weight according to the nhs website ... (read in full...)
A boy I like is ill with a tumor. I don't know if I want to tell him I like him, and I'm here for him, or say nothing?
Q. The boy i like at school has been diagnosed with a tumour on his windpipe. Im really scared for him that it could be cancer as i dont want to see him die. I've never told anyone I like him and hes not at school because hes in hospital. Im conf...
A. 12 November 2011: i wouldnt suggest telling him you like him id suggest instead phoning him or sending him saying something along the lines of ' i miss you' or 'im thinking of you'
when i was in hospital a guy i liked said this to me in a card and it meant a ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend saw that I wrote "I love S" on my hand. He isn't "S"... what do I do?
Q. okay so i'm in love with two people. my boyfriend and this guy called S. i've loved S for nearly 2 years now and he loves me too, but we've never been together offically. so yeah i wrote i love you "S" on my hand and my boyfriend saw it. what should ...
A. 12 November 2011: first thought - well that was a stupid thing to do. did you not think about that youre boyfriend would see it? or did you want him to see it? maybe so he owuld finish you and you wouldnt have to feel like the bad person
i think you need to leave... (read in full...)
Two kids with a rebound girl I never loved. What advice would you give me?
Q. ok were to start me and my parnter have been together for 5 years on and off. since the birth of my daughther shes been jealous because i love her more than my patner. but the true matter is i didnt love my partner that much to start of with she was ...
A. 4 November 2011: i can only talk from my friends experience here but he split up with his partner only to get back together it didnt work out and they split up again and now hes with someone else and the happiest ive ever see him. being together will not ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have a bruise on that part of your body without it leaving a mark?
Q. I have a question about a mysterious bruise incident. Fact: She told me had a bruise and it hurt like heck and she got it by bumping into the sharp corner of her dresser in the dark, on her chest. Fact: The next day she showed me where the brui...
A. 4 November 2011: from what you have said yes it does sound as though there was something going on there but i cant be certain because i didnt actually see the actions. i would advise you to always go with your gut instinct and your instinct is obviously telling you ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have a bruise on that part of your body without it leaving a mark?
Q. I have a question about a mysterious bruise incident. Fact: She told me had a bruise and it hurt like heck and she got it by bumping into the sharp corner of her dresser in the dark, on her chest. Fact: The next day she showed me where the brui...
A. 3 November 2011: absolutely possible i fell off my horse and fractured my spine i had no bruising what so ever just a immense amount of pain... (read in full...)
Does who I am attracted to matter?
Q. ok...i noticed mostly i'm attracted to white guys and i'm african not afrrican- american...i'm from nigeria...is this ok?...
A. 30 October 2011: im white and i generally prefer white boys and am not attracted to asian or black people ( i am friends with quite a lot of people of those races though) . its just down to peoples personal taste ... (read in full...)
Can this happen? My Sex drive is gone, and I'm only 20 years old
Q. I have lost my sex drive completely. I have an amazing fiance of four years, and we never have sex anymore, b/c I don't want too. I'm only 20 years old, and I don't care for it. As of right this very moment, i don't care if i EVER have sex again. At ...
A. 30 October 2011: maybe you love him but are not in love with him :\ are you still physically attracted to him? does he still turn you on? ... (read in full...)
True or false? Are girls attracted to guys who are mysterious and who are mentally challenging?
Q. I have this question about dating in general: I have heard from my guy friends and even read this on a girl's profile on a online dating site, that Girls are attracted to guys who are mysterious and who are mentally challenging. Otherwise if yo...
A. 30 October 2011: i like in the middle predictability is very boring but somebody who wont open up gets me thinking somethings going on.
the guy i 'used' to like was always very confusing blowing hot and cold with me never really opening up and revealing his feel... (read in full...)
How does a large guy make himself more attractive to women?
Q. As a large guy at the 18. (6'4 and 17 and a half stone) How can I make myself more attractive to the opposite sex? I'm got quite a round face and although I can hide my stomach and that sort of thing I do struggle to look 'attractive'. I feel my ...
A. 20 October 2011: the guy i fancy was only a bit slimmer than you and the same height (which by the way to me anyway is a attractive trait) and no exagerration he has about 50 girls that fancy him just because of his personality.
id say :
dress well not scruffi... (read in full...)
She had sex before we met, now I can't trust her.
