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writes:Hi,I'm a 14 year old girl, just started high school and turning 15 in 2 months.So I've been thinking lately that i would like to have a boyfriend.Ive had many relationships before but obviously they didn't. my longest was 3 years , 9 months, then 6 months. now, nothing. I still get guys who hit on me but im tired of getting hurt by jerks. i know what i want but i dont know how to get it. I took a year and a half off from relationships and have learned to love myself but it gets lonely. :/ how to I get a good guy? help? :/ Reply to this Question
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reader, advice angel  +, writes (5 April 2010):
 getting a good guy could take years,you have to date many jerks untill you find your prince,if getting a good guy was easy,it would be alot more simple for us girls but unfortunatly its not easy,there are so many boys in this generation that cheat,dont respect there girlfriends,or even worse lie and abuse there girlfriends.
if i could find a nice pleasant guy,i'd jump right to it bbut things like these take time :/ x
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reader, Ich_liebe_dich  +, writes (5 April 2010):
 getting a good man is not easy. first you have to love your self, respect your self, school, be responsible to your self. if you have a good education, you will have a good place in job and society' there you will find a lots of good person, well educated, not a people in the street who sale drugs, lots of alcohol with out control etc etc... i hope this would help, i think you are a lovely lady and pretty. just be always nice to your self ok.. goodluck..
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks "strongfp" and "therealist" you guys helped alot. I just got started talking to this kid I met and he's actually really nice...let's just see if this works out. :]
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (5 April 2010):
 Try being friends at first. Nothing sexual or serious until you actually get to know each other. Tell him right off the bat that this is what you want to do. If he respects that then he's off to a good start, then you can make your calls from there. Any jerk can hit on you but they will fall through on the getting to know each other part while the nice guy won't be as strong of a flirt but the friendship, then relationship will be true.
There are good guys out there so don't give up. They are just usually not front and center where you will notice them.
Good luck.
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