Smitten for my online date. What should I do, wait for him, hoping he may text some day?
Q. Please help, I met this guy via a dating app. He's 40. We met once and slept at the second date. We both liked each other but I'm new to this and newly divorced and he's very seasoned. I clearly seemed to eager and after he didn't reply to 3 of my ...
A. 2 August 2015: Your neediness is what is putting him off. He's already had sex with you and is not calling you back. Move on dear. ... (read in full...)
I can't rely on him. He puts me down. I'm trying to identify what I see in him. What should I do?
Q. Dear Cupid My bf of 4 years says saying monogamous in relationship is stupid, he insists that his mind belongs to me and why do i care what his body does when i love his mind and brain more than his body. I know the conversation sounds stup...
A. 2 August 2015: Oh honey! You've answered your own question! Why be with a guy like this? He is mean, not nice to you and is never around when you need him. MOVE ON! ... (read in full...)
Shall I just cut my losses? When I talk about us moving forward she just blanks me
Q. Hi all. I am a guy of 32,I have been speaking to a girl of 25 for the past seven weeks whom I met online. We have met up and get on brilliantly. She is funny and beautiful. Me being me, I can't get out of my head something she said when we sta...
A. 7 July 2015: Cut you losses. Her message is loud and clear. ... (read in full...)
Shall I just cut my losses? When I talk about us moving forward she just blanks me
Q. Hi all. I am a guy of 32,I have been speaking to a girl of 25 for the past seven weeks whom I met online. We have met up and get on brilliantly. She is funny and beautiful. Me being me, I can't get out of my head something she said when we sta...
A. 7 July 2015: Cut you losses. Her message is loud and clear. ... (read in full...)
His flirting with girls is driving me to distraction. What can I say to him?
Q. I don't know what to do. My boyfriend is a very flirty/charming and talkative person, thus is how we got together two years ago. However he still does it, he still flirts with girls, winking at them in person and via message. He somehow feels li...
A. 7 July 2015: How about good bye? He will never, I repeat NEVER stop this behavior. ... (read in full...)
I acted immaturely towards him and then asked if he wanted to be FWB's, he hasn't responded. Advice?
Q. I met this guy off this dating site. I didnt like him at first, I thought his voice was loud and very pronounced (Im assuming he had to learn how to talk that way from teaching; he is a first year math teacher). He is a good guy though but our ...
A. 4 March 2015: The question that begs to asked is this: Why do you think so little of yourself? What's with the FWB approach? Get a vibrator. If you are sexually frustrated. ... (read in full...)
He doesn't love me but wants to stay friends. Should I?
Q. Hi have been in Relationship for 2years wants to continue friendship but has told me he does not love me .we are both in our early sixties .Do I move on or stay as friends???...
A. 4 March 2015: Are you having sex with him? ... (read in full...)
Can't tell if he's interested or just a flirt.....
Q. I'm tutoring this guy in my summer math class, and he seems like he's interested in me, but he hasn't made a move and I'm really hoping someone can give me some advice on whether he's actually interested or is just a flirt. I've only been tutoring...
A. 30 June 2012: Yes you are overthinking this but you are also a smart young woman by not agreeing to a hook-up. It appears very much that he likes you. Ask him again to grab lunch or a movie or dinner after he gets off work and split the tab There is no shame ... (read in full...)
Each thing I say or do he takes the wrong way, it makes me sad
Q. Hi, I know this guy and it was love at first sight between us. Kinda weird because we never met in real life, and I never believed in love at first sight before him. We were obsessed with each other, always on the phone or videochatting. Please d...
A. 30 June 2012: No he is not worth the fight. He appears rather immature and your reasons for wanting to stay in the relationship (if you can call it that) are not very profound. ... (read in full...)
I just see red flags all over her!
Q. Okay, so about 10-11months ago my boyfriend dated this girl (let's call her Kate). And so after about 3 months of them dating, she decided to break up with him, because another love interest had come her way, and she wanted the other boy. My ...
A. 30 June 2012: So he was talking and flirting with her while you were in the same chat room? He knew you were there? ... (read in full...)
How do I let her know what I think of him without appearing to be the home wrecker?
Q. So i have a question and a problem and because I'm so close to the problem i cant see the bigger picture or solution. one of my friends who became my best friend because we both have kids which are 6days apart we both have partners also tho her...
