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writes:Ok so I've known this girl for a few years. She is frighteningly gorgeous but I don't think she knows it because she doesn't like looking at pictures of her self. She comes across as bossy and smart, but I've known her long enough to know she isn't like that.Anyway, she is a family friend. She likes talking with me. She says I need to come visit her because she lives in a different town.The thing is, I've had a huge crush on this girl since the moment I met her. I've been completely blown away by how gorgeous she is every time I've been around her, but I never said anything. I always felt like I had to mature more and make myself more of a man before I could ask her out, since she is older than me and more mature. I'm older now, and have changed a lot.My question is, what do I do to progress things with her and find out if she likes me? I know I'm supposed to take things slow. Do I call her and talk to her, and try to meet up with her? She would be up for meeting anytime and doing anything since we are friends. How can I see if she wants to be more than a friend? I've always had a feeling that she might have a big crush on me too. However, she is a family friend and if she doesn't like me and I said or did something stupid, then it would be pretty bad.Also I'm not crazy and know it's stupid to put all your eggs in one basket and go for one girl, especially since she could easily reject me. Usually I'm not like this but every time I talk to her I can't stop thinking about her for months.
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reader, advice angel +, writes (5 April 2010):
 you are friends and thats a very good start (:
by the sounds of it,you have a good chance of her liking you back,i would say you's need to meet up and discuss your friendship and even if its a no,you's sound so close that it wouldnt even get in the way,sooooo all i can say is go and get her!!!! ;)
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 April 2010):
 Ask her directly in a joking way if she has any b/f and whether you can be her b/f.
This way , you would know if you have any chance or not. This would also signify to her that you intent to up your friendship to a higher level.
Whatever the answer, you can still be friends unless give her up. Prepare for rejections in case the answer is not you expected.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2010): You are already friends, make plans to visit her, hang out, be yourself, have fun!! If you want to step up the relationship, you got to work at it, make an effort! Show her your supreme awesomeness!!!!! Good luck
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