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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend has women who work at nightclubs as his friends on facebook.For two years, he controlled my friends, told me who I had to delete who I was allowed to accept and it's finally getting to me. He told his sister-in-law to remove me from her friends and then removed that he was in a relationship with me - but was telling me that we were. This morning I told him that he would have an absolute fit if I had men who worked at nightclubs as my friends and he told me that my friends who graduated from West Point were of the same caliber as his women "friends" wearing corsets and serving alcohol until the wee hours of the morning.Am I being blind? Is that a fair comparison?
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reader, advice angel  +, writes (5 April 2010):
 if i found out my boyfriend had friends on facebook who where women working in night clubs in sexy lingery,i would be very happy :/
but you can not accuse him of anything if he is innoocent,however him taking off that he is in a relationship with you,there is something wrong there,i think you's both need to sit down and talk and see where you's both think your relationshiip stands x
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2010): To simply answer the question...that is probably ridiculous.
But more importantly, he shouldn't tell you what to do, and he shouldn't be hiding his relationship with you. Honestly, it sounds like he might be two-timing, or at least a little embarrassed by you. I would consider getting out of that relationship right away.
It is not an issue of how you are worthy of being treated, but of what kind of person he is. Letting him use you won't help anyone.
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