A. 30 June 2012: No need to confront her, she already is aware of his dreadful behavior. Because you care a great deal for your best friend I want you to ask her why she thinks so little of herself to be with a guy like that. No one can disrespect you unless you ... (read in full...)
How do I let her know what I think of him without appearing to be the home wrecker?
Q. So i have a question and a problem and because I'm so close to the problem i cant see the bigger picture or solution. one of my friends who became my best friend because we both have kids which are 6days apart we both have partners also tho her...
A. 30 June 2012: No need to confront her, she already is aware of his dreadful behavior. Because you care a great deal for your best friend I want you to ask her why she thinks so little of herself to be with a guy like that. No one can disrespect you unless you ... (read in full...)
Am I unreasonable in finding my in-laws overbearing and nasty?
Q. I am seriously in need of some advice. DH and I have been married for about 4 years. We live in the US, his parents live in India (thankfully!). We are all Indians. My in-laws have serious ego issues. From what I hear, FIL has always been a ma...
A. 2 March 2012: Oh honey! You've got bigger problems than what can be solved here. To answer your question, yes! It has to be someone from his family. These people are terrible!
This is what needs to happen ok?
1# Your husband nees to man up. Based on wha... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my FWB guy and I think he's in love with me too. What do I do?
Q. Im in a very complicated fwb situation. We started out as drunk and completly random... he admitted after a few months he kind of had feelings for me, which i hadnt even acknolowdged in myself yet. Few weeks later i see him making out with another ...
A. 2 March 2012: What do you do? Quit being a FWB! There is never a future in a relatioship like that. Sex with no love is empty. This is why you are so unhappy. The only time this guy tells you he has feelings for you is when he is drunk. Really? ... (read in full...)
Are all men rubbish at keeping in touch with their girlfriends?
Q. This is one for the guys. I'm just wondering if generally men aren't interested in keeping in touch with their girlfriends via calls and texts. Not that you don't care about your gfs - but you don't feel the need to keep in touch with them when they ...
A. 2 March 2012: Not everyone likes using the phone for talking or texting and he's made that clear. If he likes to talk to you face to face then I don't think it has anything to do with his feelings for you. If you want a guy who obsessively calls and texts then ... (read in full...)
Feelings of insecurity that b/f will leave me is causing trouble in our relationship
Q. i have been in a happy stable relationship for over half a year now and things are still okay despite the odd hiccup however im starting to become very insecure about losing him.. i constantly have thoughts that he will get bored of me and just lea...
A. 2 March 2012: You know what I think? I think you are the one that wants to break up but don't want to make the first move. Keep behaving the way you are with your obsessive thoughts, moodiness and extreme neediness - he will head for the nearest exit in no ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, what's the best thing to do so she will leave us alone!
Q. My bf's ex gf, what is the best way to have her leave us alone? My bf and I have been back together for almost a year now (we dated 1 yr and a half back then, and broke up) When we were together the first time he talked to his ex here and there, ...
A. 2 March 2012: I see...she sounds like a psycho to me. You and Honeypie are right - just ignore. Don't feed the drama monster, it only gets bigger. If I were you I'd ignore the anonymous female reader who posted here as well. If she knows she's being "played ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend vs FWB. How do you know what the guy thinks of you as?
Q. how do you know if a guy likes you as a possible girlfriend? or if he is just interested in sex- you as a friend with benefits? what are the signs that he wants you as a girlfriend? thanks...
A. 2 March 2012: Trust your gut if you think this guy wants to be FWB then chances are you're right. Listen to Auntie Em, she is spot on. No matter what any guy says, he does not respect a booty call and he's the only one benefiting. Why? Well he gets laid with ... (read in full...)
After our good living together trial period, everything has gone downhill!
Q. Ok so im having a big issue here and im looking for advice or peoples opinion on what they think. So, one day after being tired of being alone, and also needing a place to stay, i decided to look online to try and find a compatible match for my ...
A. 1 March 2012: Sweetie I have to ask you this - why are your standards so low? Why do you think so little of yourself to even bother with a drunk? Get out of there now. Go back home. Desperation in no way equals love. Once you are settled back home get some ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is worried that we aren't compatible!
Q. my girlsfriend and i have been speaking and she says we dont have the friendship factor. we have been together 8 months and she is worried that were not that compatable. there is hardly any convosation when we are together. what can i do...
A. 1 March 2012: Time to move on I'm afraid. It is what it is. You are not compatible but you already know this.
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I would like to express my intellect and views more, with my bf! How do I do this and have him actually listen?