Q. Hi everyone. I need some advise on what I should do. I have been with this girl for the last 5 years. The problem is that I cant resepct her or do anything nice for her. She has a past, she lost her virginity when she was 15 years old and stayed in ...
A. 13 October 2011: i suspect you came on here thinking we'd all support you and you'd be able to carry on controlling her and being a jerk but to be honest i couldnt give a sh*t that you think its her problem because i can tell you now its that the problem is YOU. ... (read in full...)
College teacher taking it to far???
Q. *** of note:this is college not highschool. Thanks I'm currently taking a horticulture class and our teacher is pretty cool.Jokes around a lot and sometimes in the most ADD of ways.Class got out for lunch, and he, myself,two of my friends came alo...
A. 13 October 2011: to me it just seems like hes a bit of a flirt. ive had a few of my young male teachers act a bit flirty with me one of them acted like this one actually. we flirted a bit because we knew it would never go any further than that and both of us knew ... (read in full...)
How can a handle family members commenting on my health/weight?
Q. Ok. I have a question about family. So I am sitting at my nieces bday party. Once again the subject of health comes about. I have health prob related to my being overweight. Once again I hear advice from those "well meaning" family members ...
A. 11 October 2011: i can totally understand where your mom is coming from im a type 1 diabetic which is normally diagnosed in early childhood and thought to be genetic. its a horrible life to live i do up to 6 injections a day and test about 10 times as well i have to ... (read in full...)
I need a good facebook status that will make my ex jealous
Q. I know this sounds really immiture and daft but I need a good facebook status that will make my ex bf jealous I don't want to make him think in seeing someone or anything but aw I don't know I really want him back I still love him I know he loves me ...
A. 10 October 2011: it'll just make everything ten times worse. if hes as stubborn as you say he is he wont comment on it anyway. just leave it and carry on with your life dont bring air your dirty laundry in public so to speak. i know a woman who did this and shes ... (read in full...)
How can a handle family members commenting on my health/weight?
Q. Ok. I have a question about family. So I am sitting at my nieces bday party. Once again the subject of health comes about. I have health prob related to my being overweight. Once again I hear advice from those "well meaning" family members ...
A. 10 October 2011: well are you working on it? and it depends how overweight you are if you're only a bit overweight then tell them to get lose basically but if youre morbidly obese then they are only concerned about the amount of diseases you can get from being ... (read in full...)
Am I shrinking or is she getting loose?
Q. so the other day me and my girlfriend was having sex.. it seems as thought she is getting really loose now.. i gotta admit im a pretty small guy and i am pretty small down there, but now it seems like i can't really feel her as much as i use to..and ...
A. 9 October 2011: from what ive heard and read on this site a woman does not get looser from the point they lose their viriginity till the time they have their first child. but having said that i dont see how your penis could get smaller. maybe try it in a different ... (read in full...)
B/f recently told me that one of his girlfriend's was a prostitute! Now I cannot get the nasty image out of my head
Q. During an argument, my boyfriend of almost a year, revealed to me, that in his past,many years ago, that he had a girlfriend who was a hooker. He could see in my eyes how disgusted I was, and of course I said I wanted to vomit. Now, days later, I ...
A. 9 October 2011: well you are obviously not going to listen to our opinion and you have clearly made up your mind if you want to finish with him because of his past then do so , its your choice. i would like to say one thing though peoples morals change over the ... (read in full...)
B/f recently told me that one of his girlfriend's was a prostitute! Now I cannot get the nasty image out of my head
Q. During an argument, my boyfriend of almost a year, revealed to me, that in his past,many years ago, that he had a girlfriend who was a hooker. He could see in my eyes how disgusted I was, and of course I said I wanted to vomit. Now, days later, I ...
A. 6 October 2011: im sorry but i think youre in the wrong here. this person was in the past and hookers are still people that do have relationships. i must emphasise the in the past part he is not with her anymore. also at least he told you and you didnt find out ... (read in full...)
Help! Advice? Am I driving my daughter away? Am I being too controlling?
Q. My daughter will be 21 on her next birthday. She is a high achiever but also could be a handful at times. From the ages from 16 to 18 she was out a lot, yes she was doing her A levels, part time job and cared for her horse. She also did go out with...
