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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:i had sex with my boyfriend for the first time last week and it was ok but he couldnt get the entire length of his penis inside me because when he got a certain place inside me it hurt and he couldnt get any further in. this happens when i wear tampons too. i often cant weat them properly beacuse they wont go far enough in because there is some sort of boney part of me in the way. is this normal? what do you think it could be?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009): What you feel is called your hymen. When female is still a virgin she has a hymen. When a virgin girl has sex for the first time her hymen is broken. It is bloody and painful. Not to scare you or anything.
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reader, Leanne1234 +, writes (23 May 2009):
a person knows whether there ready to have sex or not; this girl didnt say 'oh my boyfriend was forcin me to have sex' she said 'she had sex with her boyfriend for the first time and he couldn't get the full length of his penis inside her'. its extremely irritating when people start telling you when to have sex and when not to. if the time is right and the sex is safe then it will be ok.
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reader, arie  +, writes (23 May 2009):
 ok sweety i really suggest you not have sex because that is a huge decision, and u have to understand that everyones bodies are different. some people can wear them adn others cant.but you should go and see your doctor to make sure that nothing is wrong. oh and i reeaaalllyyyy strongly suggest you dont have sex with your boyfriend ok because if he really loved you, he would force you to wait. i know it is exciting and you may love or be in love with him but u should just wait. atleast until your sixteen or older so it wont be illegal
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reader, love-struckxo  +, writes (23 May 2009):
 It could be because your hymen hasn't been broke yet, and it's harder for tampons to relax inside your vagina, same with your boyfriends penis.
But maybe go to the doctor, just to be safe.
Best of luck
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2009): Pretty sure you should go to a doctor and stop having sex cause ur still a little girl and ur just gonna screw up ur life one of these days.
good luck
and
stay safe
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2009): think you need to have a talk with a doctor - there could be something that could be sorted easily by them - i would tell your mum about the tampon thing - then use that as a lead in...
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