How do I shake this feeling of being dirty?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 11 months and we are absolutely besotted with each other. When we first met, he only worked weekends, and soon after we were together, he lost his job. Despite having a very hard time, we had reg...
A. 7 May 2010: i disagree with the fact that sex is important in relationships because there are other ways to share intimacy. u really have to understand that its not that he doesn't want sex, ya'll probably have it enough to the point where is doesn't need it so ... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't want a relationship but still wants to kiss and all that
Q. Well I sorta have a problem.... I really like this guy. And he says he is attracted to Me just does not want a relation ship right now. But he wants to act the same way he has been. Like kissin and all that with Me.... Idk what I should do.? Keep ...
A. 7 May 2010: if u are ready for a relationship and he is not then u have to tell him how u feel and if he still does not want a relationship i say play hard to get and start ignoring him for a while and see if things change and if he does not chase u, there is ... (read in full...)
I felt his birthday present to me was a bit tacky
Q. Iv been seeing my boyfriend for over a year and im questioning on how he really feels about me? When we email he does say he loves me but finds it a bit awkward to say !i love you" when we are together and i usually have to say it 1st.Thats not the ...
A. 7 May 2010: yea that definitely was a gift for him. my thing is u should give him little hints on what u like without really telling him straight up, but u still have to be thankful that he gave u a gift at all okay. ... (read in full...)
I am not sure if he is testing me or trying to control
Q. hi would be grateful for any advice. I met a guy a few weeks ago and he told me straight away that he really likes me and i feel the same. he sees to be testing me non stop in various and perculiar ways and i think he could have been hurt in the ...
A. 7 May 2010: sweety if it has been over a week then this is definitely control. i think u should move on, but if u wanna stick it out, dont just let this guy be the only guy in ur life, i say keep your options open so if things dont turn out, u always have ... (read in full...)
I just want it to end with me having a little self respect
Q. I cant live with what I keep doing with this guy. I know he isn't interested in dating me and just sees me a cheap thrill but everytime he hits on me I give in and we end up kissing and doing oral sex (never sex)and a day or 2 after it I feel bad, ...
A. 7 May 2010: girl i think u just need to leave cuz evidently there is no respect here from this part, and yes u do deserve respect because u recognize that what u are doing is wrong and nothing good can come out of this. a player is always a player until he ... (read in full...)
Wrong to have sex with my cousin?
Q. hi im a singal gal n i fall for my cousin who happen to be a hunk. he came n stay with my family for about 2 yrs now cus he studin near my place. last week my parent were out so i was along with my cous. i wore a set of black semi-tra...
A. 24 May 2009: yes it is wrong to have sex with your cousin. he is family no matter what and that is not godly at all. u really shouldnt be haveing sex anywayz out of lust cuz if it was really love, yall should have waited. we fall for people all the time and it ... (read in full...)
Would you feel guilt if this happened to someone you had dated?
Q. I was with my ex for over 2 years. He dumped me out the blue for Space, which i gave him. But he Dumped me 2 days before i had some results from a MRI Scan i had. (he knew the results was coming, i had the Scan a week befiore the split ) I Didn’t ...
A. 24 May 2009: i would feel guilty of the fact that something like this would happen to someone so young but he had his reasons to break up and i would feel guilty not being there for you. im really sorry that you have this and i hope god blesses you and gets ... (read in full...)
In love & confused!
Q. ok so i was with my exbf for two months..i fell head ovr heels for him..he was really amazing and well he ended up breaking up with me bcuz he sed he wasnt ready and i guess wen i tld him i loved him he didnt take it the way i wanted him to..it ...
A. 24 May 2009: i think you should have a talk with him and tell him how u feel. only wait if u really truely feel that he is worth fighting for sweety. you need to confront him about this or ur just wasteing your time and stressing over him for nothing and you ... (read in full...)
First time sex, why could he not get the entire length of his penis inside me?
Q. i had sex with my boyfriend for the first time last week and it was ok but he couldnt get the entire length of his penis inside me because when he got a certain place inside me it hurt and he couldnt get any further in. this happens when i wear ...