A. 5 October 2011: i have to agree you are way way out of line. youre treating her like a teenager not the adult she is she needs to live her own life. as for rushing into that relationship its her choice not yours she is over 21 she is perfectly entitled to have... (read in full...)
I'm 13, and I want to kiss my teacher!
Q. I have a huge crush on my form teacher and no one knows but every day when I come in to form I get more and more desperate to kiss him. I dont know how to do it though, or to do it at all. Also i really want to tell my friend but i am also worried ...
A. 4 October 2011: oh dear god you are delusional about this if he has not responded he won't lose his job. i would like to point out i was many teachers favourites and many of them acted even more friendlier than that to me (singing to me stopping me in corridors for ... (read in full...)
I'm 13, and I want to kiss my teacher!
Q. I have a huge crush on my form teacher and no one knows but every day when I come in to form I get more and more desperate to kiss him. I dont know how to do it though, or to do it at all. Also i really want to tell my friend but i am also worried ...
A. 3 October 2011: youd be reported he'd be suspended youd be the laughing stock of the school for it all the other teachers will be acting awkward around you you wouldnt be allowed in any of his classes and they may ask you to move schools . theres no good that could ... (read in full...)
I'm 13, and I want to kiss my teacher!
Q. I have a huge crush on my form teacher and no one knows but every day when I come in to form I get more and more desperate to kiss him. I dont know how to do it though, or to do it at all. Also i really want to tell my friend but i am also worried ...
A. 3 October 2011: youd be reported he'd be suspended youd be the laughing stock of the school for it all the other teachers will be acting awkward around you you wouldnt be allowed in any of his classes and they may ask you to move schools . theres no good that could ... (read in full...)
I'm 13, and I want to kiss my teacher!
Q. I have a huge crush on my form teacher and no one knows but every day when I come in to form I get more and more desperate to kiss him. I dont know how to do it though, or to do it at all. Also i really want to tell my friend but i am also worried ...
A. 2 October 2011: its still illegal. teachers are NOT even supposed to have any contact with you at all and he sees you as a little kid. he doesnt see you as an equal or someone he's attracted to in all probability he probably has a girlfriend or wife i repeat ... (read in full...)
I'm 13, and I want to kiss my teacher!
Q. I have a huge crush on my form teacher and no one knows but every day when I come in to form I get more and more desperate to kiss him. I dont know how to do it though, or to do it at all. Also i really want to tell my friend but i am also worried ...
A. 1 October 2011: before i go any further - DO NOT DO ANYTHING !!
i would also not tell your friend about it i know what 13 year old are like and they will tell people and it'd just make it extremely awkward for you and the teacher has to report it if he finds ou... (read in full...)
I'm always horny and don't want to have sex again!
Q. lost my v at 14 now im always horny.... i dont wana have sex again... wha can i do?? i dont have a vibrator?? help ...
A. 27 September 2011: theyre called fingers ;) they work too you know :P just do whatever feels right . you can also use the shower jet if you want. just do whatever feels right... (read in full...)
I have a lump, is it an infection?
Q. I am a 20year old lady. Last weekend my boyfriend and I had sex that was kind of rough, although we do that lots of times. I have since noticed a small lump (hard) on my vagina lip and i happen to have more discharge than normal. It seems like am ...
A. 26 September 2011: i got something like that it turned out to be an infected lymph node which was nothing to worry about just had to put a hot compress on it and it burst. to be on the safe side though i would go the gynaecologoist , better safe than sorry ... (read in full...)
Tips for high school?
Q. I know this isn't the best question for this site, but i know there are many smart people on this site who can help me. Any tips for high school? I'm an incoming freshman and I am nervous! Anything you can give me, tips for making friends, ...
A. 30 August 2011: 1) be confident :) it works wonders i was never confident until year 11 which is the final year over here and once i was i made so many new friends and i also got so many new oppurtunitys 2) be nice to teachers and get them on your side but do... (read in full...)
Is it legal for a 24 year old to date a 17 year old?
Q. Hi to all I've just found out that a friend of mine (24 years old male) is dating a (17 year old female) and just would like know is this legal or illegal and is this right or wrong as i really dont know myself what to say to them both....
A. 29 August 2011: firstly no its not illegal unless hes in a position of trust or has been her teacher within the last two years. secondly if shes mature enough to handle the relationship i dont see anything wrong wtih it its only a 7 year age gap would you be like ... (read in full...)