Q. i'd have so many things to talk about with my boyfriend of 2 years. but why is it that i never end up having the kind of conversations i have with my friends?we rarely talk much...i feel somehow bad about this,as i thought we would be able to talk ...
A. 1 March 2012: No this is not what a relationship is comprised of. You are not conversing the way you want because you don't have as much in common as you think you do. And it doesn't sound like he wants to know your mind at all. Why bother with a guy like this ... (read in full...)
Does my teacher still have feelings for me even though I left?
Q. Ok so I published a question like this a whole back when I was at college about my teacher.Im 19 and very mature for my age seeing things in a very adult way.The last question I posted was about my teacher and the response I got was that this ...
A. 1 March 2012: Your ex-teacher's behavior is completely inappropriate and rather creepy. There is no future in a relationship with a guy like this. Head for the nearest exit NOW!... (read in full...)
She constantly believes I'm cheating on her!
Q. Hello people Now I have a really really big problem I love my fiancé to death I never ever want to lose her but the problem is always that she constantly believes I'm cheating on her. The problem here is that she says her proof is her friends...
A. 1 March 2012: Ok you want to be in a relationship with this girl why? Her behavior by the way is exceedingly immature. Why create fake drama with unfounded accusations? Stop trying to convince her that you are faithful - DUMP HER NOW. Get a girl who cares ... (read in full...)
She constantly believes I'm cheating on her!
Q. Hello people Now I have a really really big problem I love my fiancé to death I never ever want to lose her but the problem is always that she constantly believes I'm cheating on her. The problem here is that she says her proof is her friends...
A. 1 March 2012: Ok you want to be in a relationship with this girl why? Her behavior by the way is exceedingly immature. Why create fake drama with unfounded accusations? Stop trying to convince her that you are faithful - DUMP HER NOW. Get a girl who cares ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, what's the best thing to do so she will leave us alone!
Q. My bf's ex gf, what is the best way to have her leave us alone? My bf and I have been back together for almost a year now (we dated 1 yr and a half back then, and broke up) When we were together the first time he talked to his ex here and there, ...
A. 1 March 2012: You two are giving her way to much power. He can easily unfriend/block her on FaceBook (in settings) and he can block her number with his cell phone carrier for about $5 a month. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend impregnated another woman... what do I do?
Q. good day, please advise on my problem. I have a boyfriend of 3 years that i love so much and we have a baby 18 months baby boy, we had our ups and downs in our relationship but we always talk about them and solve them. I just recently found ou...
A. 1 March 2012: LISTEN TO HONEYPIE AND KATIEKATE - THEY KNOW WHAT THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT. ... (read in full...)
I'm still a virgin because every time I try to have sex, I can't.
Q. Hi all! I'm 23 yr old, and I have a prob. I'm still a virgin, and this is so because last (and the first) time I was having sex with my girl (and year and a half back!), I couldn't get an erection, and this happened twice in a row with the same ...
A. 20 October 2011: You are right- you do need help overcoming this. Look, you were probably not in the right place at the right time that this failure to get hard happened and you are letting that shape everything. Don't let that happen. If you are with the right ... (read in full...)
Does he really care... so confused!!
Q. ok heres my problem, i have known this guy friend of mine for five years and we have always been just friends but, he is the sweetest thing such a gentleman always bought me presents never asked for anything in return. we lost contact for a couple ...
A. 20 October 2011: Yes you are being selfish and inconsiderate. He's there to take care of his ill father! Good grief woman you sound like a 14 year old. Get down to Mississippi now! Clearly he want's to be with with you. Haven't you ever noticed how much ... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out? Does she like me?
Q. I used to be really close to a group of girls and suspected one in particular 'liked' me. We were all about seventeen and used to play around together, doing things like spin the bottle, and felt dead comfortable. One night we all slept in the bed ...
A. 19 October 2011: Ben! Ask her out! Seems to me she likes you! It can't hurt and you'll soon find out if she really likes you or not. If she does great! If not, move on. It's really that simple. ... (read in full...)
In the heat of an argument I slapped him!
Q. Okay so I posted a question earlier...It was a long story so I will make it short. I have been with a guy for six months, we are sooo into each other although there have been some issues. Valentines day didn't turn it good at all, it was terrible...