A. 23 May 2009: ok sweety i really suggest you not have sex because that is a huge decision, and u have to understand that everyones bodies are different. some people can wear them adn others cant.but you should go and see your doctor to make sure that nothing is ... (read in full...)
I don't know where my life is headed or even where I want it to head
Q. I'm 19 years old, i'm living in a one bedroom flat with my 28 year old boyfriend who goes out to work for eight hours every day, and generally comes home tired or in a mood. We have a kiss and a cuddle, maybe watch a film, he'll cook us some tea ...
A. 23 May 2009: i think you need to try harder to find a job, i know your life is depressing but it is up to you to change it. life waits for no one, if you want to change it you have to get up and do it yourself. sometimes in life you are going to be on your own. ... (read in full...)
Daughter doesn't like my boyfriend at all!
Q. help i'v been seeing jon for nine months after being on my own for almost 2 years. my 17 year old daughter doesn't like him. she says he gets on her nerves and she can't stand him. i can tell this when he comes to my house. she really says ...
A. 23 May 2009: ok first of all YOU are the MOTHER and SHE is the DAUGHTER. you better put her in her place. if Jon makes you happy then stay with him. oh and she should be punished for staying out until four in the morning, that is how teens get kidnapped raped ... (read in full...)
I'm alone in my world and no one to love me
Q. Everyday, it's the samething for poor lil' ol' me: I eat, sleep, play (video games), use the internet a lot, and that's it. The only times I ever really go outside are when I need to buy something and when I have an appointment. Sad, but true. H...
A. 23 May 2009: first of all dont be gettin a suididal cuz i care about you and i dont even know you. but anywayz you really need to get out more, u say that you are alwayz at home playing video games and such and u want to be the guy getting alot of chicks, so get ... (read in full...)
I don't want to go through life with an ugly surname!
Q. Many people won't understand how I feel, but I have a surname that I have hated since I was a child, so much that it feels like a burden to me. I know there are much bigger problems, but it bothers me to have an ugly, generic name that I don't ...
A. 23 May 2009: ok first of all ignore the previous poster because i think that she was harsh. and if you dont like your name then mabe u should change it. but me personally i my opinion is that god gave you the name he wanted you to have, im sure he blessed you ... (read in full...)
Never been kissed, never had a g/f!
Q. I don't know whats wrong with me i'm 18 and never been kissed i've never had a girlfriend.i've had a few friends who are girls but nothing happened i have very low self esteem and don't think highly of my self i'm not good looking and a bit over ...
A. 23 May 2009: ok first of all u have to boost your confidence. look in the mirror and tell yourself that u are handsome. if u say that u are not goodlooking then you are not. u must put on the confidence and people will recognize it. mabe u can start asking girls ... (read in full...)
Should I hang out with my friend's ex?
Q. Right, I'm quite good friends with this guy and girl who were a couple of about 8 months until yesterday. The girl had a crush on me a few years ago but as far as I know, she doesn't anymore. The guy was pouring his heart out to me tonight, and...
A. 18 May 2009: I don't think you should be hanging out with her because an eight month relationship is a long time to be dating and if she is flirting already and doesn't have an ounce of sadness that tells me that she is not serious in relationships. You should ... (read in full...)
My husband is gay and is seeing my BROTHER!
Q. I found out my husband is gay a while back but although i moved out we were still very close and we have 5 children one who is disabled, but 3 weeks ago my brother turned up and they started a relationship straight away and moved in together! I ...
A. 18 May 2009: no u are not being unreasonable. u need to divorce him, first because he already betrayed your vows and second because he is dating a guy which is against the bible, he betrayed your trust, what kind of brother would do that to you anywayz, this ... (read in full...)
I feel I can't hold in how I feel about him much longer.
Q. Okay so I really like this boy, he has a girlfriend, who he has been with for 5 months. They have broken up a few times, and whenever they have he came to me and I listened to him. He complained about her several times to me, but then goes and makes ...