My wife thinks she's a failure and "broken" and "invalid" because she can't have children
Q. My wife and I have been together since we were 20, married since we were 23 and trying for a baby since we were 24. We're now 29 and recently (two months ago) found out that she is infertile. When we got the news, we were both devastated but my wife ...
A. 17 August 2011: im 16 and was told i couldnt have kids this past january (something like a 5% chance of getting pregnant and high risk if i do get pregnant ill miscarry or the baby could be born with birth defects ) and i went through all those feelings and i still ... (read in full...)
Does physical appearance matter much to girls?
Q. Hey guys, this is mainly for teenagers but I would like to hear what others have to say about it too. Does physical appearance matter much to girls, by appearance I mean like muscle or height. Also ive talked with tons of girls that say penis size ...
A. 17 August 2011: yeah when im first attracted to someone i look for tall over 5"10 dark hair dark eyes ( having said the guy i like atm has brown hair and green eyes) broad shoulders and fairly well muscled but not over the top nice eyes and smile. but when i fall ... (read in full...)
How do you get over someone you truly loved?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are on and of we love each other, weve been dating for six months but hes said that hes going through alot and we need a break, well anyways im in eighth grade going to ninth im really hurt and my family and friends keep telling ...
A. 16 August 2011: i can tell you now, its not true love. i know you will get angry at that and i know exactly what youre going through ive been there and in the next few years you will mature so much and realise this boy wasnt worth all this upset and eventually ... (read in full...)
Is it legal to date an ex teacher?
Q. Is it legal? Some close teachers, were aware I had feelings for this teacher. and they were actually okay with it! He never taught me. And yes, mostly everyone has agreed he feels the same. Question is, would he be in trouble with the law? T...
A. 29 July 2011: its not legal. teachers have to wait 2 years since you left the same school as them for them to begin a relationship with you you also have to be 18 for them to do it. a few teachers of mine want to stay friends with me and they can only do it once ... (read in full...)
He hit me across the face, causing me to spill a hot drink over myself and my laptop!!
Q. Dear cupids, am I in the wrong here? I have a big presentation tomorrow and I had asked my boyfriend to be my practice audience when I'd done. Well he knows Iv been feeling pretty crappy at the moment due to the fact Iv been paying off his loan ...
A. 3 February 2011: get out of that relationship. no guy should hit a girl no matter what the situation and yes he was being a idiot he shouldnt have said that and also about not telling you youre beautiful even if you have been together a long time you still need ... (read in full...)
Best friend or professor?? Whom do I choose?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year now. He is one of the most amazing men I have ever met. I have never been with someone so loving, caring, considerate, and funny. I would say he is my best and closest friend I have ever had. We do ...
A. 3 February 2011: i think you need a break from both of them to be honest you need to learn to be happy by yourself before getting into a realtionship and by the way you describe it seems you are happy with neither of these guys you cant see a long term future with ... (read in full...)
I just wish my ex missed me like I miss him
Q. I posted about two weeks ago a rant about breaking up with my bf. We'd been together for 4 years, and on new years eve i told him i didnt know what i wanted anymore an he agreed and after lots of tears we ended it. now he's sticking to it and i ...
A. 16 January 2011: guys actually take break ups harder than girls they just never show it and it doesnt hit them till weeks later then they get upset but he will never show it . all i can say is it will get better with time ... (read in full...)
How far should a 14 year old go sexually?
Q. Hey everyone! I have been wanting an answer to this question for a while, so your opinion would mean a lot to me. :) I am 14 years old and have been dating boy for a year and a half now. He was very innocent at first which was very unexpected....
A. 13 January 2011: no its not wrong at around this age hormones are running wild atm trying to prepare you to have kids as long as its only thoughts and a bit of kissing i dont see the problem. ... (read in full...)
How far should a 14 year old go sexually?
Q. Hey everyone! I have been wanting an answer to this question for a while, so your opinion would mean a lot to me. :) I am 14 years old and have been dating boy for a year and a half now. He was very innocent at first which was very unexpected....
A. 12 January 2011: i went quite far when i was 14 but i didnt have sex i can honestly say it is my biggest regret i have .in fact i only have two regrets in the whole of my high school life and thats one of them i thought i was mature enough to handle it and he loved ... (read in full...)
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