A. 17 February 2011: Never EVER put your hands on another person - PERIOD! ... (read in full...)
I need me time and feel we need to go our separate ways
Q. Hey guys i feel like i asked this question 5 times before and im always hoping for a better easier solution to my problem. Anyway here goes my dilemma. I have been with my girlfriend for 3-4 years now and we have a 2 year old baby girl who i adore ...
A. 17 February 2011: MAN UP! You made a baby. Quit whining and do the right thing. The rest of you guys -- pay attention - stop impregnating inappropriate women. Seriously! There is another life at stake! GROW UP AND STOP THINKING ABOUT ME-- --ME-- ME - YOU'VE GOT A ... (read in full...)
We work two different shifts, and my boyfriend blames me for everything! What should I do?
Q. I'm in a two year relationship where we are on two different work schedules. The problem is everyday I'm at fault for everything that goes on between us. We don't have that much time due to him getting off work at late hours in the morning, and I ...
A. 17 February 2011: Ummmm......find as guy who is less cranky...?... (read in full...)
He verbally abuses me, but we have a son together. Should I stay with him?
Q. Ok, my boyfriend is 6yrs older then me we have a son together. we currently dont live together but we are in the process of buying a house and we plan on getting married. Yesterdayw we got into it, he called me mutiple names and told me i was a ...
A. 17 February 2011: Name calling is never fair and is learned behavior. Look at his family - do they do this nonproductive sort of "communication?" If so - good luck. People from name-calling families rarely see that this is exactly what the problem is. They have no ... (read in full...)
Married only 3 months, and we haven't had sex for 2 months. He watches porn and rejects my advances. Advice needed!
Q. I have been married only 3 months, and we had sex in the 1st month of marriage. I caught my husband watching porn in the morning when I was not around, and we do not have sex now. Whenever I try to seduce him he gets irritated and tells me he's ...
A. 17 February 2011: It's not you - it's him. Get out now.... (read in full...)
I can't get over his flirting! Should I give him another chance or leave?
Q. i been well with my bf for almost 3 1/2 years and right now we are not together, but we see eachother hangout. kiss,,,, same stuff as in a relationship. the reason why is that because he always flirts with girls , very jealous and very controlling. ...
A. 17 February 2011: End it for good. A guy like this will never change - ever. You sound like a nice and faithful girl. Find a man who is worthy of your loyalty and love. ... (read in full...)
Just lost my virginity and need some answers...
Q. So, I recently turned twenty one and I've been with my current boyfriend for four months, who is twenty five. He's the only boyfriend I've ever had and it is very serious and it's likely to lead to marriage. For Valentines Day, we went on a romantic...
A. 16 February 2011: Hi...1. No sex should not be painful even the first time. Women are supposed to produce natural lubrication during foreplay but it's not always enough. Try some drugstore lubricant (in the same aisle as the condoms). 2. Don't worry about having ... (read in full...)
Was I wrong for ending things? He's not over his ex!
Q. I am 46 years old and have been dating a man 53. He has never been married. His last relationship lasted 7 years she left him suddenly for another man and moved to another state. We have been dating for almost a year. I have asked if that ...
A. 12 October 2010: Oh Honey! Here is what you wrote - in your own words: "My gut feeling about him was right all along." That is why you are so upset! You did not listen to your gut (been there done that) and it's the worst feeling - you are upset with yourself. ... (read in full...)
Friend avoids me just to stop rumors from starting
Q. I am married to my bff. I also have another best friend who is also married. We had an emotional affair that ended when work warned us. His wife works in office at our job as well. We still text daily but here is now the problem. He became one of my ...
A. 12 October 2010: This is your bottom line question: How do I get him to realize that it really kills me inside when he avoids me just to avoid rumors? In 2 words - you can't. You are not going to get him to "realize" anything. He only cares about himself. Do ... (read in full...)
Is 17 too young to move out?
Q. hey i have a question and i hope you all can help me out.. ok so my question is that if im 15 now and i have a job that pays very well im saving the money that i earned to move me in to an apartment when im 17..my family thinks its bad for me to ...
A. 2 September 2010: Mrs. Williams...the question I have for you is why do you want to move out? What is so terrible about your home life and family. ... (read in full...)
Is 17 too young to move out?
Q. hey i have a question and i hope you all can help me out.. ok so my question is that if im 15 now and i have a job that pays very well im saving the money that i earned to move me in to an apartment when im 17..my family thinks its bad for me to ...
A. 2 September 2010: Mrs. Williams...the question I have for you is why do you want to move out? What is so terrible about your home life and family. ... (read in full...)
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