A. 18 May 2009: um i really suggest that u tell him how you feel because there may be a chance that he like you more than his girlfriend. it is a risk to lose a friendship over this but you have to ask yourself is he really worth it? laughs and fun only go so long ... (read in full...)
I'm still a virgin and I'd like to keep it that way!
Q. Okay, First i'm sorry if this has already been asked before... But here we go. Well about a year ago, i started dating a guy, that i eventually thought i was in love with. He was kind of a jerk, he took things really fast, as in he tried to make...
A. 18 May 2009: hiiiiiiiii lolz um girl i say keep your virginity, there aint no guy in this world that is worth losing your viginity over ok. im a virgin too and ive been in four relationships. its normal to like guys that get physical, but u need to be the one to ... (read in full...)
My wife loves another man, what should I do
Q. My wife and I have been married for almost 6 years. Recently she developed a friendship with a man at work. They became really close and while I was away for work, he came over to say goodbye to her cause he was going away for work also, and things ...
A. 18 May 2009: sorry to say this but your wife may love you but she does not deserve you. dude she already told you that she fell in love with him. u should have left her then. if she is with you and in love with someone else, that should tell you that you should ... (read in full...)
How can I get the confidence to approach girls without feeling rejection
Q. i am 22 and very insecure. i have never had a proper g/f and find it hard to approach girls for fear of rejection. i portray myself as a carefree individual but that could not be further from the truth. i take negative comments very personally. i ...
A. 17 May 2009: hi ok first of all u say that u are a carefree individual but yet to take negitive comments personally, that is not a good mixture because if u are careless that means your confidence is great and high. in life, you have to learn how not to take ... (read in full...)
Worried that he wont like me when he sees me
Q. ok so here it is. i am really nervous.. this boy (a friends, friend) and i have been talking on msn and he asked me out. ive said yes and we are going to meet in a weeks time. i have met him twice like with my friends always liked him but didnt kn...
A. 17 May 2009: if this guy really likes you he wont care what your teether looks like ok. and if he is disgusted, he aint worth your time sweety k. i think you should tell him first though so you wont end up getting hurt in person if he does have a problem with it ... (read in full...)
Just found out that my boyfriend got me AND my best friend pregnant
Q. hi iam 16yrs old and i have just left my bf after i found out he had another child. the childs mum is my best friend the child is 1year old. me and my ex bf have been together for 9 1/2 months, so he did not cheat on me. he says he loves me but i ...
A. 17 May 2009: ok i know this may be hard but you really need to tell him about u being pregnant as sooon as possible sweety. and that is before he goes on his little holiday break. you say that he has been faithful but u have to understand that he will alw... (read in full...)
My b/f's ex reveals she likes me
Q. my best friend's ex gf reavels she 'likes' me after breaking up with him. although i like her too, she says we can't date because of the fact that she wants to leave in peace. what should I do to convince her to give ourselves a chance? i'd ...
A. 17 May 2009: though u really like her is is not a good friend to go out with your bestfrinds ex. after all there is a reason why u and your bestfriend are bestfriends so u must think alike so if their relationship didnt work out it probley wont for you.
but ... (read in full...)
Wife had affair. don't know what to do.
Q. i've been married for 6 years now, and it's been pretty happy up until recently. a couple of days ago, i accidentally overheard a conversation between two of my wife's friends and it was revealed that my wife had an affair with one of her cowor...
A. 17 May 2009: first of all the godly thing to do in this relationship is forgive her. but the thing is you are free to end the marriage because that is the one of the only ways that u have gods permission to end the marriage because she wasent being faithful
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Does it sound like she still loves me?
Q. I'm not sure how too go about finding out that question. So, I thought I'd come here and ask for advice after I told you part of the situation. We started dating in Feb 09' we've known one another for nearly a yr and a half before that. It was the ...
A. 17 May 2009: to me if she was infering to be friends then she wasent probley feeling your relationship. she probley wants to be friends to keep u in her life but dosent want to hurt you but dosent know how to tell you. i suggest u sit her down and talk to her ... (read in full...)
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