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writes: The boy i like at school has been diagnosed with a tumour on his windpipe. Im really scared for him that it could be cancer as i dont want to see him die. I've never told anyone I like him and hes not at school because hes in hospital. Im confused. I dont know if i want to tell him i like him and am here for him or not say anything. Hes obviously stressed with the tumour so i dont want to add more stress. I dont know what to do please help! Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (13 November 2011):
 Hopefully it's a benign and they can remove it without causing damage to his windpipe.
Given his current physical state, now is not the time to confess your feelings. He needs to focus on his health and getting thru a surgery, chemo, etc.
With that being said, I would visit him at the hospital and engage in some friendly chat. Just keep it friendly until he gets out of the hospital and is on the road to recovery. Then you can tell him about your feelings.
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reader, baby-blue-eyes  +, writes (12 November 2011):
i wouldnt suggest telling him you like him id suggest instead phoning him or sending him saying something along the lines of ' i miss you' or 'im thinking of you'
when i was in hospital a guy i liked said this to me in a card and it meant a lot knowing i had somebody that cared about me even if they couldnt visit cause i was so ill
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (12 November 2011):
 If he's in hospital, he's got a lot of stress and may not even notice if you tell him you like him. People who are ill or in hospital hear things differently due to the stress of the illness, and the stress of being hospitalized.
I would find a way to send him a get well card, to let him know you are thinking of him and then when he's back in school, you can proceed with getting to know him. Now is not a good time to change your status with him, okay?
I hope he gets better quickly!
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reader, livs101 +, writes (12 November 2011):
 i think you should hint it that you have feelings for him, to show him your not only interested whats going on but your there for him properly, and then as you get closer then tell him, it will be worth it, hope this helped
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reader, TrinityHunter +, writes (12 November 2011):
 I wouldn't suggest telling him that yu have feelings for him but yu should definatly let him know that yu care about him and yu'll be there for him, it would really help him get through this situation he's in.
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (12 November 2011):
 I dont think now is the best time to tell humm that you have feelings for him but telling him you care and that you are there for him if he would like that is a great idea.
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