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female
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30-35,
*6_teen_girl
writes:ok im 16 and my boyfriend is 19 and he wants to have sex and part of me wants to but then im always scared about getting pregnant also he wont use a condom because he likes the feeling of one off im on the shot but please help me and give me options on what to do?????
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (6 April 2010):
 So he's only having sex with girls without a condom? Pregnancy is a concern, but right now, I'll bet this guy has been exposed to several STIs. Chlamydia and HPV (the virus that causes genital warts and has been linked with cervical cancer) are very common in your age bracket. I think the number is 1 in 4 teens have been exposed. If he's not wearing a condom, the likelihood he's a carrier goes wayyyy up. His penis is like a mobile petri dish, full of nasty, hidden organisms that can cost you your future health and fertility. VBI, as we like to say. Very Bad Idea.
I'd probably remind him that sex with a condom feels a hell of a lot better than no sex. His choice.
Be strong, be smart. You are the one in charge of your body and things go wrong very quickly. Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2010): No condom= pregnancy! no amount of contraceptives for women that is available will only work if you work with it by giving it a helping hand by using a condom. You should really think about yourself in this situation because if you get pregnant would he stay? The likeliness is that he will run like the wind, and then you will be stuck with the situation of having a baby or having an abortion. if he does stay then great but then that means you both have a very unlikely future, together and having a career. seriously dont do it, and get out of the "relationship" while you can. x
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reader, advice angel  +, writes (5 April 2010):
 if you dont want to gt pregnant you need to wear a condom wether he likes it or not,and if he want to have sex but your not ready then if he loves you,he'll wait because he should respect you as your boyfriend,but ALWAYS WEAR A CONDOM!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2010): i seriously suggest waiting for someone elses response but in the meantime, i dont care what your bf says... ALWAYS WEAR A CONDOM!
Your wayyyy to young to risk anything! Chances are this boy will not be in your life forever, and is it honestly worth potentially having an STD because it 'feels' better for him. Its good your on birth control but there are other things you can not prevent...
If he continues to pressure you for sex with out a condom, especially at your first go together, drop him.
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